The plot of "Dear Child" is getting more and more bloody. Hehe was easy to wait for the good news that there was a suitable match, but the volunteer could not match it for his own reasons. Xiao Lu, Yinuo, and Tianhua all broke down a bit, at which point the doctor proposed that they could have another child's brother or sister, and use their umbilical cord blood to save Hehe.
Xiao Lu and Yi Nuo were silent when they heard the news, and after thinking about it, the two decided to have another child. But after all, they were both remarried, how could this be open to Tianhua and Dong Fan? Yinuo decided to divorce Tianhua, but Tianhua resolutely disagreed; Xiao Lu proposed to have a child with Yinuo, and Dong Fan decided to divorce.
Tianhua and Dong Fan decided not to divorce one and the other decided to divorce, and their different choices revealed three truths.
1, Xiao Lu is too selfish
To have another child, it was Xiao Lu who took the initiative to propose to Yinuo, because he wanted to save Hehe.
When Hehe was a child, although Xiao Lu did not go home every day under the pretext of being busy at work, he still loved his children in his heart. After divorcing Yinuo, Hehe became his spiritual pillar, and he tried his best to see Hehe.
Now that Hehe is sick, he has been busy. Although Yinuo still did not like him in her heart, seeing his efforts, she decided not to hate him as before and gave him the right to visit her daughter. Although Dong Fan felt uncomfortable in his heart, he still tolerated Xiao Lu and Hehe.
It can be said that Xiao Lu is currently the happiest person, with a daughter and Dong Fan.
Now, he wants to have children with Yinuo, but he does not want to divorce Dong Fan, which is enough to explain his selfishness. He wants everything, but he wants others to pay for him, which is really "scum".
Originally, I thought he really loved Yinuo, but now that I saw his attitude towards Dong Fan, I realized that Xiao Lu only loved himself. Before, he said to Yinuo that he hoped to make him think about his own difficulties; now he asked Dong Fan to consider for him, saying that he was cornered, but did he think about Dong Fan?
If he really loves Dong Fan, why not have a child of his own with Dong Fan?
Xiao Lu seemed selfless, responsive to his brother's needs, and more considerate of his mother, but he seemed to be much worse than his wife, and he had never understood her.
At that time, Yinuo would be cold to the point of freezing because he understood him.
2, Yinuo is the most sober
Before, I thought that a divorce was too irrational. Now seeing Xiao Lu's attitude, I understand that Yinuo's choice is the most correct. Because she is with Xiao Lu, she can only ask to be paid, and it is impossible to be understood.
Indeed, after Hehe was born, Yinuo was too anxious, because of anxiety, so he would doubt his sister-in-law, and he would make the family restless and conflicted.
But after combing through her married life, Yinuo found that what she felt she could not tolerate was not Xiao Lu's infidelity, but the small things in all aspects of life.
She thought of waking up in the middle of the night to feed herself, thirsty but unable to shout Xiao Lu to pour her water; she thought that Hehe had a high fever and needed to be taken to the hospital, but Xiao Lu's phone could not be called; she thought of Xiao Lu who promised herself again and again but could not do it... She actually didn't want much, but Xiao Lu could appear in time when she needed it, but Xiao Lu couldn't do it at all.
Some people say that when a person's heart is cold, it is difficult to burn it anymore. Yinuo has exhausted his heat in disappointment after disappointment. Her heart was really cold, and it was cold.
Therefore, she walked so resolutely that she did not hesitate to draw a line between herself and him in the most tragic way.
That divorce dinner was her way of forcing herself not to look back.
She divorced Xiao Lu, let Hehe recognize Tianhua as her father, and refused Xiao Lu's help, in fact, just to live her life well. She wasn't stupid, she was sober enough.
3, Xie Tianhua loved too deeply
Yinuo filed for divorce with Xie Tianhua because she wanted to have another child with Xiao Lu, although it was artificial, but it was also a betrayal of the marriage after all. She didn't want Tianhua to carry her too much, so she filed for divorce. But Tianhua disagreed.
In the trailer, he tells Yinuo that even if she wants to have another child with Xiao Lu, he will not divorce.
In "Dear Child", Tianhua, played by Nie Yuan, is really too "Holy Father". In reality, few men can do this.
And the reason why he did this can only be said to be that he loves Yinuo too much, he is reluctant to let go, and he is even more reluctant to see Yinuo bear so much pain. There is also Hehe, seeing the scene where Hehe only treats Tianhua as his father, everyone is moved.
Xiao Lu decided to have a child with Yinuo, but he didn't think about what to do after the child was born? Who raises it? How will he face his own life in the future? This is a proper irresponsibility.
But Tianhua thought of it, so he said to Yinuo that he had raised the child.
Tianhua this person, he attaches great importance to feelings, and attaches great importance to other things such as matter, which is completely opposite to Xiao Lu. After Yinuo married him, he basically did not let Yinuo suffer a little grievance, Xie Dan bullied Yinuo, and he always stood up for yinuo at the first time.
He regarded Hehe as his own daughter, and after she fell ill, he ran forward and after, paid and contributed, and never complained.
Because he paid too much, Tianhua could not bear the pain of losing Yinuo and Hehe, so even if he was patient, he chose not to divorce.
In the whole drama, the most painful thing is Xie Tianhua.