Chen Xiaoqing once said:
"There are three things in the world that cannot be hidden: poverty, coughing, and love."
It is true that whether a person loves you or does not love you, the words and deeds in daily life, and the attitude towards you are always different.
The person who loves you will always be afraid that you will be angry, afraid that you will be sad, so he will carefully take care of your feelings, for fear of upsetting you.
People who don't love you are mostly indifferent, desperate, and only consider themselves, after all, for people who don't love you, whether they will hurt you or not, they don't have to care at all.
Yes, love is so obvious, so realistic.
In daily life, if a man is with you and always hangs these three words on his lips, then it is only because he has changed his mind.
What you have to do is recognize it early and stop the loss early.
Leave me alone
There is a saying:
"When a man likes a woman, then even if it is unreasonable, they will feel a kind of cuteness; when they do not like this woman one day, then even soft love words will feel harsh." 」
Cruel but real.
In a relationship, the man who loves you is eager to hold you in the palm of his hand at all times, how can he be impatient with you?
And when a man is always annoyed with you, even if it is just a sentence, he is too lazy to listen to you, then it is obvious that his heart has no place for you.
I once watched a video like this:
A girl has been wronged at work and wants to complain to her boyfriend.
However, when she went to pull her boyfriend's clothes for comfort in frustration, as soon as her hand touched her boyfriend, she was thrown away by her boyfriend and dropped a sentence:
"Don't you see me playing games, don't bother me!"
Seeing her boyfriend's attitude, the girl turned around in grievance, and then squatted in the corner alone silently shed tears.
Seeing this video, to be honest, it hurts both for the girl and feels worthless for her. After all, such a man simply does not deserve the tears of a girl.
Yishu said:
"Men are more desperate than you think, especially when they choose to break up with you, they treat everything with a lot of money, and many people don't have past kindness." 」
Always annoyed with you, always suspected that you disturb him and trouble his man, don't love.
After all, for someone who no longer has you in mind, the more you give, the more you will end up hurting.
I'm busy
Fu Seoul once mentioned:
"Idleness, idleness, love are all idle. If there is still love in the busy, it is probably the truth. ”
It is undeniable that in this world, everyone is busy, busy making money to support their families, busy working hard for their careers.
However, for a person who loves you, even if he is busy, he will be especially willing to be free for you.
Because in the hearts of those who love you, nothing compares to you.
Conversely, if a man is always busy with you, maybe it's true that he's busy, but it's also true that he doesn't love.
Friend Linlin and her ex were together for three years, and in three years, Linlin also felt his strongest love.
When they were just together, as long as it was Linlin's information, he would definitely reply in seconds, as long as Linlin had something to do, then he could always put down everything and appear next to Linlin for the first time.
However, in the six months before the breakup, he changed completely.
The phone does not answer, the message does not return, even if it is connected, it is only a sentence: "I am busy, hang up when there is nothing to do!" ”
At first, Linlin was still lucky, thinking that he was really too busy!
It wasn't until one time, when she bumped into him dating another girl, that Linlin really woke up to the fact that all his changes were just because he didn't love anymore!
Tu Lei said:
"The guy who cares about you, he's available 24 hours a day. The person who can't be contacted is not that he is busy, but that he chooses to ignore it as if he didn't see it. ”
In the relationship, it is actually like this.
What no time, what work is busy, is just an excuse, if he loves you, then the busy will also squeeze out time.
The reason why he is always busy is only because he has no real feelings for you.
Whatever you want
What hurts the most about feelings?
In fact, it is not a quarrel, nor a big fuss, but indifference, perfunctory, and indifference.
Being a man is always cold to you.
What you do and say, he always looks like he doesn't care, or even just sends you away with a "whatever you want".
Then it is not because he is generous, but only because in his heart, you are already strange enough that there is no need for even a word of argument.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
Such a couple, two people together, the wife does not care what the husband does.
If the contradictory wife gambles back to her mother's house, the husband will not only not stop it, but just a sentence of "whatever you want";
The wife is angry and smashes things, and the husband never coaxes, but throws down a sentence of "whatever you want" and then turns away...
After reading this story, many people may say that men may really just be tolerant and generous!
In fact, the truth is that a person cannot watch the person he loves become angry, angry, and indifferent.
When a man always has an indifferent attitude towards you, then it can only mean that your feelings are already indifferent.
In the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much", it is said:
"If a man doesn't care about you the way he treats you, then he really doesn't care about you at all."
People who really love you will always pay attention to your emotions and take care of your feelings.
And, when a man always hangs on his lips "whatever you want", then it can only mean that he has no affection for you.
Love or not love, it is always especially obvious.
If a man always puts the above three sentences on his lips, then you should understand.
What you have to do is see clearly as soon as possible, so that you can turn around in time to embrace the new happiness.
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Author: A writer who likes to express his personal views in words and focuses on the field of emotion.