People who have experienced love know that the more you cherish the man who loves you, the more you will become "stingy", without exception.
The reason is simple, love is a magic thing that can easily change a person from one state to another.
So we can see that a person who originally didn't care about anything will become particularly insecure and especially dependent on each other;
A particularly dashing person will become indecisive.
Men do the same, and even because of straight-line thinking, the way they express love will be more intense.
Because love is a two-way street, when we feel the love of men for themselves, we must also feedback back, so that the other party can also experience this beauty.
Love is a round dance song for two people, and it makes sense to operate together.
Therefore, we must be good at discovering love, and we must also be good at managing love, so that love will go long.
The more men who truly love you, the more likely they are to be insecure
In a relationship, women will become insecure and insecure because of their emotional thinking.
In fact, when a man falls in love with a woman, he will also suffer from gain and loss.
They would become very angry, would become very possessive, and would be jealous of Murong and other members of the opposite sex.
At this time, what we need to do is to give the other person a sense of security.
For example, when getting along with friends of the opposite sex, we should retain a sense of proportion, and when we know what the other party will be unhappy about, don't do it, don't knowingly commit crimes;
For example, don't put the breakup on your lips when you are angry again, communicate more when you have problems, don't fight that the other party likes you, just be cold and violent, and let the other party guess vigorously.
I like McDougall's words: "There are things to say, don't wait for the other party to understand, because the other party is not you, do not know what you want, and wait until the end can only be sad and disappointed, especially feelings." 」 ”
Feelings, if silent, will make many misunderstandings worse, and will make a person who truly loves us gradually be consumed by his enthusiasm.
Therefore, we must put the problems on the surface, tell the other party that those problems will not become the fuse for each other to part ways, and let the other party know that we will continue to go on.
In this way, love will flow for a long time.
The more a man who truly loves you, the more he wants you to be safe and joyful
In fact, love or no love, we can feel it from a person's attitude, which is the most intuitive answer.
The man who loves you will be happy and good with him because you have a good life, and this hope is long-lasting;
Men who don't love you may be enthusiastic in the beginning, but over time, the freshness fades, and they will be indifferent and don't care about your feelings.
There is a line in the TV series "Little Parents" that says: "For women, all the cold eyes of the world are not as good as the attitude of lovers." ”
So, for the rest of our long lives, we must, we must find someone who can calm our hearts.
From now on, we will no longer be full of sharp thorns, with teeth and claws to hide the fragility of our hearts;
We will no longer be fierce, rushing left and right, because the person wrapped in love must be full of tenderness in the yearning for love;
We are even less sensitive, suspicious, inferior and screwed, because our other half gives us all the beauty in love, and we naturally meet all this with the softest heart.
Therefore, for the rest of our lives, we must find such a person, find a person who allows us to feel comfortable and comfortable.
Since then, thousands of rivers and mountains have been born and lived.
The more men who truly love you, the more they hate not paying enough for you
The more you cherish the man who loves you, the more you hate not paying enough to you, especially in money, which is the most obvious.
I've seen people who say girls break up with them because they don't have any money, and they say that their ex-girlfriends are too materialistic and especially worship gold.
But in fact, their girlfriend just wanted a lipstick on her birthday, but she didn't see hope in them before leaving.
They can't see their shortcomings, but they blindly blame the girls' materials, but they forget that when they were together, they didn't have any money.
I've also met people who are "stingy" with themselves and want to break a penny in half, but they are very generous to their girlfriends.
Such men will not feel that buying gifts can be linked to material things, they will only feel that loving someone is to pay, rather than saying how nice it is, it is better to do things beautifully.
Maugham once said, "Money is like the sixth sense, and without money it is impossible to make full use of other senses." ”
Love itself is willing to give, is stingy with oneself, generous to the other half, is afraid that oneself does not give enough, does not give good enough. Don't take the importance of money lightly, sometimes, money is enough to test your love.