Li Meijin: During the holidays, we must arrange housework for our children, instead of going to special classes!

Every holiday, children want to relax themselves, have a good time, eat and drink well every day, and enjoy a pleasant winter vacation life.

Many parents also feel that of course, they should let their children rest well during the holidays, but parents should know that although the winter vacation is a good opportunity for children to relax, it is also a good period for self-improvement. This is the best time for children to do housework, and doing or not doing housework has a huge impact on the child's life.

Does the child have to do housework?

Nobel laureate in physics Chu said in his speech: "It is difficult to imagine that children who can only read, not even omelette or boil eggs, will know how to do experiments." ”

Professor Li Meijin, a childcare expert, also said: "During the holidays, we must arrange housework for our children, rather than going to cram schools." ”

We are worried about the child's injury, worried about the impact on learning, and all kinds of affairs at home, and we do not let the child interfere.

But the more spoiled the child is, the more he takes his parents' efforts for granted. Without that reverence, it is difficult to learn love and responsibility.

The child will one day enter the society, and the good habits and abilities developed by doing housework will become his hidden advantages, shining at key times.

The most failed family education is to do everything for the children.

I remembered a sentence I had seen:

He couldn't tie his shoelaces at 8, and he did learn it at 20.

However, at the age of 20, he should be able to work to earn money to support himself, but he only learned to tie his shoelaces.

Children with poor self-care ability, no matter how good their academic performance and how good their work is, can only be "short people in life" and cannot become strong in life.

Reluctant to use children, it is really harmful to children.

Let the child not do the housework? The answer is yes.

Studies have found that people who are accomplished and happier in adulthood have an important similarity: They do seemingly trivial chores from an early age.

Housework may seem like a small thing, but it involves autonomy, planning ability, sense of responsibility... These precious qualities can make children gain a lot.

Why let the child do the housework

Parents must know these truths

Some experts pointed out that in the process of children's growth, housework is inextricably linked to the development of children's motor skills, cognitive ability and the cultivation of responsibility.

It can be said that in order for children to have a happy life, doing housework is indispensable.

1

Improve your child's academic performance

A survey of 20,000 primary school students in china by the Chinese Academy of Education Sciences showed that the proportion of children with excellent grades was 27 times higher than that of families who did not do housework.

Allowing children to do housework from an early age is more conducive to the improvement of children's academic performance.

2

Build your child's self-confidence

In the process of growing up, there are some things that need to be used to build self-confidence.

Doing housework is a good way to cultivate children's self-confidence.

In the process of doing housework, children find that they can accomplish a lot of things through their own hands, and feel that they are valuable, needed and used.

3

Cultivate children's sense of gratitude

Professor Li Meijin, an expert in psychology, said:

"A person does not do housework, how will he do the world's affairs in the future, he will not even wash the dishes today, how can he know the hardships of his parents, so the child must do housework at home."

Therefore, doing housework will indeed invisibly cultivate children's gratitude and patience.

It must be understood that many "white-eyed wolves" and "nibbling on the old people" are now born under the infinite doting of their parents and elders.

If you want to raise a grateful and loving child, then don't spoil the child too much and repeatedly hinder his initiative in doing housework.

4

It is conducive to exercising children's physical fitness

For growing and developing children, a healthy body is the premise of ensuring children's normal learning and life.

Proper housework can enable children to exercise their bodies unconsciously.

In short, children who can do housework have a better future!

Age comparison table for young children doing housework

2 - 3 years old

Will use the toilet themselves;

Can brush their own teeth;

You can water the flowers yourself;

You can throw your garbage in the trash yourself;

Be able to help your mother hang clothes on hangers;

You can organize your own toys before going to bed.

3 - 4 years old

Put used towels, toothbrushes, and washbasins away;

Put your dirty clothes in a dirty clothes basket;

After the meal, put the dishes and dishes in the kitchen sink;

Learn to wipe the ash;

Be able to put your toys and books back in place.

4-5 years old

Prepare tableware according to the number of people before meals;

Wash your own socks and other small things;

Wipe the table after meals;

You can prepare your own clothes for the next day;

Arrange and stack dry clothes and pants neatly.

5 - 6 years old

Learn to clean up your room;

Sweeping the floor and taking out the garbage;

Learn to fold quilts;

Learn to make your own cot;

Will prepare a small school bag to go to school the next day;

Let children fall in love with labor;

Letting go is not the same as letting go, not being indifferent.

Letting go is a calm appearance on the surface, but always paying attention to the growth of companionship in the heart.

Visionary parents know how to prepare their children for real life.

Therefore, parents may wish to let their children try, and perhaps you will have unexpected gains.

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