In the TV series "Perfect Partner", in the A family, the wife Chen Shan is a gold-medal lawyer who specializes in the listing of the company, and the husband Sun Lei is a drug research and development personnel of the listed state-owned enterprises, who has a daughter, two or three sets of houses, and has a million income a year.
The B family is even more incredible. Husband Lin Qingkun is the boss of a well-known brokerage company, specializing in helping the company do IPO, talking about business is based on hundreds of millions of dollars, even if it is to eat a barbecue, you have to drink Maotai kind.
The two families in the play have their own problems, mainly in the contradiction between work and family relations.
The A family is still slightly normal, that is, when the woman is busy, she will not be able to take care of the family, and the man will sacrifice more. The couple is also affectionate, mutual trust and understanding, occasionally there are some small contradictions, and it is not a big problem to say that it is not a problem.
The B family is the big problem. Husband Lin Qingkun always brings the principle of work to the family, treats his wife with the way he treats subordinates and colleagues, increases the stick with radishes, and from time to time comes a few lies, stops the other party's credit card without a word, and so he gives his wife a whole depression.
Lin Qingkun takes it for granted that his wife, Wu Min, is a mature adult who can control his emotions and behavior very well. He thought that after his wife miscarried, he would let her be hospitalized, which was a great concern.
Just as the so-called slap does not sound, the husband feels that the wife is unreasonable and has the paranoia of persecution; the wife feels that she has no sense of existence in the husband, does not have respect and understanding, and is like a nanny all day.
So they divorced!
This is the plot of the TV series "Perfect Partner" starring Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Luyi, Wang Yaoqing, Wang Zhen'er, etc., the acting skills are very good, and this plot is really a bit of a toothache.
Speaking of which, social animals like me watch similar TV dramas, in fact, they are insensitive, we are not workplace elites, nor do we earn millions of dollars a year, and we don't know how such people balance family and work.
But seeing them quarreling around, a chicken feather, inexplicably there will be some inconvenience in the public feeling, the original rich people are not all smooth sailing. Financial freedom also requires a happy family, men's maturity and stability, women's elegance and virtuousness, children are intelligent and sensible, the elderly do not need to worry, where to find such a family?
Although the name of the TV series is called Perfect Partner, where is the perfect partner? Men go out to earn money, women think that he does not care about home, go home after work, and suspects have no ability. Women show their faces all day long, men feel uneasy, do old mothers at home, and feel that women are not pursuing, and they hate people for old age and decline.
Although the problems that appear in the TV series are actually the methods of drama creation, in reality, there are other ways to better solve them, and they will not go to this step, so as the plot advances, the two families will inevitably return to the right track.
But the TV series also reveals a truth, that is, fish and bear paws can not be both, the so-called perfection is relative. For example, in the eyes of Wu Min's neighbor, Sister Jin, their family is very enviable. Lin Qingkun has a successful career, Wu Min is beautiful and virtuous, and his son is smart and handsome, such a family is perfect.
And now there is a crisis of trust, to run away from home, to divorce, you say is not idle?
Just imagine, when Wu Min gave up her studies and career and decided to become a housewife, no one's persuasion would work, she must have felt that Lin Qingkun was perfect, and he was the perfect partner she recognized. But times have changed, and now it is almost useless. This shows that the standard of perfection in Wu Min's mind is changing, and it is measured by demand.
As far as Lin Qingkun is concerned, it is almost the same. If you go back 20 years and Wu Min makes such a fuss, he may also feel that it is a delicacy, and he will not feel that it is unreasonable as he does now.
So don't expect others, especially if your partner is perfect.
Imperfection is the norm, and only by accepting imperfection can perfection be perfect.