No money, it seems to be the source of all the pain of adults...
01 Poor couple Pepsi lament
When people have no money, it is difficult to get love, love a person alone by touching, in this world can not be done, unless people do not need to eat, just rely on spiritual food to fill the stomach.
Nowadays, turning love into marriage, it is not enough to spend a million and eight hundred thousand, how much savings can an ordinary family have, and getting married once can return an ordinary family to the pre-liberation period.
Then choose "naked marriage"? It's not fair to women. Therefore, the premise of a man's marriage is to first have a house, and after buying a house, he will talk about spiritual enjoyment.
It is not easy to get married, but also to live a good life, to pay off the mortgage and car loan every month, it is difficult to live a materially rich life by relying on a meager income, and eating a hot pot a month is the least. But now young people, more and more pursuit of happiness index, what kind of life is happy, go out twice a year, honeymoon to go to Bali, of course, because of the well-known reasons in recent years, this money, many people have saved.
But eating, wearing, living, everything has to spend money, enjoy food, to drive a good car, Valentine's Day to buy a flower is not enough to make people move, buy ten roses to one or two hundred yuan, now people can not do without mobile phones, with a thousand or two thousand can not afford to lose people, when getting married three gold and five silver has fallen behind, wedding anniversary do not buy a diamond ring, are embarrassed to send a circle of friends.
A year of this money and that money are spent, an ordinary office worker simply can not afford it, but now people's happiness needs material satisfaction.
If there is no money, it is difficult for couples to be happy for a long time, this is the reality...
02 No money, no friends
If you have money in your hand, there will still be a few people around you, because of interests, people are connected with each other, a person without money, others do not know what the meaning of interacting with him is, let alone making friends.
People in this world are realistic, after adulthood, the once pure friendship will slowly fade, mainly because there is no motivation to contact each other, a good example is that once classmates, after ten years and eight years, several people still have contact...
Don't talk about friends, even relatives, more accurately, it should be "relatives". I remember when I was a child, between my cousins and cousins, my feelings were very deep, because when I was a child, I was naïve, there was no vanity, there was no comparison, and when I grew up, people changed.
Some relatives have heard that you are rich and profitable, and will maintain the love of relatives, and then there is that everyone has to do things, and they need relatives to help when doing things, or they are in the scene, all because people's hearts will be full of concerns about the future, even if they do not want to interact with relatives, they must also force a smile.
Many relatives today are just taking a form, and there are relatives who are connected, there is a link of interests, a person who has no money, relatives are too lazy to take care of you.
03 No money, the most depressed is still yourself
You see a person who is sullen and unhappy, and there is no smile on his face, nine times out of ten, it is because he is trapped by money. There is a TV series that calls me Yu Huanshui, starring Mr. Guo Jingfei, he portrays the image of a man without money to the fullest, when the father comes to the door to ask for money, when the lover gradually tires of the poor marriage, when the father-in-law and mother-in-law and the brother-in-law despise, when he finds out that he has cancer, he stands on the street, he wants to cry, but he wants to cry without tears...
When people are naïve, they believe that some friendships in this world do not need the assistance of money, and after entering society, when people are alone and need to support the whole family, earning money - it has become his most important task, or mission.
There is a movie in the United States called happiness to knock on the door, the male protagonist has made too much effort for the dream, but he always fails, the wife chooses to "get off the car" in the middle because life is unsustainable, the male protagonist wants to keep, but the wife says, I can't afford to wait, I want to pursue happiness, is it wrong to pursue happiness? Then the wife left, leaving him and the children poor.
In the face of reality, people often do not have much patience, too many people do not want to give you too long, so people must desperately speed up the pace, that is, the so-called "get rich early"...
Later, the male protagonist finally became a millionaire, and he told his son that he must work hard for the ideal, happiness, and sooner or later there will be a door knocking.
All of man's suffering comes from poverty, so there are too many people who are poor and afraid, don't blame them for living as they really are, because you don't know how many blows he suffered when he didn't have money. If you are also unhappy, there is no other way, just try to earn money, after you have money, happiness will come knocking!