Husbands and wives are one and the same, connected to each other. Two people are not related by blood, because love is together, forming a new family.
As a woman, we all know that if a woman wants to marry a man, she will look forward to him taking care of herself and caring for herself. But who would have thought that what a man is trying to marry a woman? Face value? face? Succession? Laundry and cooking? Spend time with each other?
There may be many strange reasons, but the heart that wants to go with her is sincere. But why is it that it starts beautifully, but ends without reason? Really smart women, will not touch these 4 "minefields" in marriage, have you touched?
01, non-stop nagging
Women after marriage have endured too much pressure, always unable to avoid fragmented thoughts, housework husbands and children's work, are worth taking a look at.
As everyone knows, after a day of work, a man only wants to have a space to relax, if at this time, he is forced to listen to his wife's broken thoughts, I think a man will not be able to bear it.
Therefore, as a married woman, you must understand that everyone in this siege needs space, the meaning of marriage is to make each other more full and happy, if you only take care of your own feelings, then he is not obliged to be your tree hole.
02, vulgar gossip about others
No one likes greasy women. Sniffing melon seeds, nagging parents short, catching shadows out of nothing, seeing who has a delicate life, they will spit on people's hypocrisy, see who is happy and curse others for not ending well, and never review whether their faces are disgusting?
Women, if you are a man, will you fall in love with yourself like this?
There is time to be a long-tongued woman, it is better to find a way to improve herself, no matter what age, women can not let themselves become hateful.
03, think of home as a hotel
I don't know when it started, out of all kinds of chicken soup to encourage women to put down the virtuous, to a trip that says to go, to be a loser who wants to spend flowers, the husband even if he is tired of being a dead dog, he can't refuse to do housework, otherwise he is not enough love.
Some people can look at it rationally, but most women use it as a shield.
They began to learn to enjoy a life that did not conform to their identity, traveled and went shopping, returned home to Ge You stall, it seemed that going home was just to make up for sleep, but whenever their husbands had a complaint, they immediately became angry: "Whoever's husband does what, what do you do?" "The soul asks one question after another, and the men are overwhelmed and miserable.
04, no longer pay attention to their own image
When the passion slowly faded, the old husband and wife together were like a left hand holding a right hand, and those vivid throbbing had long disappeared.
So wives are no longer willing to decorate themselves for men, go to the toilet and do not close the door, eat a mouthful of food, wear their husband's big pants to buy vegetables, and men hold her like holding buddies... When women reach this point, they are basically not saved. But men look at the hate, and the same women can't look at it.
Women are men's faces, which is why there is the famous sentence "He is responsible for making money to support the family, and I am responsible for being beautiful as a flower." "Run yourself well, if you want others to love you, first make yourself a person worthy of love." 」
The reason why love needs to be maintained is because both parties have edges and corners, and the reason why marriage needs to be managed is because both parties have needs.
Therefore, it is especially important to know how to listen and observe, you must know that the person you are distressed is not someone else, he is your pillow person, and he is the person who wants to accompany you to face the storms of life.
You must also understand that love cannot overcome everything, habits cannot overcome difficulties, and it is not possible to make each other comfortable in married life, which is the greatest wisdom and fulfillment between adults.
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