The child's grades are in the top 3 because the mother often says these 4 sentences.

Every day before their children go to school, almost all parents will give instructions.

Although the children promised to "know, know" and left home to go to school, in fact, they did not listen to it at all.

I know a mom who often says these 4 sentences before her child goes to school, and her child's grades are always at the top.

01

Say hello to the teacher (classmate) on my behalf

The words and deeds of parents have a great impact on children. If you teach a child to be rude, he or she must learn to be mean; if you teach the child respect, his or her world will be full of kindness.

And the phrase "say hello to the teacher (classmate) on my behalf" is passed on to the child, which is parenting. This sentence teaches children to respect people, be kind to others, and make children become likeable people in school.

Whether the child will really say hello to the teacher (classmate) on your behalf is not important, what is important is that the parents pass on the important quality of "courtesy" to the child, and the child who is educated in this way must be a person with high emotional intelligence.

High emotional intelligence is sometimes more important than high intelligence.

People with high emotional intelligence will be more at ease in the face of this chaotic world.

People with high emotional intelligence are also more comfortable in the face of failure and are often able to get back on their feet.

Therefore, before the child goes to school, saying "say hello to the teacher (classmate) on my behalf" will often receive unexpected educational effects in the long run.

02

If you don't understand, ask

Every child who learns has a lot of questions in his heart, but many children have the psychology of "afraid of teachers and classmates laughing, so simple questions are not understood", so they dare not ask. According to relevant surveys, about 32% of children have this fear.

There are also some children who "don't know what to ask", or "don't know how to ask", which shows that children do not have the awareness of asking questions. There are more such children, accounting for about 43%.

Children encounter problems in learning, dare not ask, will not ask, over time, the problem accumulates more and more, the score plummets.

In fact, the teacher never laughs at a child who is willing to learn. Therefore, parents should consciously cultivate the habit of asking questions if their children do not understand, and let their children understand that it is not shameful to ask people for advice, and it is obvious that they do not understand but pretend to understand, which will make people laugh.

But at the same time, we must also tell our children that they must ask questions after they think about it and really can't understand it. And not only the teacher, it is also very normal to ask the people in the class for advice.

03

Take a good break between classes

We often say that work should be combined with work and leisure, in fact, in terms of learning, it is even more necessary to combine work and leisure.

Each lesson is 45 minutes, if you concentrate on listening to the lecture in these 40 minutes, the child is very tired after a class. If the child does not pay attention to the rest between classes, still reads and learns, it is bound to decline in the next class, unable to concentrate on listening to the lecture, which will affect the academic performance.

Therefore, allowing children to maintain sufficient physical strength and energy in the classroom is an indispensable aspect of improving learning efficiency, and only by resting well can we continue to maintain concentration.

However, some parents will fall into such a strange circle: forcing children to keep learning, children lack of energy, grades decline; grades decline, parents become more and more persecuted children.

Smart parents will tell their children this: be sure to have a good rest between classes.

04

Come home early and Mom is waiting for you

When I was a child, my mother often taught me this:

"Don't play outside after school, go home early!"

This kind of imperative discourse is easy for the child to have a rebellious psychology, and the more you forbid him (her) to do, the more the child often likes to do it.

The mom took a different approach, saying to her child, "Come home early after school, and your mother is waiting for you at home." "There is no commanding tone, no blunt tone, in a warm way, let the child remember the mother's expectations."

However, parents need to pay attention to the fact that the purpose of letting the child go home early is not to urge the child to write homework. If the child has to write homework as soon as he returns home, this sentence will not work after a long time.

How did this mom do it?

When the child comes home from school, she either accompanies the child downstairs to walk the dog, or sits in the park with the child, which is why the mother said "waiting for you at home".

The child went to school for a day and was already exhausted. After school, the most important thing is to let him or her get enough rest and entertainment time. The child rests well and does homework more efficiently at night.

We often lament that educating children is too tiring and it is too difficult to raise children.

What I want to say is that as long as you master the method, educating and nurturing children can be very easy.

This mother, with these 4 sentences, has cultivated a child with excellent grades, you must be able to do it!