I don't know when it started, parents circulated the saying that children can't lose at the starting line, parents urge them to grind their lips every day, and try their best to let their children have a specialty. But whether the child is interested in the end, the parents have never asked the child, the opening dialogue is the most true portrayal, the child has some resistance, but the parents have repeatedly insisted.
Many parents do not think that the dreams that they did not realize in their childhood are obliged to practice for themselves. And don't give up any opportunity that might keep your child "progressing." Even when the child is studying in the interest class, the parents waiting outside chat, and the topic is nothing more than that.
"What has your baby learned lately?"
"How is your baby piano learning?" Is it almost time to take the exam?"
"Xiao Bao, the class next door, will soon be going to perform in other provinces!"
Such topics are constantly emerging among parents. Have parents really seriously considered their children's feelings? Can you ignore your child's feelings for the sake of your child's good?
Parents and children talk about childish topics and do childish games, and there are only a few years of time. Remember that the child's childhood is only once, I hope that parents cherish it, do not miss it!
The child gradually improves from the ground to the continuous development, and eventually becomes a person who is useful to society, and in the middle, he has to go through the parents' long-term cultivation, because family education is a continuous and uninterrupted lifelong education.
"Children are parents in the mirror" is not wrong, parents have the responsibility to set a good example for their children, so that children have the ambition to become a new person of the times who loves learning, loves life, and has responsibility.
However, how can parents impose their childhood dreams on their children, and love children should follow the rules of their children's growth. Interest is the continuous motivation for learning, only the child is really interested in it will insist, otherwise it will only be halfway abandoned, the parents' strongmen are difficult, and the final result is that the parents and children are very hurt.
Parents in family education to do a good job, find the child's shining point, give continuous encouragement, as long as the parents find the right direction, half the work and double the results. Interest is the best teacher, it stimulates creativity, curiosity and curiosity in children. Don't misinterpret the long-distance running of your child's life as a sprint that you can't wait for when you are young, and don't deprive your child of choosing the future role to participate in the growth rehearsal.
Finally, combine work and leisure with proper relaxation. On weekends, parents take their children on hikes, so that children have more opportunities to fully contact nature, and while their bodies and minds are released, they can also let their children learn knowledge outside the classroom. Whether it is the vast and vast earth, or the vast ocean; whether it is all kinds of life, or endless species, they all have thousands of whys, waiting for us to be full of interest to discover the truth.
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