Introduction:
Children are bored with school, even to the point of suspension, and few parents can calmly accept it.
In the mother's psychological counseling, from the expressions and expressions of these parents, I can deeply feel their full of panic and resentment, and some are eager to immediately bind and escort their children to school.
It is not difficult to understand that for a long time, under the influence of the idea of "everything is inferior but reading high", for parents with high score complexes and habits of transferring self-expectations, their children's reluctance to go to school is tantamount to placing their parents' hearts in the despair of "ruining the future".
It can be said that among the endless worries of parents about their children, boredom touches the most pain of parents.
In the two lessons of "Why Children Don't Want to Go to School" and "How Parents Can Improve The Situation of Children Not Going to School", the teacher led the students of Mom's Psychology to deeply understand the root causes of children's not wanting to go to school, so as to find targeted solutions.
Parent Sharing:
Through learning, I have the following experience:
The child's growth environment has changed greatly, and the education of remembering bittersweet memories has gradually drifted away. Many families now have a relatively good economy.
Therefore, some children will develop a comfortable and addictive nature, they feel that their current life is really good, as if there is no need to change their fate through reading and knowledge.
Therefore, our parents blindly carry out hard-working education, which is often counterproductive. Simple complaints, complaints, and accusations are all emotional garbage, or do not pass on to the child.
When Wang Xiaobo was in line, in order to cooperate with some form of remembrance of the bitter meal at that time, he ate some physical objects that could not be eaten, resulting in many people secretly vomiting and queuing up in front of the toilet in the middle of the night.
In modern education, it is this kind of meaningless hardship that needs to be vigilant.
Secondly, parents cannot play the role of teachers and learning supervisors for their children, but should fully trust their children and cannot let parents and children have a rift in the emotional link, so it is very difficult to repair.
The establishment of learning motivation is not achieved overnight, it is a slow process of recovery.
Don't expect your changes to change your child right away.
We must start from the big picture, have the concept of the overall situation, and broaden our horizons a little farther.
Change is a process, children will have doubts and tests of our changes, they have their own judgments and standards.
Parents need to be patient and persistent. Never question your efforts because of your child's bounce back.
In short, the road to parenting is long, for the sake of children, we must be patient, the heart is relaxed, quantitative change will inevitably lead to qualitative change.
Why do so many parents and children have a huge conflict?
Why do so many children hate school and don't want to learn?
Why do so many children have psychological problems?
Why do parents fall into unresolvable parenting dilemmas?
Based on the scientific research of psychology, this book absorbs the ideas of a large number of local educators, focuses on the local parenting style of China, and combines a large number of cases of actual consultation, from 0 to 18 years old, to guide the current parenting of parents in an all-round way, which is more suitable for Chinese parents to learn.
Love is a self-education, and your willingness to open the book in itself confirms that you are probably already a good enough parent, at least a parent who has love in his heart and wants to make himself better.
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