A few days ago, my girlfriend complained to me about her in-laws, and her husband would give her parents living expenses in the rural hometown every month, and if she didn't give it for a month, she would be said not filial piety by her in-laws.
Girlfriend and her husband are college classmates, the two married after graduation, according to the girlfriend, her husband began to give money to the family after graduation, his parents did not plant after he graduated, did not do farm work, completely dependent on the son to survive, every time the son and daughter-in-law returned to their hometown, they will also show off to the neighbors that their sons have a job, can support their old two.
Girlfriends still have a lot of opinions about in-laws, in-laws are only in their fifties, do nothing, there is no savings, their two small families want to buy a house can only rely on their girlfriends' parents, in-laws can not help at all and say what for their sons to finish college has spent all their savings, they also have to give in-laws living expenses every month, the small two monthly wages are not enough to spend, both of them are not good to have a plan to have children.
Parents such as girlfriends and in-laws are actually more in rural areas, and parents in rural areas can basically be divided into two types, the first is a lifetime of hard work, thrift and thrift in order to save more money for children to make their children live better in the future, children get married and buy houses Parents will give sponsorship, and some children do not argue that parents also have to help raise grandchildren.
There is also a kind of parents like the girlfriend's in-laws, who feel that they can provide their children to finish college, and they have no burden when they are admitted to college, and they can lie down and earn money to support themselves after their sons graduate, and they enjoy their own happiness.
Some netizens have complained about their boyfriend's father, when the boyfriend is about to graduate from college, the family has a total of 100,000 yuan, his father spent 70,000 yuan to buy a car for himself, waiting for the child to graduate to support him, enjoy qingfu, completely do not consider what the child will use in the future to get married, buy a car, buy a house, just take care of their own enjoyment.
Why do such parents have such thoughts?
Because such parents do not have any culture, they will feel that they have a good future when they are admitted to college, and even conservative ideas think that there will be an iron rice bowl when they are admitted to college, and they will have a stable high salary, so they are very proud, thinking that their children have a good future when they are admitted to college, they can sit back and relax, they do not have to work, wait for their sons to graduate to support themselves, and do not consider the future marriage and children of their children, and feel that their children can be very smooth in the future.
In the TV series "Mother-in-law is coming", Wang Chuanzhi's mother is such a person, the son felt that his son was very powerful after being admitted to college, the son relied on the relationship between his father-in-law to become a civil servant, and he felt that his son was going to become an official, all kinds of show off to others, and the daughter-in-law with good conditions was her son, all kinds of daughters-in-law who did not look up to the daughter-in-law, and even brought a family to rely on the son, so that the son raised a large family.
In fact, after the child is admitted to college is the beginning of the child's life path, today's society does not have any iron rice bowl, everything relies on ability, need to work very hard to get the harvest, resulting in today's young people carrying a lot of pressure.
Parents must not have a kind of thinking that children can lie flat after they are admitted to college, although it is an obligation for children to support their parents, but children who have just graduated are indeed very difficult, all kinds of expenses, but also consider their future marriage and children, buy a house.
Parents can help the child best, if not help at least you can support yourself when you are still young, do not let the child just graduate on the burden of more pressure, after people reach a certain age, proper labor is also conducive to good health, lying equal to enjoy the body is also not good, for this type of parents, I don't know what you think?