Strong women who know how to "show weakness" have not been married for what reasons

Women who know how to "show weakness" have finally become winners in life.

In the world of feelings, women's appropriate weakness can arouse men's desire to protect, in fact, happy women, not rely on strength to fight, but at the right time to know how to show weakness, so as to obtain men's deep love.

If a woman is too strong, does everything beyond the man, does not know how to show weakness of the woman, your marriage will not be happy,

Because you can't give men a chance to perform,

If you don't give men the opportunity to perform, men will have no sense of accomplishment in love.

Men don't have a sense of accomplishment in love, women won't be happy, because you don't need men anymore, and naturally men won't give you the warmest love.

So, no matter how successful a woman is in your career and doesn't get the love of a man, your inner world is still very empty.

If a woman is too strong, often can not get the deep love of her husband, it is not that men do not want this marriage,

But there is a hedgehog next to the man, ready to attack,

It is not that men do not love you, but they dare not love you, he can't love him if he wants to love, and over time the marriage becomes boring and boring.

So, a strong woman marries an incompetent husband,

A gentle and considerate woman who loves to be spoiled and has a strong career, but married a man who is very successful in her career.

Women, don't you think it's very unfair?

In fact, there is nothing unfair, many times it is the consequence of your own strength!

Excellent and strong is not your fault, but you do not understand to show weakness to men, you suppress men breathlessly,

You tell men how to tap into their talents.

No matter how strong a woman is, in the emotion, the woman should play two roles,

No matter how strong you are outside, when you come home, you should know how to show weakness,

In this way, you can get the favor of men,

Truly wise woman, you will give the important part to the man to do, and use your own ingenuity to manage feelings,

Sometimes if you want to get the love of men, you also need to know some skills,

Instead of thinking that you are competent and carrying all the responsibilities on your shoulders, you will not only not get the sympathy of men,

He also made himself vicissitudes and exhaustion.

If you show weakness properly and give a part of the responsibility to the man, you will find that everything he assumes will make you happier.

In fact, the woman who really gets happiness in marriage, she dares to show weakness, and the woman who loves to be spoiled can get the value of men's love.

Case!

There is a woman in our village who is very powerful, whether it is in her career or in her family, she is a very powerful person.

Now she is worth more than a million,

Very strong in every way, no man can lower her,

If her career is very successful! The money she earns alone can feed the people of a village!

But now that they are 40 years old, their marriages have failed twice, none of their children are willing to live with her, and marriage is her most failed.

Why did his marriage fail?

Married to the first man, it was introduced by the parents,

I was also 30 years old at the time.

Soon after getting married, the feelings of the two people fluctuated,

In the family, women are also strong,

As soon as he got home, men like to lie in bed and play with their phones, because men come back from work too tired to lie on the sofa and rest.

As soon as the wife came back, she scolded the man and said, how do you rest as soon as you come back, you don't have to cook! So many things to do in the family,

And say it out loud! Your ears are deaf, you hear no.

The man is also very angry and said, I have just returned from work, I am also tired from work, can not take a break, in the cooking sweeping,

If you're hungry, isn't there fruit to eat?

At this time, women are uncomfortable listening to it,

Speaking out loud, as a factory director, only I am in charge of others.

Why do you care about me,

Just your four thousand dollars a month?

You a man took such a point, I see you are humiliated and lost to home! Your half-year job is not as good as my salary for a month!

The man's heart was about to explode when he heard this,

The man just threw up his hands and left, and went outside,

The woman did not say a word, there is a kind of you don't come back to sleep, useless things!

The man felt very uncomfortable listening to it. I ran to my buddies' house to deflate! This buddy knows that they are quarreling,

Seeing that he was in a bad mood, I invited him to come in and sit down and chat,

Just happened to come a few friends to play together,

A man asked very incomprehensibly, dude, you should have been very happy! Your wife makes so much money,

Are you still having a bad time?

The man was very sad to reply that if time could go back in time, I would rather marry a woman who was not strong,

But I didn't continue to talk about this topic.

In order to be happy, everyone ordered their favorite songs, and sang songs,

Only him. Only one person hid in the corner to drink alcohol and relieve his sorrows!

I thought it would stop a little,

I didn't expect my wife to be asleep at home,

My heart was very uncomfortable,

So she got dressed and went straight to where he was playing.

Seeing her husband drinking, this woman came to her husband's side in a fierce manner and said angrily,

Saying that you make little money in two sentences is not convinced, isn't it,

There are so many people, and they don't give men face.

The man understood that it was not good for other people's families to have conflicts, so they returned home angrily.

As soon as I got home, I went to sleep in the study and didn't sleep with my wife. Because he didn't think it was interesting.

Because it doesn't happen once or twice.

It's like this almost every day.

The man also thought well, he would rather live alone,

And just like that, the relationship between them ended

Two people have applied for divorce papers,

The man got the divorce certificate and was happy for several days, as if relieved, especially happy.

A woman's second marriage was when she was 39 years old, by which time he was already a millionaire.

However, she is also very envious of others, the children are several, happy to be a mother,

But she had nothing but money, and talked about several of them, all of which ended in failure.

The second time she got married, she barely had a child, and she got used to it strongly outside, so she brought this strong habit to the family.

Manage your husband and children like employees,

Now even the children are disgusted with her, and soon divorced, the children are with her father, and they are not willing to be with their mothers. Thus the marriage failed twice.

Editor's Note.

Marriage is two people mutual, should understand each other, know how to coordinate, in order to make the status of feelings balanced, two people rely on each other, in order to make the development of feelings more long-lasting,

In fact, to run a marriage, we must get along with the most sincere heart, rather than treating our husbands and children with the same attitude as the supervisor managing employees.

As long as the employee has money to earn here, he will do his job well, in order to support his family, he can choose to swallow his anger,

But home is a place to cultivate feelings, not to use your strength to suppress each other,

Often your attitude determines the happiness and comfort of your feelings.

Therefore, when couples get along, they must know how to use appropriate ways and methods to make men love you more moist.

Therefore, the great wisdom of women will use the method of showing weakness to let men unconsciously develop the habit of loving you.

At this time, the man will use all his strength to love and care for the woman he deserves respect.

So, smart women will make men willingly give true love for themselves, rather than oppressing men,

No matter how strong a woman is in her career, you don't understand the "weakness", your marriage will still not be happy.