In the era of chicken babies, the family topics that appear on hot searches are often related to anxiety.
The threshold of expectations for success is getting higher and higher, and interestingly, everyone's moving point is getting lower and lower. What can poke people's hearts is often some small things, even stupid things.
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A few days ago, there was a hot search on the news, which made many netizens shout "very beautiful, very touched".
It's a small thing, and the people involved are even a bit silly because in terms of rate of return, it's quite uneconomical.
It was raining heavily at night, and the parents accompanied the 6-year-old child to the countryside in the rain, just to pick mulberry leaves to raise the silkworms in the family. The child's mother said: The children raised a batch of silkworm babies, which are too edible, and one of the trees in the community is bald, and most of the time they run out of food.
So, two office workers with small children drove to the suburbs and braved the rain to find a small mulberry tree. The rain was very heavy, but after the family picked the mulberry leaves, they had a satisfied smile on their faces, and the children happily compared and stroked...
The whole family went out in the rainy night, just for a few silkworms to find mulberry leaves, perhaps in the eyes of many people, this is a fuss, laborious and fruitless stupid thing, is not a few small worms, as for investing so much energy to take care of?
From the perspective of practicality, it is indeed not worth it, which is where this pair of parents let everyone move, because they fully consider the child's wishes and mood, the child's mother said: In order to protect the child's childlike heart, the whole process is very interesting.
Parents try their best to protect their children's childlike hearts and cultivate children's curiosity and sense of responsibility, and many young netizens have expressed their envy for such a family atmosphere.
Some people use childhood to heal a lifetime, while some people use a lifetime to heal childhood. What really determines whether a child is happy is often something that has nothing to do with material conditions, and the atmosphere of family harmony and love can give the child enough security to maintain a curiosity and desire to explore the world.
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Under the comment of "Parents Brave the Rain to Find Mulberry Leaves", many netizens also shared their experiences.
Some netizens said that the night before this news came out, their family also took their children to find Mulberry Leaves.
Some netizens recalled that when he was a child, he raised silkworms, his mother also helped pick mulberry leaves everywhere, and his brother liked to play with slingshots and gyros, and his father made it for him by hand. As they grow up, they still feel happy when they think of these memories.
It is a fortunate thing to meet parents who are willing to listen to their children and can accompany their children to do stupid things.
Childlike heart is the most true mirror of human nature, without childlike childhood, it is difficult to have a happy adulthood. Therefore, there will be netizens who have already been twenty or thirty years old, and they are still grumpy about the original family atmosphere.
I have to say that there are many compulsory courses in the process of growing up, and there are thousands of truths in the books, but they are still not as good as the enlightened and loving guidance of parents.
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The Thai public welfare short film "Dreams Triggered by Bean Sprouts" is based on a true story: a poor mother with no culture who uses bean sprouts to raise her daughter to become a doctor.
The little girl followed her mother to the wet market and suddenly thought, "Can we grow our own sprouts and sell them?" "Mom encouraged her to try, during which she experienced many failures, but each time her mother did not deny and hit, and encouraged her to continue to try."
In this way, the little girl, accompanied and supported by her mother, successfully cultivated bean sprouts. Because of this experience, she maintains a great desire to explore in her studies and life. At the PhD graduation ceremony, she said that she was all thanks to her mother, and the phrase "let's try" gave her countless courage.
Perhaps many of the behaviors of children are "wasteful" and "troublesome" in the eyes of adults, but for children, this is their way of understanding the world. Unhappy adults are often because of years of criticism and spiritual neglect by their original families.
Paying attention to the needs of children, cultivating children's curiosity about the world, and giving him the ability to take the initiative to explore the world may be more useful for children's lives than reporting 8 extracurricular interest classes under the banner of "I am all for your own good".
Of course, whether you can maintain a transparent educational concept in the atmosphere of chicken babies, it will vary from person to person.