Getting along with relatives and families is a profound knowledge, and it doesn't matter if one step is wrong, it is only one step wrong that people are daunting. Getting along well is not only related to the family, but also often related to the marriage of their respective children, even if the relationship between the family is a small hair, there may be a situation where holding a hair will move the whole body.
First, relatives and families should not compare and calculate each other in their daily lives, nor should they look down on each other. And in terms of doing things, we must have a sense of boundaries, and without a sense of boundaries, even if there is no crisis, there will be hidden dangers.
Relatives are not ordinary relatives, after all, there is no blood relationship, since it is the children's family, that is, their respective children as a bond. Therefore, in the process of getting along, we must be calm with each other, there is no comparison, there is no calculation, and at the same time, we should neither look up nor look down on each other, and implement the equality between relatives and families. In addition, the sense of boundaries is like the separation wall, relatives and families have something to say, something not to say; something to do, some not to do, only then can they be at peace with each other, and the marriage of their children will not be implicated.
Second, the relatives should understand each other, after all, the relatives are two families, most likely from different places, just so-called: three miles of different customs, the farther away from each other, the more it shows that the customs are different.
In addition, relatives should do their best to level a bowl of water, neither too much in favor of their own children nor complain about the children of the other party. Since they have married their children and daughters, they must also treat each other equally. Strive to be impartial, treat their children with a fair and just attitude, if they do not pay attention, the disputes between relatives will not only originate here, but also become more and more intense, and the disputes will affect the marriage of the children from top to bottom.
Third, although the relatives can walk around each other, but remember not to move around each other too frequently, too close means that there is nothing to find, in addition to learning to let go appropriately, as children and relatives to have confidence in their respective children, so that they can not intervene without intervention.
Relatives are acquired relatives, and even so, they must follow the principle of emergency rescue and not saving the poor, and avoid large economic exchanges as much as possible. However, whenever there is an economic dispute, it is better to say that a small amount of economic dispute is better, and a large amount of economic dispute is not easy to handle. Then it will not be the tragedy of two families, but the tragedy of three families.
Conclusion: Don't help your children regardless of priorities, you should stand by when you shouldn't help your children, no matter what help your children or nothing to help your children are going to the extremes of two different directions.
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