When it comes to middle-aged women, many people's reactions are bloated, lightless, faceless, unattractive, life is not smooth, the feelings of husband and wife are not good, it seems that no matter how beautiful and temperamental women are after marriage, they gradually lose their charm.
Especially in the eyes of their own men, they will feel that their wives are completely unattractive, they don't want to look at them, even if they barely look at her, they have no desire to communicate, and they don't want to hug and have any physical contact.
The middle-aged woman seems to be useless in the eyes of her husband, only aging, completely unable to see her advantages, and some of them are shortcomings in her eyes.
However, you will find that women who are unattractive in the eyes of their husbands may exude female hormones from head to toe in the eyes of other men.
Let you fall for it, the charm of middle-aged women is very valuable in the eyes of others, and some people even think that middle-aged women have charm that young women do not have.
It was given by the years, it was left by her own struggle with life, and the charm of the middle-aged woman was reflected in the more mature and fuller and more lonely beauty.
Is a middle-aged woman attractive? There is definitely, and a woman at any stage has her own beauty.
So it's not that the middle-aged woman loses her charm, it's that the man next to her is used to seeing and can't appreciate her charm.
At the beginning of marriage, they must all like and appreciate, otherwise they will not be together, but after many years of marriage, love is gradually worn out in chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, and the old lovers eventually become two look at each other.
Even the empress dowager in Ruyi Chuan was like this, although they did not have the triviality of life, but they also had the same tiredness of looking at each other for many years, plus there were so many new people around the emperor.
No matter how deep the affection when I was a teenager, I could not escape time after all. From the initial love to each other's boredom, the love with her husband has long been exhausted in the perennial frivolity and has become the so-called "family affection".
Although the men in life do not have the blessings of the emperor, but with the convenience of the Internet, they also have many channels, so they began to dislike the yellow-faced women at home, and set their sights on women outside the marriage, looking for freshness and excitement.
Comparing the shortcomings of the wife with the advantages of others, how the natural pillow person looks unpleasant.
In fact, it is not that the middle-aged woman has lost her charm, but that the person who can find her charm and appreciate this charm is no longer the one around her.
The person you dislike may be the one that others admire.
In the eyes of many married men, their wives are unattractive and worthless, but in the eyes of others she may shine.
There is a saying that other people's things are always fragrant. On the one hand, because there is no closeness, all you see are advantages.
On the other hand, there is no friction of life, everyone can be very elegant, very decent, especially middle-aged women, who will not properly handle interpersonal relationships, and will not say nice words?
Just like "Perfect Relationship" Reechella is so good, but she is still accused by her husband, betrayed, and said you see what people's wives do, how you do it, how I serve you.
He also did not want to think that without Stella's help, he would not get benefits in the company, but fortunately, Stella was admired by people, who admired her boldness, work ability, and the unique charm of middle-aged women.
Therefore, every man with a wife should look at his wife with new eyes.
Maybe she is not there, but after experiencing the ups and downs of life, sweet and sour, she has more understanding and tolerance for life.
At this time, her ability to communicate with you and the ability to deal with things is the gift, connotation, talent and temperament given to her by the years, which are the charms that the years have precipitated and can be attracted from the heart.
They know better how to cherish the warmth of the years, the long road of life, a woman with connotation and talent raised her eyebrows, life will be stable and happy every day.
She and you go hand in hand, does not mean that she does not have other people to appreciate, not that there is no femininity, no peach blossom luck, she is just loyal to the marriage, during the marriage do not casually flirt with men.
She knows that when people reach middle age, the feelings between husband and wife are particularly precious.
She knew that even if the rest of the road would be flat, she would not give up, because plain is simple happiness.
The feeling of happiness is always subtle and subtle.
She no longer values the false name of those people before and after, what she cares about is the feelings in her heart, and all she wants is the feelings of pushing cups and simple and real together.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, cherish your feelings, which is not easy to leave behind all the way through the ups and downs, and it is a precious wealth that accompanies you to old age.
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Interpret emotional confusion, pay attention to marriage problems, and be willing to listen to your sorrow and happiness, along the way