My opinion: Don't!
My reasons: 1. The things of the past, since they have passed, do not pick them up. 2. The other party may not be so generous, the more you talk, the more specific, the more detailed, may make him feel like a thorn in the throat, like a man in the back, too uncomfortable, he may not be able to let go.
My argument:
How to let go of the past? Why don't you mention it again?
1. How to put it down?
You and your ex have broken up, as for how deeply you have loved in the past, why you broke up, who is right and who is wrong, what is the ratio of responsibility for two people, these are all things in the past, after the breakup, it is necessary to reflect and take on the responsibility of breaking up.
If you in the past feelings, do not know how to cherish, always make mistakes, the reason why the past feelings will end, you occupy the main responsibility, then the horse before the splash of water, covered with water is difficult to collect, should also face, painfully change the former wrong, in order to avoid making mistakes in the new feelings, this is your summary and reflection on the past feelings. Of course, if the main responsibility for the breakup is on the other party, and you are let down by the other party, you may be unwilling and can't help but blame the other party. However, in the past, you can just wake up, blame yourself and be unwilling, and blame the other party, which will not help. 2. Why don't you mention it again?
Lu Xun's "Xianglin Sister-in-law" loves to mention his past experience, what is the result? Always mention the past, how can you touch the vivid present?
Since you have begun a new relationship, then put down the past love, it is best to forget the other party, if you clear the past, the other party's contact information, personality, preferences, bits and pieces between you, you can look back over and over in your mind like watching a movie, which shows that you have not put down this love at all, you also said it in detail to the new huan, why does the other party not think much? Maybe you think you trust him, you just put your past and disk prominent, the other party does have the interest of understanding, but the other party can not guarantee that after listening to it, do not care, do not eat jealousy, do not think much, after all, emotional things, often beyond reason, but also different from person to person, if your new love happens to be sensitive and suspicious, love jealous people, this will add an invisible scar to the feelings between you, why bother?
Take care of each other's feelings, why don't you mention it again?
1. The other person understands your past, but secretly expects you to have already let go of the past.
Sometimes, the other party will ask about your past relationship, you say that your memory is not good, you have long forgotten the past things, or you can only say a rough, the specific details you really can't remember clearly, at this time, the other party may feel that you put down, he will feel the joy in his heart.
On the contrary, if you do not forget the past, the past things are like yesterday, the more you talk, the more detailed, so that the partner can see more clearly, just as you can describe the characteristics of the old love in detail, the old love's preferences and payments are backwards, and let the new joy know, at this time, he will inevitably feel that it is not a taste, feel that you have not put it down at all.
Emotionally, people often have a more psychological, at the very least, he hopes that he is stronger than your ex, the feelings between you are more stable than you and your ex, you can't help but talk to each other in detail about your ex, revealing your past "true love", the other party may feel that he can't surpass your ex, and he often feels sad in his heart.
2. The fact that the other party didn't bother with you at the time doesn't mean he doesn't mind.
Some people, have the habit of "calculating the general ledger" and "turning over the old account", you and the other party mention too much of your past emotional experience, may hurt his feelings, when you say, he may appear a little generous, but in the heart may feel that it is not a taste: the vinegar gourd has long been broken, you just did not see it.
If he feels that you have not let go of the old feelings, there is a seed of doubt in your heart, if you do not help him to remove, but also to fertilize this seed, such as you indulge yourself, keep in touch with your ex, date privately, often chat about WeChat, even if you are innocent, is a mutually beneficial friendship relationship, your partner knows, often can't help but think wildly, think that you are disconnected, the result will often be unable to help but "calculate the general ledger" with you, at this time, you know, she has always cared about your past relationship.
The author, unwilling and thin mud, gives the answer of "two can".
For the sake of prudence, it is still recommended that you put down the past correctly, and when you have a new love, don't mention your past love too much. Letting go of the past is both respect for oneself and respect for one's partner.
If your partner is curious and likes to ask about your past experiences, then you can downplay the past, dilute the past, or you can change the subject and look forward to the future with him; perhaps this is what he really expects in his heart.