The child inexplicably loses his temper and throws things; if he does not buy him the toys he wants, he will throw and roll; and when he discusses the problem with him, he begins to shout and never listen to the parents.
In the face of these situations, as the leader of the child, how should parents do to correctly deal with the series of behaviors of the child's "tantrum"?
First, let's take a look at how most parents do it.
1. Label it randomly
Parents deny their children's negative emotions from words, resulting in their lack of self-confidence.
2. Counter violence with violence
Parents will say something threatening or intimidating to their children, which will lead to a lack of safety in their children.
3. Over-education
Parents have told a lot of various truths, and the child will definitely not listen, but will make the child's mood worse.
So what should parents do to correctly deal with the series of behaviors of children's "tantrums"?
1. Parents control their emotions
When children lose their temper, what parents have to do is to control their temper first to prevent emotional contagion between each other and cause a vicious circle.
2. Try to understand your child and accept your emotions.
All a parent has to do is accept his emotions and try to understand how his child feels in the moment. In this way, children will be more willing to tell their parents the reasons for emotional outbursts.
3. Adjust cognition to guide children correctly.
After the child's emotions stabilize, and then adjust the child's wrong cognition, parents must try to see the problem from another perspective and say a variety of ways to solve the problem.
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