In the matter of "seamless connection", girls always have problems that they can't figure out:
The phrase "seamless encounter is certainly not true love" is inherently wrong.
It's just that girls can't accept the seamless connection of boys, and say some words to masturbate.
Because many girls simply can't accept that he fell in love with someone else so quickly, so, out of a psychological protection mechanism, she had to tell herself that he wouldn't fall in love with someone else so quickly, no. Even if he was with other girls, he wasn't really in love.
In fact, a breakup is a breakup, and a boy finds a new love, that is a new relationship.
A brand new relationship may or may not be good; it may or may not be so loving; they may break up for half a year, or they may not break up for two years, which is normal.
Simply put, he is just in love again.
We talked about the topic of "seamless connection" before, from the perspective of girls, girls only saw boys break up with themselves, and soon found new girls.
But from the boy's point of view, in his heart, he may have had the idea of breaking up with you several months ago, or even half a year ago, but it took a long time to slowly complete the process of breaking up with you.
So, his feeling is that he doesn't think of himself as seamless. He feels like he broke up with you a long time ago, he's met and approached someone after a while, and his behavior is normal.
There are always people who think that the seamless connection between boys and new lovers is a kind of transition, to replace themselves, to forget themselves.
The new joy is so miserable that it seems to have become a substitute for you.
It is difficult to say that this is not a "spiritual victory method".
In fact, when a boy is looking for a new partner, he simply likes this girl, and he is with this girl, which is not so complicated.
All these thoughts, in essence, are still in the heart of the girl, and have been unable to accept the fact that the two people have broken up.
Back to the landlord's question, I don't think you have to worry about whether he is true love to him now.
It's possible that when he first started getting to know you, he liked you a lot.
But with the deepening of the interaction, some problems began to appear between the two people, and slowly the relationship was not very good, and there were more quarrels and contradictions, and he did not like you so much.
It's normal, and a person's feelings for you are changing all the time.
It's not that a man who loves you will love you for the rest of his life.
Half a year ago I loved you, and after half a year I didn't love you that much, it's normal.
All you have to do now is slowly accept the fact that two people have broken up.
I also remembered that there is still a popular saying on the Internet - the boyfriend's ex is a thorn in the heart of girls.
This means that the girl finds a boyfriend, and then the boyfriend may pull and pull with his ex, and the heart cannot completely let go of the ex, resulting in the girl's heart being very unhappy.
I know, it's true, a lot of girls really care a lot about their boyfriend's ex-girlfriend.
But this is only part of the phenomenon, not the whole story.
Not all boys will pull and pull with the former lakh and not let go of the ex.
In other words, more than half of the boys, break up is a breakup, and will not have much to do with the ex-girlfriend, nor can they talk about the problem of letting go.
Many of our girls, as soon as they think of the boy's ex-girlfriend, begin to be highly nervous, and the grass and trees are all soldiers.
Actually, they probably don't have anything to do.
As a result, you are engaged in all kinds of doubts, all kinds of interrogations, all kinds of checks, but your relationship with your boyfriend is frozen.
In short, when in love, there are indeed some boys who can't let go of their exs, which is normal, but not all boys are like this.
Then again, girls are the same, many girls in love, the heart is also unable to put down the ex, this is also a normal phenomenon.
So, if there is really a "boyfriend can't let go of the ex in his heart", how should we deal with it?
First of all, I think it's a silly act to ask for a boyfriend.
Because whether his heart can let go of the ex, many times, is not up to him to decide, he can not control.
Just like after a breakup, the sisters around you will advise you not to think about him anymore, he is not worth it.
But the question is, will you think about him, it is not up to you to decide, you can't control it.
We say that attraction cannot help but be.
Whether a boy will like a girl or not is actually up to him.
As long as he is attracted to this girl, then he will like her.
It's silly to ask a guy not to like a girl.
In such a situation, you can only try to manage the relationship between the two of you, make your relationship more harmonious and enjoyable, make him like you more, and be satisfied with you.
Because after all, you are the person next to him, the girl, the ex, although he can't put it down, but after all, the "distance" is far away, the time is long, and it is like this.
Many girls are like this.
After the breakup, you find a new boyfriend, but you still can't let go of the ex in your heart. But after a long time, this new boy is also good to you, your relationship is very good, and slowly, you will accept and approve of this boyfriend. Then, the ex or something, it's not that important to you.
Speaking of this, people can't help but sigh that time is really a wonderful thing, and it can change a lot of things inadvertently.
How much you used to love the man, after a year, he may become a passerby in your heart.
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