In the Chinese literary world, there is a strange woman who has to be said, her name is Su Xuelin, known as the "evergreen tree of the literary world", Su Xuelin is a Republic of China, a well-known talented woman, and what really makes Su Xuelin famous in the world is her half-lifelong "anti-Lu cause" Lu, that is, Lu Xun, under Su Xuelin's mouth, Mr. Lu Xun has been insulted by her, because Su Xuelin's unique behavior has also made her name float in the literary world.
Su Xuelin this person's style of acting is different from ordinary people, so it is called a strange woman, Su Xuelin was originally a student of Lu Xun, she was very sincere to Lu Xun to ask for literature, and then after Lu Xun's death, Su Xuelin began his own "anti-Lu cause" to overthrow everything about Lu Xun, for this matter, many people have dissuaded, there is no way, let her go, but today we do not talk about Su Xuelin's career achievements, but talk about her marriage, from the above introduction, the hearts of the officials, it seems that there is already a judgment, Su Xuelin's marriage , indeed, is a tragedy.
Su Xuelin's husband, who has never been divorced in his life, is called Zhang Baoling, Zhang Baoling is the son of a hardware merchant, he studied at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in the United States in the early years, and his marriage with Su Xuelin was completed as an arranged marriage in the old society. This ultimately stems from Su Xuelin's mother, who made a request before she died, hoping that she would marry Zhang Baoling, Su Xuelin was a filial daughter, and in this way, she became Zhang Baoling's wife, and not long after the two married, Su Xuelin's mother died.
Zhang Baoling is a pure science person who does not understand literature, once, the two enjoyed the moon together, Su Xuelin's literary feelings were great, "Tonight's moon is so round" Zhang Baoling looked up at the moon, "This moon is round again, there is no circle I drew with a compass" From this small matter, it is not difficult to see that the gap between the two is that there is no common topic, which is also the reason for the lifelong misfortune of the two people.
The two married in 1925, after marriage has been living together and sleeping differently, Su Xuelin believes that cooking is the old society women to do, because after many years of marriage, Su Xuelin did not cook a meal for Zhang Baoling, in 1949, Zhang Baoling stayed in the mainland, and Su Xuelin went to Taiwan, and since then the two have been in a city.
After Su Xuelin arrived in Taiwan, he has been busy with his own work, and the marriage between the two is also in name only, but the two seem to have an agreement, they have not looked for a good person, Zhang Baoling died of illness in 1961, he has no children, or the nephew to take care of his aftermath.
When Su Xuelin in Taiwan learned of this, it was already a year later, perhaps because of time, she seemed a little sad to learn that Zhang Baoling had passed away, and later he wrote in his autobiography that "I can't let him enjoy his ideal happy family, I really feel sorry for him", with the passage of time, Su Xuelin is also full of regret.
Su Xuelin's biggest regret in her later years is that she thinks that she has no love in her life, she said, "I am like a butterfly, love should be my all, but my life is blank about this page."
There is no doubt that the marriage between Su Xuelin and Zhang Baoling is a complete tragedy, what enlightenment does this have for us today? In fact, it is very simple, marriage does not represent love, and love is not a marriage.