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In fact, many people let me talk about the Xi'an man Wang Moufei violently beat his wife, and finally closed for 5 days.
At the beginning, I was quite indignant, and the main point of indignation was that I was so fierce that I was locked up for 5 days.
So I said at the time:
Oh, I know, hit the subject on the head, as long as you don't kill, that's five days of detention.
The police will mash up the paste to make the beaten one and the hands-on understand each other.
Married female compatriots arm themselves, this is not a matter of tolerant men, but tolerant hands-on people.
If you don't want to be beaten, you have to master the ability to beat people. Women don't lose weight, lose their hands and feet, and have no ability to fight back.
Eat more meat and practice more power outbreaks.
If you are beaten back by domestic violence, you will be imprisoned for five days.
Pillow man, can't beat the front, doesn't he sleep?
Really, there's a marriage license in town, five days only.
My original intention in writing this paragraph is that the cost of domestic violence is so small.
In fact, as soon as I saw the mutual understanding between women and men, and the return of men to the family, I probably knew what was going on.
If we look at this matter further, you will find out that in fact, this woman may not have planned to divorce at all in the first place, because her sunk cost was too large.
Not only this woman, a considerable part of the women who are beaten by their husbands and are reluctant to divorce are almost all such a brain circuit, I will give you a look.
Maybe this matter is really a bit ruined, but it is good to consult with me, or to listen to my peers, everyone puts the logic down, almost all of them are like this.
Let's first look at who hates whom in this relationship, and who can't do without whom.
At present, it is obvious that men do not look down on women, and men are not willing to spend money on women. The man's wings finally hardened, and he felt that he could still climb the better conditions of the woman, he wished that his wife and children should hurry up and roll well, so that he could start the second spring lightly.
The female is not good in this man's bad that is not good, our normal people's brain circuit is that he is already like this, do not break up and stay for the New Year?
This woman is not.
This woman's trouble for half a day, in essence, needs to be through public opinion and the discipline of the police uncle, let her kissing husband be honest, do not always think about what other women can be found outside, she is using public opinion to lock this scumbag at home and pay more.
Because she had no way out, her family told her not to divorce, with these considerations:
First, you have to come back with your children in a disgraceful state, and the two of you eat us, live in us, and use our labor, and we suddenly have two more people on our good days.
Second, if you have to bring the child back, you are going to work now, you should have been tired of the mother-in-law's family, and now you are tired of our two sons, and the child does not have my surname, what should I rely on?
Third, the child is not wanted, you do not say that you have a child for free, and you have to pay child support every month. And you can't work, you're old and have children, you're old, what better can you find?
Of course, it is also possible that the fourth, when we did not look at not letting you marry, you yourself had to marry. Well, now that something is wrong, all your bad consequences are on your own, and we won't wipe your ass for you.
That is to say, the opportunity cost of this kind of woman who has no ability, mate selection and marriage is indeed a great loss for herself.
If you ask her to find a rural person who gives a high bride price, she may also hate the income of others. Later, the child's development will not work.
She is well aware that it may be a little difficult for her to find a man with her husband's condition in a married and childbearing state.
Since they can't find a better one, in any case, maintaining and correcting the status quo is the best solution for them, which is a very real problem.
Knock on the blackboard, we can't measure this kind of woman with the brain circuits of ordinary people. Because we may have more or less chips than her, not to mention such a serious thing as domestic violence, we have encountered uncomfortable things with room for picking, whether it is our own survival ability or mate selection ability, or the ability of the mother's family, we are better than her.
Because we accumulated these strengths when we were young, we were able to make such a choice.
She's not making a fuss about breaking up, she's not breaking up.
So she chose to expose this man's ugly behavior and let this man die socially.
The woman's own thoughts are: After I let you die socially, I will see if the woman you can look up to can still look up to you.
But she didn't think that the play was too big, so big that she lost her husband's job.
This relationship of loss and loss is like a person raising a cow and relying on cattle to survive.
Lately, cattle have not been very obedient, have not done a good job, and have always kicked cattle.
The cattle breeder is in a hurry, so he takes the whip and smokes it. The original intention was that the cow would henceforth obey and do a good job.
I didn't expect to play collapsed, and the cow was crippled, and the cow couldn't work at all.
You say she's angry??
She didn't pinch her nose and talk to this man because she loved this man, but purely hoped that this man would do more work as a cow and kick less people.
Because in this matter, she had done nothing wrong from beginning to end, and she felt that she deserved to let the cow do a good job.
This cow is so bad that she wants to teach a lesson, but she can't bear the consequences of teaching too hard and lame the cow.
Because she herself depends on cattle to eat.
It is such a symbiotic relationship.
So women living in this muddy world will behave in a way that makes us ordinary people unbelievable, because they really can't live without this cow.
Although this cow kicks people, it is still working and useful.
Without this cow, she might have to look for sheep and donkeys next time.
She was not willing to look for sheep and donkeys. Because the conditions of the sheep pen donkey shed are worse.
Therefore, the matter of detention for 5 days is not necessarily the thing that this man did only deserve to be detained for 5 days.
If you want to detain for a few more days, maybe the woman herself will have to fight with the police.
Personally, I find this kind of person pathetic and hateful.
Because she made these broken things in the family bigger, and personally forgave the people who beat her, the social impact was very bad, and we passers-by could only see such terrible violence, and the cost was only 5 days.
I've said many times that the family is not an umbrella of violence. If you dare to call the police when you are beaten, the police dare to arrest them.
Regretting it is useless.
How to close how to close. Press to hit a stranger to deal with.
Those who were beaten were going to make trouble, and they were caught in one piece at a time.
But maybe I'm more law-blind, interlaced like a mountain. Is it five days to beat a stranger like this? There are no sisters to solve the puzzle.
I remember a man who saw his teacher who bullied him many years ago, slapped him, and then how long did he stay locked up? Where is this teacher more expensive than his wife Jin?
I was disgusted by this incident, because the police notice said that it was because the woman had overspoken and acted, so she was beaten.
Then, the police did not release the excessive words and deeds, in the end, did they scold the man twice? Or push him a little, or the same as the man, hit him madly on the head, or take a knife to stab the man, we don't know.
But this group of people who stirred up the muddy waters, skillfully using the kerosene lamp effect we talked about earlier, said that the woman deliberately provoked the man, the man beat her, and then she set a trap to let the man die, which is really vicious.
I remember the matter of Wang Lihong some time ago, one of the parties deliberately provoked the other party, causing the other party to be hysterical, and I also told you how to deal with such a person:
First calm treatment,
The second is to break up and break up.
Oh, this video is still there.
We women never say this when we talk about it:
Because you provoked me, I'm going to beat you up.
Right?
Then we do not double-standard to say, even if this woman has unknown over-radical words and deeds to provoke the man first, is this man should do the following:
First, deal with it calmly and not be provoked. Leave evidence of the woman's verbal abuse or even manipulation.
Second, I have the evidence in hand, I want to break up with you, will be very clear to everyone, what I am for what parting hands.
What does hitting someone do?
And when I saw that scene, it was not the first time, and the person who pulled the frame knew that his son could not eat the loss, and he had long been numb to do the show, and the child only knew how to protect the daughter.
Taking ten thousand steps back, since you want to break up with this woman to find a better one, personally give this big handle into the hands of others and let yourself die, this is a stupid and incompetent act.
I hope that everyone has this ability not to bet their lives on marriage, marriage must be a thing that is the icing on the cake for us.
Before marriage, we first make our own icing on the cake.
Have the ability to survive independently, have the vision of picking men, and have the ability to get along with men and balance men.
Don't let your people live so muddy.