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My colleague Nana is the person I envy the most.
Nana and her husband are both only children, and both families are in the same city. After Nana became pregnant, her mother-in-law and mother-in-law both retired and competed to take care of her. After the birth of the child, it is even more eager to take care of the child.
Later, a large family reached an agreement, the child was in Nana's own home, and the grandparents and grandparents took turns to help the two children with the baby, once a month. In this way, with the help of both parents, Nana and her husband went to work to earn money and take care of the children without delay, and the relationship with both parents was also very good.
To be honest, I really envy Nana's baby model. Now many families around have adopted this mode of taking babies, so that children stay by their parents' side, has been in a stable environment, both parents take turns to take care of children, both can be close to the child, but also can take turns to rest. New ways of bringing babies are becoming popular, children are being properly cared for, and both parents are satisfied.
Let children leave their parents and change places frequently, which can easily lead to a lack of security and affect the physical and mental health of children
For dual-career couples, after having children, who takes care of the children is a big problem. Many families are usually taken care of by grandma or grandma, or let grandma take it back to their hometown. The former often let a person take it, it is very hard, and living under the same roof with young people for a long time can easily provoke contradictions. The latter, from an early age, let the child leave the parents and become a left-behind child, which not only affects the parent-child relationship. The most important thing for you is that it will cause the child to be insecure and affect the child's physical and mental health.
Other parents choose to take turns sending their children to their grandmother's house or their grandmother's house. In fact, when the child is a child, let him leave his parents, and frequently changing places is not good for their physical and mental health. So in contrast, the way to let children and parents stay together, and the elderly on both sides take turns to take care of them is more scientific. Children can not leave their parents and their own families, more conducive to the establishment of children's sense of security, such a parenting model, the child's personality will be better, but also can be more properly taken care of.
Most of the elders are next generations, and they are dedicated to bringing children
This model of parenting is more common and popular among couples with only one child. Both parents have only one child and are certainly willing to contribute. In addition, after the birth of grandchildren, many parents have reached retirement age, no work busy, more free time, most of them want to enjoy the joy of the world. At the same time, they are all separated from each other, and it can be said that they are full of love for their grandchildren, and they are eager to dig out their lungs. Therefore, for couples in double-independence families, there is no need to worry about the children being left unattended.
And with children, in fact, is a very hard work, the elderly are old, for a long time to let a person to take, the body may really not be able to eat. For families where both parents are willing to bring their children, it is a good way to have both parents take turns. Let the elderly not only enjoy the joy of the world, but also get the opportunity to rest.
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