Preface
A thunderbolt fell from the sky, and the reputation of Yan Dog's boss Gao Yalin was hit like never before! Cheating, domestic violence... These bombshells smashed him completely and he was in a state of embarrassment. Even his model husband character who is well-versed in every day has collapsed in this turmoil of family ugliness. Is Gao Yalin at the end of the road this time, or will he be defeated? I'll see you out!
1. Cause of the incident
A seemingly happy marriage was ruthlessly unveiled in this way. Just when everyone thought that Gao Yalin, a well-known film and television star, was still living the life of a loving husband and wife and a beautiful family, a bombshell fell from the sky, completely knocking this model husband who was once respected by everyone to the ground!
According to the revelations of his ex-girlfriend Wei Jia, during the critical period of her pregnancy, Gao Yalin not only cheated on Hongxing, but also committed domestic violence against her who was powerless! In that special period when it should have been warm and sweet, and the husband should do his best to take care of his wife and children, Wei Jia had to spend it alone in loneliness and fear. It's almost unimaginable that the private behavior of a gold medal male protagonist who is praised as a role model is so filthy!
What's even more terrifying is that this is just the tip of the iceberg. After the baby was born, Gao Yalin not only failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a father, but also refused to fulfill the maintenance obligations agreed by both parties. He signed the agreement early in the morning, but he refused to go through the household registration procedures for his daughter, which directly caused this innocent child to be unable to enroll in school as scheduled!
As an adult, a successful person, and a father, how does Gao Yalin live up to his conscience? What is the reason why he is so disobedient to his own flesh and blood? Is it greedy for new love and leaving old love behind? Or is it a disregard for basic human ethics for the sake of some interests? Or is there some dark side lurking that we don't know about?
All kinds of doubts swirled in the air, waiting for the truth to finally be revealed at dawn. However, it is clear that after this outrageous family scandal, the once highly regarded image of Gao Yalin has been distorted and shattered, and it is difficult to reunite. What kind of man is this, who is so ruthless to his wife and children?!
Second, the silence passively blocked the scolding, Gao Yalin suddenly bowed his head and admitted his mistake?
Faced with Wei Jia's fierce blow that caused a sensation in the entertainment industry, Gao Yalin originally chose to remain silent. In the absence of a positive response for two consecutive days, the online condemnation and accusations have been overwhelming and hot.
"Gao Yalin, are you still a man?" How do you mix up cheating and domestic violence? Now he is being beaten as a little white rabbit!" Such doubts and abuses have been overwhelming on major social platforms, stepping Gao Yalin's image into the quagmire.
Just when everyone thought that this ratings student was going to disappear and live silently, he suddenly responded on the third day. In the long-term void of his Weibo, a simple and intriguing private message jumped into his eyes:
"It's happened, it's an established fact, and it's a stone... If you calm down, contact me. Everything else will pass. Whatever needs to be faced must be faced. It's just the right time to do a lot of time to do the hukou business. And I asked if I could get a hukou in Beijing. You don't have to hide it. All for pleasure. "
Judging from this obscure private message, Gao Yalin doesn't seem to be very satisfied with the previous scandal. He blamed Wei Jia for the fact that the revelations were forced to be exposed, believing that it was she who made the matter public without accommodation, which led to his current predicament.
However, Gao Yalin's tone has obviously softened compared to the initial toughness. He did not quibble and be arrogant and arrogant in front of the camera like some arrogant artists before, but revealed a taste of admitting and convincing. There are also words in the private message, such as "everything that should be faced must be faced" and "there is no need to hide", which shows that he is ready to face this turmoil.
What is the reason why Gao Yalin, who was originally hard steel, went from confrontation to concession in just two days? Perhaps he realized that adding fuel to the fire would only push the situation more passively; Maybe it's for the sake of her daughter, hoping to calm down the war of words as soon as possible and solve practical problems; Or is it forced by pressure and helpless?
But whatever the reason, Gao Yalin's change of attitude is undoubtedly a wise choice. The artillery fire has already fallen one after another, and continuing to fight will only add more obstacles to its future. Instead of being entangled, it is better to stop losses in time, take the initiative to admit mistakes and accept softness, and maybe there will be a turnaround.
The only regret is that as the fuse of the incident, the issue of the daughter's entry into the house did not get much ink in the private message. Gao Yalin only briefly mentioned "just a lot of time to open a household registration". Is this just a weak sentence to cope with and perfunctory? Or does he have the means to solve the root cause of the prison for good? Let's wait and see what the truth will come to light up.
3. The position of both sides states that the grace of not marrying" is a hidden mystery
After Gao Yalin released the incomprehensible private message, Wei Jia also responded quickly. Judging from what she has made public, it seems that the two sides have drawn a clear line of battle and are ready to settle the matter through legal means.
"I am responsible, I respect you as a man, and thank you for not marrying." In the face of the little kindness released by Gao Yalin, Wei Jia also responded, but there was a faint hint of vinegar in his words.
The words "the grace of not marrying" are really incomprehensible. According to common sense, what is the logic of thanking the other party for "not marrying"? Does this mean that Gao Yalin did have plans to marry Wei Jia at the beginning, but did not take action in the end? If this is the case, is Gao Yalin's cheating and domestic violence even more unspeakable?
Thinking back carefully about the custody agreement that was exposed before, it seems that you can also get some clues from it. According to the documents, although Gao Yalin and Wei Jia were not officially married, the two parties signed an agreement before giving birth to a child, clearly stipulating many rights and obligations such as childbirth and raising. This is enough to show that the relationship between the two at that time was exaggerated and equivalent to husband and wife.
But after this semi-cohabitation state lasted for a period of time, Gao Yalin suddenly deserted during Wei Jia's pregnancy, opened the green curtain, and was rude to the pregnant woman, and the plot was extremely bad. Such behavior is tantamount to a serious betrayal and injury to the original love and trust of each other. No wonder Wei Jia is so angry about this, that he even pretends to be a "favor" with the word "not marrying".
"So have you accepted my request now? I'll let the lawyer dock. After making his position clear, Wei Jia also threw out the key appeal to Gao Yalin again - to go through the household registration procedures for his daughter. It can be seen that the original intention of her public exposure is indeed to let Gao Yalin fulfill his obligations and responsibilities as a father.
Of course, in response, Wei Jia also disclosed the details of the agreement signed by the two that year. According to the disclosure, although a property in Shenzhen is registered in her name, the ownership actually belongs to the daughters of both parties, and she only holds it on her behalf.
"I'd rather be scolded than let him do his duty. He didn't give me that suite at all. By disclosing the details of the real estate, Wei Jia also responded to the remarks that some netizens questioned her "taking Gao Yalin's house" and justified her name.
It seems that when he left Gao Yalin, Wei Jia didn't seem to get any other practical benefits from this relationship except for taking away a child. Maybe this is the deep reason why she is still full of resentment after Gao Yalin's "grace of not marrying".
thought it was an ordinary divorce lawsuit, but as the two parties laid out their positions, more interesting inside stories were gradually exposed. As bystanders, can we also glimpse the rise and fall of the couple's past relationship through these subtle clues? Let's wait and see how this divorce drama progresses.
4. Impact of events and speculation
Overnight, Gao Yalin fell from a popular student to a "scumbag" representative in the entertainment industry, and the image of Xia Donghai played by him collapsed instantly. As a first-line film and television actor, his road has always been stumbling and difficult. At the beginning, he made his debut with the scandals of "alcoholism" and "wildness", experienced countless doubts and criticisms, and relied on professional acting skills and refined self-cultivation to finally gain recognition and reach the peak of his life. No one expected that at this time, he would actually suffer the consequences of his own evil and come out of his mouth in one fell ill times.
Facts speak louder than words, and in the face of Wei Jia's continuous revelations and public agreements, Gao Yalin has no choice but to face the reality of his family's ugliness. Once the truth is revealed, his bad deeds of derailment and domestic violence, coupled with the fault of failing to fulfill his responsibility to raise him, are destined to bring a devastating blow to his character image.
An artist who destroys his career future because he is greedy for small profits is not uncommon in the entertainment industry. Ronaldo was exposed to a sex scandal before, and Liu Yaren took the initiative to plead guilty and serve a prison sentence, and many other artists were hit hard by their careers without exception after being involved in negative news such as domestic violence and cheating. The audience can no longer calmly accept that they play positive characters.
Therefore, for Gao Yalin, properly resolving the current many controversies and repairing his own image is the only way out for him to make a comeback in the future. But the current situation can be described as a dilemma, and it has fallen into an embarrassing situation of neither advancing nor retreating. Once you continue to deny it, I am afraid that more black materials will continue to be exposed, and in the end, the old accounts are heavy, and it is completely impossible to justify yourself. But if you give it all and confess leniently, you will also face a torment of ruining your future.
However, from an objective point of view, confessing his mistakes may still be Gao Yalin's only chance to keep his future. After all, the core of the profession of celebrity is to gain public recognition, and once you completely lose public trust, it is tantamount to ruining all your future.
It is imperative that he fulfill his obligations and responsibilities as a father as soon as possible and complete the household registration procedures for his daughter. Only by sincerely fulfilling the basic obligations within oneself can one gain some forgiveness and sympathy from the audience. At the same time, we should also make a sincere apology to the family and the public, and promise to turn around and not repeat the mistakes of the past. Perhaps it is also necessary to confess the cause of your actions at the right time to gain more understanding.
After all, celebrities are also human beings, and it is inevitable that they will make some mistakes. But the most important thing is to wake up in time and stop the loss before it happens, otherwise it violates morality and integrity, and it is destined to be spurned and forgotten by society. We hope that Gao Yalin can immediately stop evading and making excuses, and take responsibility for what he has done. Only in this way can he hope to continue to seek opportunities for rebirth and redemption on the long road of life. As a public figure, cherishing your reputation is the best policy, and I believe that this lesson will be remembered for the rest of your life.
Of course, whether Gao Yalin can regain his career in the future also depends on the specific whereabouts of his daughter's household. Some speculation suggests that the reason why the daughter is registered in Beijing is because the capital's educational resources are better than Shenzhen's. In this case, will Gao Yalin choose to continue to take root and develop in Beijing for the sake of his daughter's future? Perhaps the next developments will give some answers. But no matter what, as long as you can fulfill your filial piety and responsibility to your own flesh and blood, everything is secondary.
epilogue
There is no end in life, as long as you have the courage to face up to your mistakes and make corrections with an open mind, you will always have the opportunity to start again. Gao Yalin may be in prison now, but as long as he sincerely repents and is dutiful to his relatives and friends, he will definitely be able to regain his aura and climb the peak of his career. After all, all the past will eventually turn into a bubble drink, in exchange for new growth and fruitful results. A new chapter is just around the corner, and I hope that the lofty pursuers will be rejuvenated!