3 days ago was my husband's birthday, the son brought his girlfriend back to let us meet, the little girl is the leader of a foreign-funded enterprise, the annual salary of 500,000. What I didn't expect was that such a one had

3 days ago was my husband's birthday, the son brought his girlfriend back to let us meet, the little girl is the leader of a foreign-funded enterprise, the annual salary of 500,000. What I didn't expect was that such a qualified and cultured person actually had that habit when eating. After dinner, my husband and I both advised our son to break up with his girlfriend, and we were both surprised by my son's words.

I used to be a lawyer, my husband is a police officer, and now he is retired. The pension is quite large, adding up to nearly 2,000 yuan. My favorite thing to do is square dancing and raising flowers, I travel once a year, and life is quite good.

The thing that worries both of us the most is that my son is 30 years old and not yet married, not even a partner. My son is the pride of both of us, and after graduating from high school, he was admitted to 211 University with excellent grades.

Now that he has graduated and works in the bank, he is capable and has a salary of 20,000 yuan, which is enough for him to live. My husband and I paid him a down payment for a 130-square-meter three-bedroom house, and my son repaid the loan. Only in the matter of finding a girlfriend seems to be not very well-informed, so we are both anxious.

Last year, the son did talk about a girlfriend by himself, similar to the age of the son, is a nurse, especially housekeeper, people are also very beautiful, originally the two of us were very much in favor of the two of them together, and then a chance, I learned from the son that his girlfriend's mother has been lying in bed, is half dead. I was afraid that the pressure on my children would be too great in the future, and I strongly opposed them being together, and my son had no choice but to break up.

Later, the child kept rejecting the object of our introduction to him, and I knew that the child had a grudge in his heart and felt that we interfered with his choice. But we are people who come here, and we don't want the second half of our children's lives to be too bitter.

Last week, my son suddenly told us that he had a girlfriend, was an executive at the company, and that the two had been talking for three months and wanted to bring them back to meet the two of us. After we listened to it, we were very happy, and I said to my son: "It is your father's birthday in two days, let the girl come to the house, I will make two dishes for us, let's chat!" ”。

My son said that he likes to eat crabs and pippi shrimp, so I went to the seafood market to buy the best crabs and shrimp, and bought a fish, I want to make a meal for the children, and laughed to my husband that this birthday has a blessing, and my husband also smiled and said that this is the light of the children.

On that day, the son took his girlfriend back home, after being introduced to us, I silently lamented in my heart that my son's vision was good, this girlfriend had white skin and tall, not to mention, the whole person went to that station with a temperament, is a big beauty, the first impression gives us a particularly good feeling!

The son introduced: "Parents, this is my girlfriend, called Huan Huan, two years younger than me, young is already the leader of the company, the annual salary of 500,000 yuan!" I was very happy after listening to it, in fact, I didn't care how outstanding her ability was, those were secondary, and the tacit understanding revealed between the two children was the most satisfactory to me.

I was very happy and said to Huan Huan: "Huan Huan, the first time you come to the house, it should be your own home, don't be restrained, me and your uncle are very easy-going people, you two sit here and watch TV, aunt and your uncle went to cook for us, aunt bought your favorite crab." ”。

I was happy from the bottom of my heart, my son found a good girlfriend, when we were cooking, the two children came over from time to time to ask if they needed help, and took the dishes and chopsticks for them, I watched the two of them so harmonious, and I didn't mention how happy I was.

When I was eating, I opened a bottle of red wine, which means that everyone drank a little, I asked Huan Huan whether to drink a little, Huan Huan looked at his son, and his son nodded, saying that he would drink less, happy today, the first time he came to the house, he would have to come often in the future.

The meal was a pleasure and our family of four was happy. Suddenly my mother-in-law came out of the house holding the wall and said that she usually eats in the house, and today the eldest grandson's girlfriend came to the house and said that she would sit at the table and eat with everyone.

My mother-in-law is more than 90 years old, the brain has been a little confused, the legs and feet are not good, usually eat I am for him to bring good food to the house, today is no exception, but the old man came out, I said: "Okay, today are happy, then let's eat together, but Mom, you have to pay attention to the point do not fall." Then I peeled two shrimps for the old lady.

Who knew that the old lady coughed a few times after eating the shrimp, and then suddenly jammed her throat, and within two clicks she spat it out and spit it on the table. Huan Huan immediately took the paper and wiped off some of his neighborhood after seeing it, which seemed to be a bit disgusted.

I know that this is not bad for the child, after all, the old man is old, I hurriedly took my mother-in-law back to the house, when I came back, my husband had already cleaned up all the tables, but when I was preparing to go to the table to eat, Huan Huan suddenly said to me: "Auntie, or you still have to wash your hands first, just now the things in Grandma's mouth you wiped with your hands, it is always good to pay attention." "I didn't expect this child to say this, I was reluctant, but I still went to the bathroom to wash my hands, and my husband saw me and consciously followed me to the bathroom."

After eating, my son sent Huan Huan home, and when he came back, he asked me: "Why am I not happy, isn't it good when I eat?" How come to the house for the first time without giving people red envelopes, ah, fortunately Huan Huan does not mind, this is not good! ”。 I was particularly angry and said to my son: "This is the girlfriend you are looking for, this is not a word, I began to dislike your grandmother, your parents, then after getting married, it is not the opposite of heaven!" You're glad your parents were sold."

My son quickly divided it up, and there were so many good girls that they were not worse than this one and a half. Who knew that my son was suddenly anxious and said to me, "Well, it's like this again!" Do you really want me to get married, saying that it is you who are good, and people are just paying more attention to hygiene, is there any problem with this? ", after saying the slamming of the door and leaving.

Are you saying I'm not right to think about children?

As a mother, you should not be too involved in the affairs of your children, and as a mother-in-law, you need to have a tolerant and generous mind. Respect your child's choices Your child will respect you. Parents only need to control the general direction in this regard. I hope you can talk to your child well.