Wen | a good pregnant sister
"If we are tired, we will change, won't we take a child?" I don't believe it's more tiring than a man going to work! ”
A year ago, Dawei's bold words were still in his ears, when he had a good career, he did not care about his family, and when his wife came to him with a divorce agreement, he was not only inconsiderate, but also thought that his salary was high, and his wife could not complain.
"To put it bluntly, aren't you just good at eating and lazy, and my salary is falling from the sky?" How much bitterness have I suffered that you don't have any points in your heart? Spend my money, what's wrong with you getting a little tired for the sake of your children's family? I deserve to do charity, I deserve to help the poor? ”
In his cognition, if his wife earns less than one-third of his income, he should undertake all the housework and childcare, and the monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan is blown by the wind? Women are not satisfied!
In the face of his unrepentant, the woman directly proposed role swapping, she went to work hard, Dawei was responsible for taking the children, and from then on overtime and social travel were all women's, and Dawei only needed to teach his children.
Dawei was secretly happy in his heart, anyway, the most difficult two years of taking a child have passed, he only needs to bring the child to kindergarten, and then see what women have to say! The idea is good, but unfortunately with the baby is not as easy as imagined, less than a year, Dawei is close to collapse, waiting for the kindergarten to choose a school, Dawei will kneel for his daughter-in-law.
"I was wrong, I was mean, it was all my bad! Wife, you quickly manage it! This home can't live without you! ”
It turned out that since Dawei began to take over the housework and childcare, he realized that this responsibility was far heavier than he thought.
"I have to get up at six o'clock in the morning to cook, I go to work at seven:30 a.m., pay attention to nutrition for the child's meals, my wife's cooking notes I can't understand, but also to learn the parenting knowledge of the encyclopedia, although the evening does not work overtime to socialize, but with the child than overtime socializing is much more tired, can cry three times a day, I now hear the child crying want to follow the cry, there are stress reactions." 」
"That's not to mention sleeping at night, cleaning up, laundry and cooking, family shopping on a daily basis, I haven't played games in more than half a year!" There are also handling interpersonal relationships, I didn't know that my parents were so annoying, and those relatives, today's banquet, tomorrow's entrusted person to do things, both have to manage, I can't use the memorandum to work, and now I can't leave my body every day! ”
The more he talked, the more aggrieved he became, and Dawei, who was kneeling on the keyboard, cried directly.
He used to only think that his income was high, that his wife should take on housework and childcare, and who wanted to take over himself for a year, the whole person was more than ten years old. In contrast, the wife who is successful in the workplace is radiant, charming, and more beautiful she lives, and even her salary has risen to eighteen thousand, which is much stronger than before. It was also to this step that he remembered that when the two of them first joined the work, his wife's ability was stronger than his.
"Regrets? Late, you are at home with children, I will concentrate on the cause, we men and women match, work is not tired, you instead of crying with me here, it is better to think about the child's school, it is much more difficult than simply taking the baby, it is recommended that you add a Haidian mother group, do not take the child crooked, we both suffer in our later years. ”
The wife's words made Dawei cry out "wow", remembering the husband of the famous actress Qi Wei, Lee Seung-hyun, who is so rich that he was depressed at home with his baby for a year and cried in the middle of the night, let alone himself? All I can say is that if I had known this, why did I do it in the first place?
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