Author: Little Dreams
Final: Shinomu
"Now many times it is not the teacher who leaves homework for the child, but the homework for the parents"
Homework has been said since children start kindergarten, and before homework was homework that children had to complete independently after they came home from school.
However, in order to enhance the parent-child interaction between parents and children, many schools have now begun to leave homework to require children and parents to complete it together, and now many homework is sent to the group after recording that night.
In order to ensure that it is indeed done by children and parents, many parents now feel that it is not their children who are in school but that they are back in the student era.
And the most important thing is that the homework left by many kindergarten teachers is really unacceptable.
The kindergarten teacher left homework to go home and count 100 million grains of rice, and Bao Dad counted to the teacher in the middle of the night, but he was punched in the face
There is a father in the parent group in the middle of the night angrily scolding the teacher, what is going on? It turned out that the homework left by the kindergarten teacher on this day really made Bao Dad miserable.
Because my son came home from kindergarten and went into the kitchen to let us take out the rice, it turned out that the teacher asked for 100 million grains of rice today' homework, which made Bao Dad very unacceptable at first.
But it has always been homework to help children count together, and the result is that they start counting one by one, and they are counting until midnight, and Bao Dad's eyes are sour, and the child has long fallen asleep when he is less than half counted.
And in the middle, because of a nap he was still counting chaos, there was no way but to do re-counting, the more he counted Bao Dad, the more angry he was, thinking that such a homework was meaningless, which was deceiving parents.
So he angrily asked the teacher in the middle of the night in the group, and the teacher did not sleep, but was preparing a small reward for the children's class tomorrow, and also gave a method to quickly output a grain of rice.
To this end, he also explained: "I left such homework to help parents develop their children's thinking, to be able to divergent thinking, to learn to learn from each other, rather than just completing the homework and finishing it."
Let the teacher say this, Bao Dad is also full of red face, can only say that he was punched in the face, and finally apologized to end this farce.
Parents and teachers must get along in this way, and children will benefit
1. If you don't understand, be humble and ask for advice
Teachers they also rely on their own efforts and learning to become teachers, now teachers are not easy, not anyone can be a teacher, because the school also has a threshold.
After all, if the teacher is not good, the school will also suffer, so each school is also very strict when interviewing teachers, parents do not need to worry, so when the teacher leaves some homework or holds some activities.
If you can't understand, don't scold directly, don't lose your temper, we can humbly ask for advice, let the teacher help you answer it, many times especially kindergarten teachers, they pay more attention to the child's ability to diverge thinking.
So their homework will need us to think of a way, rather than completing the homework for the sake of completing the homework. Parents must also understand the good intentions of teachers.
2. Learn more about your child's situation from the teacher
Then there is the fact that as parents, we do not send our children to school and then everything is left alone, but we still need to constantly understand the children, and the way to understand the children is to contact the teacher to ask about the child's situation.
If you can understand the shortcomings of your children in time, you may understand why children will keep such homework, and general kindergarten teachers will help children with different problems.
So parents don't always veto the teacher's approach, let alone think of the teacher crooked, the teacher's job responsibility is to teach and educate, they don't have to be bad for your family and yourself.
Therefore, the relationship between parents and teachers must also be mutually understood.
Help your child do your homework properly, or you will ruin your child
Now many parents are doing homework with their children to help their children do their homework, then this is completely deviated from a lot of teaching concepts, in the problem of homework, parents are only auxiliary, children are the real people who want to move their heads.
If you are troublesome and always pack your child's homework, you are occupying the time and opportunity for your child's brain development, so that your child will not only not progress, but also learn to be opportunistic.
In the future, if you want to change, they can also find others to help them do their homework, in short, they are not willing to use their own brains, so parents should pay attention to your position when doing homework with their children.
Don't always think that homework helps your child finish it quickly, the child can go to bed early, and you can rest as soon as possible. This is fooling the child and fooling himself, which is irresponsible behavior.
Mother Alpaca Message:
When children write homework, we must give appropriate help, not to stand on the side to put pressure on children, children are unfamiliar with homework, they have not been exposed, and you have learned to understand everything.
So this starting point is different, you should not say that the child is stupid, maybe before you did not have the child smart, so parents should still pay attention to emotions when tutoring their children's homework.
Have your children ever had such a strange homework? Can you count 10,000 grains of rice very quickly? Welcome to leave a message at the bottom of the screen!
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