As we all know, the love of parents is the greatest love in the world, it does not care about the consequences and gains and losses, even when life is difficult, most parents will choose to wronged themselves and strive to give their children a good life, rather than giving up on their children.
But not all parents are like this, and not all children are like Sun Zhuo, lucky to meet parents like Sun Haiyang.
Like the Sun Haiyang son-hunting incident that was raging some time ago, even if Sun Zhuo lost more than ten years, his biological parents still did not give up looking for him, and they searched hard, which really interpreted the love of his parents to the extreme.
At this time, someone opened an online search for relatives again because of Sun Haiyang's success, and he was Liu Xuezhou.
01, online search for relatives is finally successful
Liu Xuezhou, 15 years old this year. Shortly after he was born, he was bought by his adoptive parents. Later, the three of them went to live together in Xingtai, Hebei Province.
When he was four years old, her adoptive parents died unexpectedly due to an explosion accident, and the house was blown up, after which he began a wandering life.
Thanks to the help of his adoptive parents and relatives, who gave him a bite to eat, he was able to survive.
And he also began to go to boarding school from a young age, coupled with the status of an orphan, he was bullied by his classmates. He also had some low self-esteem and autism, and suffered from major depression and committed suicide, but did not die.
He felt that life was hard and there was no hope. When he was 13 years old, he knew that many parents of abducted children were struggling to find their children.
He thought his parents might be looking for him too, he wanted to find his home, so he started an online search.
He saw the news that Sun Haiyang had successfully found his child, and he was even more determined to find his relatives.
He posted a video online about himself, but it turned out to be a sea of stones, and no parents came to claim him.
But he did not give up, he asked his grandparents who raised the family, did he know the information of his biological parents, and the grandparents suddenly remembered, as if the vaccination book was there.
Liu Xuezhou tried to type it online according to his father's name on the vaccine book, and really let him find something.
He saw a man on the Internet who had the same name as his biological father and opened several companies. So he pressed the phone above, and with the help of the police, the two sides recognized each other.
Liu Xuezhou finally found his home, according to the general routine, he was separated for many years, back to his home, the biological parents must be very guilty, will work hard to compensate him, and then they live happily with each other.
02, reunion life is not beautiful
But life is not a fairy tale, and her biological parents are not like Sun Zhuo's parents.
His own parents were not surprised or excited to see him.
At the recognition ceremony, Liu Xuezhou and his biological father sat at the dinner table to eat, and the two did not have any intimate gestures.
There is also a photo of Liu Xuezhou and her biological mother together, we can see that his mother is very beautiful and dressed very festively, but this is not to welcome Liu Xuezhou to wear this way, this is to give his brother a birthday to wear this way.
Poor Liu Xuezhou, on the other hand, never enjoyed the treatment of his mother giving him a birthday.
It may be that Liu Xuezhou has not lived with his parents for many years, and the feelings between the two sides are not deep. But what happens to you next leads to a big reversal of all situations.
It is understood that Liu Xuezhou, who began to go home, still had a warm time. Father welcomed him back, gave him 5,000 yuan, and promised him that he would bear the tuition fees in the future.
His mother also met with him, booing and asking for warmth, telling him to pay attention to his body.
But then he knew that his parents had remarried and had each other's families, and he couldn't get into it, and he had no place to live, only when he stayed in a hotel.
So Liu Xuezhou asked them to rent him a house or spend money to buy one. But such a thin-ice relationship no longer exists when it touches the interests of the other party.
His parents blocked him.
03, the truth of trafficking floats on the surface
What is the reason for this? It turned out that his parents had remarried, and Liu Xuezhou had no place to live, so he made a request to both sides.
It costs a lot of money to buy a house, Liu Xuezhou can think of it at a young age, doesn't he know that it takes a lot of money to buy a house? I don't think he knows, and I don't blame his biological parents for being so angry.
After all, this move is a bit greedy.
So Liu Xuezhou broke the news on the Internet, saying that he was not separated from his parents, but was sold by his parents.
He said that his father had a family at that time, had a son, and his mother, as the third child, intervened in their marriage, pregnant and gave birth to Liu Xuezhou, and then his father divorced, the two of them were ready to get married, but they were opposed by the parents of both sides, so Liu Xuezhou was sold, and the money was used as a dowry for his father to marry his mother.
Soon after the two married, the father had a third child and divorced again. After that, the two parties remarried separately and each had a family.
And the relationship between the children of the father's family is also complicated, half-brothers and sisters, their families do not lack children, nor is it rare for him to have this one.
Liu Xuezhou also exposed a recording of her phone call with her mother, in which we heard her mother say, "If it weren't for them, there would be a better family to support you."
It can be seen that his mother is not a responsible mother, how selfish and selfish this is!
So he and his biological parents tore each other on the Internet, and his biological mother accused him, saying that he was young and not simple, and he wanted a house as soon as he came up, chatted with his own parents, and left a hand, such a child she did not dare to want.
And the biological father also said that he was packaged by people, deliberately sold miserably, and netizens were fools who ate melons.
After all, now that he has some popularity, it is difficult to guarantee that the next step will be to use netizens to live stream to sell goods.
But we can see that his parents want to find an excuse to throw him away, maybe Liu Xuezhou also has problems, but all the roots are caused by their own hands, and his parents don't want to make up for it and correct it, they just want to get rid of his baggage.
Liu Xuezhou also questioned his biological parents online, accusing them of abandoning him.
Liu Xuezhou said that he saw that Sheng En and his younger siblings needed them to raise them, and did not file a lawsuit against them for the crime of abandonment, what was wrong with him just wanting to have a family?
But he was now angered by the lies of his biological parents, and repeatedly stressed that he was educated and knew how to behave, and that he was not an unreasonable person like them.
Liu Xuezhou's move is not simple, think about it is also a 15-year-old teenager, how many ups and downs he has experienced, if he is simple, how can he live.
But we also have to admit that he went through many hardships and suffered a lot, all of which were caused by the hands of his own parents.
After all, a normal family, two healthy young people, but can not support a child, can only show that his biological parents are irresponsible, even their own biological children can be abandoned.
Compared with Sun Zhuo's parents, Liu Xuezhou is indeed pitiful and pathetic.
04, write at the end
The tragedy of Liu Xuezhou's life is largely because of his parents, if his parents are responsible people, he may have grown up in a sound home, rather than a lonely wandering.
Father and son, mother and son, are all fates cultivated in previous lives. Raising children well is the greatest blessing in this life. Let the child truly appreciate the love of the parents and have a grateful heart from the heart.
How to be a person, to be a child, to be a parent is something that we need to practice.
And some parents are born without raising, some raise children but do not treat them well, in the name of moral kidnapping, such parents are our warnings.
Parents, since they have decided to have a child, they must raise him well, assume the responsibility of parents, do not easily abandon it, he is also a small life, and a move of his parents has affected his life.
I hope that all parents in the world can be like Sun Zhuo's parents, and I also hope that the children in the world will not go through ups and downs like Liu Xuezhou and can live happily.