Emotional needs are something that everyone has, and when people are old, they need a partner even more.
However, if a single elderly person remarries in his later years, is it a good thing or a bad thing?
Many people think that the elderly rarely have sincerity in remarrying, and sometimes choosing the wrong wife will not only not be happy in marriage, but will make themselves suffer a lot. Do you think old people should remarry?
60-year-old Uncle Gu's emotional dictation:
My name is Gu Peng, I am a retired widow, and I am 60 years old this year.
When my wife was not yet gone, our relationship was very good. She bore me a good son, and now she is married and has her own career.
I used to be busy with work and didn't have time to spend time with my wife at home.
Later, I retired, and finally had time to make up for my wife. But the time was not for me, and my wife died at this time.
Leaving me alone, in addition to loneliness, is loneliness.
My son is already married, and I don't need to take care of him, I just need to take good care of my old age and not add to the chaos of my children.
1
I felt lonely.
The wife was fine when she was there, we talked and laughed and were very happy.
Now I'm alone, and I'm idle, so I'm really lonely.
And I am still a stubborn person, and my son has repeatedly proposed that I live with them, but I don't want to.
Because I don't want to add to the mess of the child, there is another reason, it is not very convenient.
My son was very filial, so he obeyed my wishes and let me live alone in my hometown.
Later, I really didn't have any interest, so I often chatted with a few old friends.
It was okay during the day, but at night they all went home, and they all had their own wives, but I was alone.
One day, a friend of mine suddenly said to me, why don't you look for a wife anymore, then you are not alone.
After careful consideration, I plan to remarry and find a wife to spend my old age, at least not so lonely and boring.
2
A friend quickly introduced me to an old wife.
Her name is Li Jie, she is 55 years old this year, and her wife has been dead for 6 years.
She is an average looking person, but she is kind and generous and has a good temperament.
After we met and talked, I thought she was very good, and I felt that she was interesting to me.
So we spent more than a month together, and we got married.
After getting married, of course, I often help her with housework, because we are all old, help each other.
Indeed, having a wife and not having a wife are two things, and I really don't feel lonely anymore.
3
After almost a year of marriage, I noticed that she had become less diligent and didn't even do housework.
Moreover, I wanted to give the money to her management, saying that they were all two people, afraid that I would spend money indiscriminately.
In order not to make us feel suspicious, I agreed.
Since then, she has been idle, buying clothes and cosmetics at both ends of the three days.
Soon, it cost almost 100,000 yuan, so that it was repaid, and the pension money should not be enough.
So I said to her a few times, and it is true that she bought clothes much less often.
Occasionally buy and buy, I didn't say anything more.
Later, my son changed to a bigger house, and he wanted to borrow some money from me first and pay me back later.
When I got my bank card back from her to withdraw money, I found that there was less than 50,000 left.
I was dumbfounded, hundreds of thousands of dollars were gone, and that was all that was left.
4
I lost my temper with her, and she said isn't the money spent?
If I can't afford to marry you, why should I marry you?
Ah, I was speechless, it turned out that she married me because I had money.
I didn't expect her to be such a woman, Ning Que was not abusive, and I resolutely divorced her as a woman.
And I decided to live alone and not look for a wife anymore.
Because, can't afford to hurt.
Sentiment Analysis Perspective:
I don't know if someone like me always wants to find a wife to remarry and spend his old age in peace.
But finding a wife is a double-edged sword, and if you find the right one, you can be happy in your old age. But if you find the wrong person, I am afraid that in the end it is not as good as living alone.
This is also the main reason why many elderly people prefer to live alone and no longer marry.
Do you think the elderly should remarry?