Introduction: In today's parenting field, there are different degrees of parenting anxiety among parents, and many of them focus on the education of children, not only those who already have children, but even people who do not have children will have very serious anxiety about their future parenting education problems. These anxious problems of Chinese parents have only existed in the past two decades.
Therefore, parents have a lot of pressure problems in parenting for a long time, and they will always have one kind or another concern about their children's future growth. So what are the problems and reasons for our anxiety and panic about the education of our children? Parents, what are you afraid of?
In fact, the reason why parents have so much anxiety and panic in their children's education is nothing more than worrying about their children's future:
First, worry about the child's future social competitiveness is insufficient
Although the term "inner volume" has been popular for several years, this has not become a trend of the past, but there is a growing situation. With the development of society, as parents, we have clearly felt that we are under pressure at work, competitiveness has become a key factor in obtaining higher incomes and maintaining stable jobs.
In the torrent of the times, the practical problem of "not advancing or retreating" has created an era of inner volume, so as parents, we have deeply realized that if children want to have a better life when they grow up, their social competitiveness must not be less. And what is competitiveness for children? It is a good grade, outstanding skills and a good institution.
If you want your child to have a stronger competitive advantage in the future society, then you need to start from an early age to do a variety of extra weights for your child, to let your child win on the starting line, to have your child's test scores rank among the best, and to ask your child to learn a variety of after-school training courses. And all this is just to prepare for the future of the child.
Under this educational concept of "everything must be top-notch", how can parents not be anxious about their children's education, and how can they not panic in the face of their children's slight backwardness. Because parents associate their children's current situation with future results, they are afraid that if their children are not well educated now, their future life will lead to the result of failure.
Second, worry that children will enter a bad social class in the future
Chinese parents have long had a kind of "hope for their children to become dragons, hope for women to become phoenixes" thinking, because when parents do not want their children to be worse than themselves in the future, they all hope that their children can become the top people in society in the future, and they can be better than blue out of blue. This is the ultimate expectation of parents for their children's education, and they want their children to be better and better than themselves.
Therefore, driven by this expectation of "getting better and better", parents are plunged into deep educational anxiety, because we are all eager to see our children become excellent beings among all. Not only do you want to do your best to give your children a better education, but you also want to be able to give yourself a better education than you can.
Another factor is that parents are limited by their own life and cannot get a better social transition, so they will pin their hopes on their children. Trying to make a better social leap through our education and future choices, the farming family becomes a working family, and the working family becomes an asset family.
And in this way of thinking with strong desires and expectations for their children, parents are often unable to accept the possibility that their children's future will not meet their expectations. Because the child's future is not only the child's own time, this is also related to the parents' own future, when the child can not meet their own expectations, it is easy to have anxiety, panic.
Important: The core problem of parents' anxiety and panic in their children's education is worrying about their children's future situation. Parents are afraid that their children's social competitiveness in the future is insufficient, unable to obtain a good life, but also worried that their children will not be able to enter a good social class in the future, so it is inevitable that there will be a lot of responsibility and pressure in education, and they want their children to become better than others.
Today's topic: Dear parents, what is your biggest anxiety about your children's education? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.