I can't reach him anymore.
A girl who has been in love with her boyfriend for a year has been looking forward to the day of marriage.
Who ever thought, suddenly one day, after her boyfriend returned to his hometown, he would occasionally contact her at first, and then he would directly lose contact, no matter how she called and sent messages, there was no response.
For many days in a row, this has been the case, and she is extremely anxious about this, and even wants to report the disappearance.
She wondered if the other party had a broken phone, if she had encountered any problems, or if something had happened at home. For months, she had hoped that one day, the other party would suddenly appear in front of her, but she did not wait for that day.
There always seems to be some feelings, and there doesn't seem to be a problem with each other's love, but one day, the other person suddenly returns home, and then everything changes.
When a man goes home and loses contact, there are not so many reasons, but he just wants to give up.
There are people in my hometown, and when I go back, I want to break with you.
When it comes to falling in love, it should be between two single people, but in real life, some people obviously have a family, but they still pretend to be single and then start a relationship with another person.
Either it's in the same city and then both sides are hiding, or one is in the same hometown and one is in another city.
The two sides did not know each other, so for some time, they were always at peace with each other.
However, such a situation does not last forever, when one day, the person's work suddenly changes, or there is a change in the family, he has a new plan, he will often go home.
At this time, you feel that he is just going home, but he is returning to his original life.
Since he is returning to his family and intends to live with his original wife in the future, he will certainly not pay attention to you.
Because he made up his mind to end your relationship, he didn't even bother to explain to you, he didn't even bother to explain to you, he didn't even want to explain to you, and when you looked for him, he didn't want to pay attention to you at all.
He starts to lose touch, you worry about it, and he really doesn't have anything to do, but just goes back to his original life, you are just an accident to him, just a pastime, just a small episode.
I don't love you anymore, and I end it with going home.
It is also possible that you feel that there is nothing wrong with you and a man, but unconsciously, the other party has no feelings for you anymore, and even said that he has not had much affection for you at all.
It is reasonable to say that if you don't love, he should tell you directly, tell you directly, you will be more acceptable, you can also put it down, but there are really many people, he does not love, but he will not directly state.
He feels no need to tell you, he just wants to choose to stay away directly, and directly tell you his attitude in a silent way.
For him, going home, it was a good opportunity, just enough to go back, and then just take that as a farewell.
Since he thinks like this, he doesn't want to continue with you in the future, doesn't want to have any connection with you anymore, he will naturally start to snub you and start to let you quit by no longer paying attention to you.
Don't be silly, if a man really loves you and wants to have a future with you, he will not go to a new place, will not go back to his hometown, and then he will no longer look for you, no longer contact you.
No matter when, no matter where he goes, he will only be very active with you, just as enthusiastic.
All the coldness, all the alienation, all the disappearance, but it just means one thing, it's time to end.
Have a new love at home and start to alienate you.
A man comes home, back home, and he may meet some new people at any time.
Maybe suddenly you meet someone you used to like, just look at each other right, maybe suddenly someone introduced himself to a good object, he feels quite like.
In the relationship, not all people will remain single-minded once they love, and there will be no other thoughts, there are always some people, once they are not married to each other, they will be particularly hearty and want to change one at any time.
And once a man has a new love at home and feels that the new love is better than you, after weighing, of course, he will only want to be with the new love, and then enjoy the moment, and the new love is tired and crooked, there is no time to take care of you at all.
I will no longer want to keep in touch with you, but will only spend all my time and energy on Xinhuan.
With Xin Huan, when Xin Huan is better than you, he likes it more, he really easily gives up the feelings between you, and even bothers to perfunctory you, and he will not think of leaving a way back for himself.
You have been waiting for his news, waiting and waiting, and you can't wait for him to turn back, only until he is with someone else.
At that time, even if you wanted him to give you an explanation, he wouldn't give it at all, but would only make you accept the reality and don't make trouble.
Fall in love, but whenever a man is lost, you don't have to keep hoping for him.
Even though he let it go and didn't want to have a future with you anymore, most of the time, the actual situation is actually the same.
Although it is true that he ends in such a way, it will indeed seem very unkind, but when you happen to meet such a person, the other party has made such an act, and you still have to accept the reality.
No matter how much you like it, no matter how unwilling you are, just learn to let go.
Completely forgetting him, and making him disappear completely and utterly into his own life.
Next, sort out your mood and start again.
To love a person who will not go when he comes, who will always be there, and who will respond in fact.
Text/Tan Meng
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