Nowadays, many men like to take shortcuts in life by getting married. After all, to buy a house in the city on your own may take years or even more than a decade of hard work.
However, marrying an only child will make a man take a shortcut in life in an instant. After all, parents who have an only daughter in the family will not be willing to let their daughter suffer. Even if they save money, parents will also accompany their daughters with a generous dowry.
However, it is precisely because of the good intentions of the parents that the daughter, who was originally free of food and clothing, became the object of some people's calculations after marriage. Therefore, parents can help their daughters, but they don't have to do it all.
01, the only child, met the phoenix man
Song Juan (pseudonym), who has always been carefree about food and clothing, met Zheng Jun, a phoenix man from the countryside. Although Zheng Jun was born in the countryside, he was admitted to a university outside the province with his own ability, and after graduation, he found a job and stayed in the local area smoothly.
At a gathering of friends, Song Juan met Zheng Jun. At that party, Zheng Jun fell in love with Song Juan at first sight, so that just after the party, Zheng Jun got Song Juan's contact number and WeChat.
Later, under the hard pursuit of Zheng Jun, Song Juan was finally captured. After three years of love, Zheng Jun took the initiative to propose, and Song Juan agreed without much hesitation.
Only in this way, it hurt Song Juan's parents. Song Juan's parents were strongly opposed to their daughter marrying such a poor phoenix man. Even if the other party is talented and capable, it is still a potential stock in Song Juan's eyes, and her parents are not very optimistic.
But in the eyes of the naïve and simple Song Juan, her parents are nothing more than snobbish substances. Therefore, even if her parents are bitterly persuaded, Song Juan still chooses to marry Zheng Jun. In order to exempt her daughter from renting a house to get married, even if the parents are no longer satisfied, they can only buy a dowry house for their daughter.
02, parents want to sell houses for treatment, husbands do everything to hinder
With the help of her parents, Song Juan and her husband lived a happy married life. There is no down payment pressure, only a mortgage of three thousand yuan per month, and Song Juan's parents will subsidize some households from time to time.
Therefore, before giving birth to a child, Song Juan and her husband's life was very stable. It was not until after the birth of the child, as the expenses gradually increased, that the couple panicked. Fortunately, Song Juan's parents are also generous, giving some money to subsidize the family from time to time.
However, in the third year of Song Juan's birth, her mother detected early cancer during a physical examination. In order to treat his mother's illness, his father emptied all his savings and carried a lot of foreign debt. But even so, the mother's condition is still unstable and needs to be operated on again.
In the end, there was no way, Song Juan could not come up with any money, and her parents had no savings, and her father could only move the idea of selling a house for treatment. However, before they could hang up the house for sale, Zheng Jun stood up and blocked it: it was a school district house, and it had to be left to my son.
Zheng Jun went on to explain that the school district near the house where they live now is not very high-quality, and there are not many educational resources. If the children want to receive a better education in the future, it will definitely be the school district house where Song Juan's parents live.
Although Song Juan's parents' house is somewhat old, the educational resources are the best and most in the whole city. Hearing this, Song Juan was a little stunned. She asked her husband, if I don't sell my parents' school district house, where will I put together so much money to operate on my mother? Sell our house?
Zheng Jun refused again: now that the house price is so high, once the house is sold, the probability of being able to buy it back in the future is very low. Instead of going to Bo for a five-year survival period, it is better to go with the flow of conservative treatment and not overtreat.
03, the mother is more expensive than the house
Hearing her husband say that she wanted her mother to be conservatively treated, Song Juan's mentality suddenly collapsed. In this world, there are not many relatives of hers. If her mother can't recover from cancer, she can't imagine how she and her father will spend the rest of their lives.
Song Juan insisted on selling her house for treatment, and even if in the end people had no money, she accepted the result. However, Zheng Jun did not let him, saying that if Song Juan sold the house, he just didn't want to live on, or cut off the back road between him and his son.
Song Juan looked at her husband who did not eat soft and hard, and then looked at her mother who fell into bed at the doctor' bed, and tears fell like rain. Her husband's thoughts, she already knew it. The husband is nothing more than reluctant to sell her parents' school district house, after all, this house is not sold, and it will definitely be left to Song Juan, the only daughter in the future. And the house went to Song Juan's hands, no doubt in the hands of her husband and son.
Finally, despite her husband's objections, Song Juan gritted her teeth and hung up the house she now lived in to sell. She also wanted to understand, if her mother was gone, what was the use of more houses? What's more, this dowry house is also bought by parents at their expense. She was just taking it from her parents and using it for her parents.
And the husband's obstruction of not allowing the sale of the house is just selfishness, leaving more back roads for himself. Her husband divorced in the cold war, and Song Juan did not compromise. Therefore, for her, her mother is much more expensive than a house.
Men have selfish hearts and eyes, which is also a normal thing. However, when you can't help yourself, don't help. After all, the house is not something you pay for, so you are not qualified to oppose it.
The daughter is willing to sell the house to treat her parents, which is a piece of filial piety for the daughter. As a son-in-law, you can only agree or help to collect money, rather than trying to hinder it for your own selfish purposes.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Song Juan should insist on selling her dowry house?
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