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In places such as the train station and the airport, there are often many stories of parting and reunion, every time you come here, look around the week, there are couples who come to say goodbye and hug their reluctant lovers, there are couples who have smiles on their faces and wait for each other, and the joys and sorrows of the world can be spied here.
Arrived at the airport early that day, and in order to carry out customs checks in advance, the luggage was prepared last night. While waiting in the hall, I saw a girl with very fair skin, wearing a red coat, relatively close, which caught my attention, there was no luggage with me, just carrying a small bag, it seemed that it was not boarding, and she came to wait for people.
The smile on the girl's face was very bright, and she looked left and right, afraid of missing something.
There were a lot of people coming and going in the airport lobby, I checked in my luggage according to the process, passed the customs, and when I boarded the plane for an hour, I was told that I didn't have to travel, and the contract was arranged until next month, and I hurried to go to the refund to prepare to go out for a taxi.
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When she came out of the hall, I saw that the girl in red was still in the same place, but there was no excitement at all, and at this time she was crying and tearing her heart and lungs, and when she passed by, she could still hear the sound of her talking on the phone.
"Saying that I came to see me today, how did it turn into a breakup..." "I don't want to... I've been waiting for you for so long, is this the result I'm waiting for..."
Unfortunately, this is another sad story, and this girl has been roughly sleepless tonight.
A scene, the people who see it will inevitably figure out the things behind it, the man takes the initiative to break up, the man is not willing to be good with the girl, and the girl is not willing to let go, and there is him in his heart. There are many stories in this world, always with some sadness and haggardness.
The person looking for love can't meet love, and he meets a man who is desperate, and he doesn't even say goodbye to his face. It is said that men do not love you anymore, will choose to delete contact information, there is no intersection in this life, but it turns out that this is not the case.
I know that there is a very hot sentence on it:
The most cruel sequelae of love is not crying when we break up, but the faint pain in her heart when she thinks about it, no matter how long it takes.
This may be the most cruel way to hurt a person.
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When Tian Tian and the object broke up, there was some similarity with the girl at the airport, they did not see each other, they did not say goodbye, the difference is that Tian Tian was silently digested by himself, and the object did not delete her WeChat like others afterwards, Tian Tian opened the mobile phone, he could still see the circle of friends he sent, and he could still receive his greetings during the New Year's Festival.
This made Tian Tian think to a large extent that the two still had a chance to reunite.
Women are like this, the other party does not hurt herself to the extreme, the other party does not take the initiative to disappear in her world, she always has expectations in her heart.
Until the subject posted a photo of the current license, the feeling of heartbreak was once again generated, more painful than when the breakup, you know, it has been a full three years since the breakup.
Three years is not enough to forget a person.
Truly desperate men, after the breakup, will not break the link, will not delete. He just makes you watch, watch his life, watch his happiness. You can be approached at any time, and you can be ignored at any time.
Your position in his heart is not so high, and the contacts lying in the address book will not often be remembered, will not affect the mood, and will not affect their own step towards a new life.
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A little Zen monk has a classic saying:
"What happens to someone you like, it means that you have no reason to walk into his life anymore, and he is everywhere in your life, and what he has given you and what he has not given you has to give to another person, and you are not even qualified to be red-eyed." 」
The key is the last sentence:
"No matter what he left for, at least at the moment he decided he was going to go, he believed it would be better off without you."
A desperate man does not delete your seemingly dragging water, in fact, he already has a plan in his heart. You long to get back together, but he never thinks about it.
What women really want to do is that from now on, the mountains and rivers do not meet, and the old people are long and short.
Pick up dignity, don't dwell on the past, time can't heal people, only if you feel that it is not worth it, that is the real let go.
Looking back years later, perhaps it was this experience that became the biggest step in growth. Some hurt, once is enough. There are some truths that will never be forgotten if you understand them.
Original Author: Yo-Yo Jun. In this noisy world, we all want to have our own peace. Here, warm you with words, may your eyebrows be as good as ever, and work hand in hand with jun to enjoy the blossoming and falling of flowers.
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