A man, if he really loves you

Someone asked:

"What's the difference between a man and a woman who loves someone?"

Someone answered:

"Women shed tears, but men stop at lips and teeth."

In fact, a man who truly loves a woman is not necessarily the verbal "I love you", nor is it frequent phone calls, but...

Take the initiative to contact you in your busy schedule

Tell me about the story of Listening to Youjiujiu.

Jiujiu once had a relationship in which she poured all her love into it.

For the sake of that boy, Jiujiu learned to cook, changed the city life, spoke carefully, and turned his face to his parents...

But what did she get in exchange for?

Every time something important was needed for the boy, he was not present.

It took Jiujiu 2 years, and after saving enough disappointment, the two men parted ways.

A year after the breakup, Jiujiu met his current lover Mu mu.

Since the first meeting, Mu Mu has never disappeared from her world.

Mu Mu never deliberately bothered Jiu Jiu, but would appear when she needed it.

Although Mu Mu is busy at work, he is always available for Jiujiu.

After 5 months of acquaintance, the two were officially together.

After being together, Mu Mu was still the same as nine nine.

Mu Mu saw her message, and when he was finished, he would reply one by one.

Mu mu will refuse other people's invitations, but will appear in front of her first.

A sentence comes to mind: "My eyes are multi-talking, and it is chattering at you, and you turn a deaf ear, and stubbornly walk away from the many people." ”

You have his mind all over your mind, but he is always thinking about how to hurt you. When a person ignores your efforts, ignores your courage, ignores your intentions, then forget it.

Love and non-love, obviously can not be hidden, as the saying goes: "Love, because of the difference and thick." ”

The person who really loves you is not to send you messages all the time, but to see if he can still think of you in his busy schedule, and he will always have "privileges" for you.

Zhang Ailing said:

"If a man makes too many excuses for you, it's because he doesn't want to care about you;

If a person does not have time, it is because he does not want to have time;

If a person can't walk away, it's because he doesn't want to go away. ”

A man who truly loves you, you are always the exception in his heart.

One detail, one action, trumps all the flashy sweet words.

Travel thousands of miles to your side

There's a question on Weibo —

When a man loves a woman, what will happen?

GaoZan's answer was--

He'll be tempted to come and see you, no matter how far away.

Tian Tian took the children in his hometown, and his husband worked in Guangzhou, and the two were separated by 18,000 miles.

The husband usually eats and frugally in other provinces, and every month a salary will transfer 6,000 yuan to Tian Tian.

When I came home for the New Year, my husband was reluctant to take the high-speed train, so he carpooled with others, and sat for more than 30 hours.

Once, Tian Tian fell ill and was hospitalized.

The man, who bought a high-speed rail ticket, rushed back from Guangzhou in a dusty way, sweating profusely and came to Tian Tian's side.

From the time he got out of the car to the hospital, he used to run all the way.

It turns out that a person who really hurts will run to meet him.

Relatives and friends finally understood why Tian Tian had followed him wholeheartedly for so many years.

There may be many people who like you, but when you are helpless and sad to be alone, who can leave everything behind and run to you?

I like a sentence: "True love is never the mouth to decide, but the action to see the real chapter." ”

If the person who thinks of you never comes to you; the person who says he loves you never gives you a promise.

So, this kind of love is true and false, and who can tell the difference?

I have seen a story of marriage proposal at the border of wind and snow.

A girl named Wang Xuan traveled thousands of miles to the westernmost part of the mainland to meet Ouyang Huayi, the boyfriend of a border guard officer and soldier who had been in love for three years.

After Ouyang Huayi picked her up at the station, the two of them climbed the snowy mountains and crossed the glacier together, and when they reached the "Fengkou Ridge", Wang Xuan had altitude sickness and stood in the wind and snow by inhaling oxygen.

Standing on the edge of the vast snowy area, under the witness of the Snow Mountain Boundary Monument, Ouyang Huayi proposed to Wang Xuan and made a vow not to abandon it for a lifetime.

The so-called love of a person is to go thousands of miles to meet each other.

Just like the words written by Wuyue Wang Qian wei to his wife:

Strange flowers bloom, can slowly return.

Three words and two words, sincere and sincere, expressing the most sincere thoughts.

Maybe in this life, we don't want someone who says they love you at any time.

It's about someone who won't leave you at any time.

Even if there is a wall among you.

Through the gap in the wall, you can also see a beam of light.

This light may not be dazzling, but it is warm enough for the rest of your life.

Stand up for you in times of crisis

I watched a video online:

There was a pregnant woman, because of the queue problem and the shopping guide conflict, the shopping guide called a companion, slapped the pregnant woman.

The husband who was not far away saw this scene, immediately rushed over to kick the other party, and roared angrily: "Do you dare to move my daughter-in-law to try again?" ”

Although many people do not know the details of the incident, they all praise the husband's actions: "A real man!" Responsibility and love, very in place. ”

We all know that hitting someone is not advisable, but hitting someone to protect your wife is an instinctive reaction.

Standing up for you in times of danger is the strongest sense of security in your feelings.

Also watched a video.

The husband and wife were severely burned by the explosion of the small shop, and the husband wrote to his son with his charred hands: "Do your best to save your mother, I don't care." ”

With this husband, the husband asks for it, and true love needs no more words, it will make people cry.

Meng Fei said: "The two most admirable people in this world are the women who accompanied you when you were young, and the man who accompanied you to enjoy happiness when you were old. ”

I think there's another one:

No matter what happens to you, you can support the bottom, and you are still worried about your people in the moment of life and death.

This is a kind of frankness, no complaints, no regrets, no returns of true feelings, is a lifelong commitment to protect.

This kind of love, there is no need to cry out to the gods, just use one sentence to prove:

Don't be afraid, I will protect you, I will always be with you.

As "Peacock Flying Southeast" writes:

The heart of the king is like a rock, and the heart of a concubine is like a grass.

The grass is tough as silk, and the rock has no transfer.

This is a kind of righteousness in love: helping each other in tribulations, husband and wife walk together.

Some people ask: What kind of man will make people move?

Someone replied: See if he can stand in front of you and stand up for you after encountering things, rather than choosing to retreat at a critical moment.

Girls looking for lovers must not find cowardly and incompetent men, because such people cannot rely on you.

As a husband, his shoulders cannot carry the love given to you;

As a son, he could not afford to support his parents;

As a father, he cannot give his children a good environment to grow up.

The person who truly loves you will definitely protect you.

He will never let you fall into the predicament of calling the heavens ungodly and the earth ungodly.

Zhou Guoping said:

"Love is a never-ending thought, and where there is love, there is concern, and it seems to be for no reason, almost nervous."

In this life, we are ups and downs, looking for and seeking, but we just want to find someone who is really good to us.

Find someone who is busy and can reach out to you.

Find someone who is not far away and doesn't leave you cold.

Find someone who, at a life-and-death juncture, can't bear to abandon you.

The people who always think of you, protect you at all times, always regard you as an exception, store in their hearts, they are not trying to move you, but love you from the bottom of their hearts.

True love is a kind of giving and giving, if you have such a person around you, remember to cherish it and love it well!