"Judge, I brought two children, the eldest is more than ten years old, you ask Ha who she is willing to follow", Cai led the two children to the court together.
This is a very conventional divorce case, the man Wu mou in Yunnan Province to work, the woman Cai mou in Zhejiang Province, separated for a long time, Cai mou feel that he and Wu gradually drifted apart, the relationship has broken down, so he returned to his hometown, to the court to apply for divorce.
During the mediation process, the dispute between Wu and Cai was over the custody of the child, the eldest daughter was fourteen years old, and the second son was six years old. The parties said that whoever the child said to be with, custody would be given to whomever it was. Therefore, Cai took the two children into the mediation room.
"Tell this judge aunt that I am divorced from your father, who are you with?"
As soon as the words fell, the little girl's big tears immediately rolled down, and the little boy didn't understand what was happening, only knew to pull the corner of his sister's clothes and look at his mother.
"I don't want anyone, I don't want a father, I don't want a mother, if you divorce, I won't have anyone to want...", the little girl cried, making everyone present moved, cai also hugged her daughter and cried.
Seeing this situation, the judge immediately reassured the little girl, "The child does not cry, you see, today mom and dad are together, there is no divorce, mom and dad have a little dispute, we come to them to solve these small problems, mom and dad respect your opinion, if you don't want them to divorce, you tell them your thoughts, okay?" ”
"Isn't it good for everyone to be together?" Why separate? Mom and Dad got divorced, I'm the kid no one wants, and I don't want them to get a divorce."
Subsequently, the judge undertook the case to persuade Wu and Cai separately. Since both parties choose marriage, they should be more tolerant and more responsible, don't think only about their own ideas, but also consider the physical and mental health development of their children. The two can go back to communicate again, the child's resistance psychology is very large, the husband and wife should help each other, maintain equal, harmonious, civilized marriage and family relations, and create a good growth environment for the child...
In the end, Cai mou also figured out that there was not much contradiction between the husband and wife, the dispute was temporary, for the sake of the children, for the integrity of the family, after the two sides reconciled, they pulled a pair of children out of the court together.
Review: Sun Yunlong
Text: Dong Yaping
Edit: Niu Yuangen