As the old saying goes: "When you hear his words, you can know who he is".
Language can best expose a person's character and cultivation, and many times, the words that are often on your lips reflect your truest appearance.
The words spoken by people with good hearts are as calm as spring breeze and rain; The words of the resentful people are like the snow in June.
There are thousands of languages in the world, but only "thank you" is the most moving.
It is often these 3 types of people who like to say "thank you", and they are more fortunate and blessed.
1 Sincere people, hidden in the details of the grace
In "Zhuangzi", it is said: "The true person is sincere, and if he is not sincere, he cannot move people." ”
In this life, fame, fortune, and wealth are just icing on the cake, and treating people sincerely is the foundation that is adhered to in the bottom of the heart, and it is the only bridge between people.
You give sincerely, and I still give true affection; You think about me, and I know how to be grateful.
Only in this way can the relationship last for a long time and the good fortune can always be accompanied.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a rich son named Chen Liang, who was kind, sincere and polite.
On one outing, I met an elderly man in ragged clothes, selling shoes on the street to treat his family.
Chen Liang saw that the old man was pitiful and gave him some silver taels, and the old man asked Chen Liang's address and promised that he would return the silver taels within half a month.
But a month passed, and the old man still did not appear.
Just when Chen Liang sighed that people's hearts were unpredictable, the old man hurried over, not only paid off the silver taels, but also gave Chen Liang the food he made.
It turned out that his family was seriously ill and passed away, and he was busy dealing with the aftermath and was delayed for a few days.
Because he had no money to take a carriage or horse, he could only walk on foot, Chen Liang was respectful, so he left the old man at home to take care of him.
Sincerity comes from people's openness and trust; Gratitude comes from people's good thoughts and sincerity.
Sincerity + gratitude is a person's best conduct.
People have eyes, the sky has sensing, sincerity and kindness will have good rewards, and you will meet noble people with kindness.
When you are in trouble, someone sends charcoal in the snow, and a sincere "thank you" is the best reward for kindness.
On the long road of life, being grateful and treating people sincerely, can we meet with good luck and have the best blessings.
2. A virtuous person is rooted in the upbringing of the bones
"Zhou Yi" said: "The terrain is good, and the gentleman carries things with virtue." ”
Be kind, do not take advantage of others, and make people respectful; Do things kindly, don't let people suffer, and win the hearts of the people.
Kindness is an upbringing rooted in the bones, and it can carry the blessing of Hongde.
No matter what the circumstances, a kind person can live a clear and smooth life.
There are two pastry shops in the town, the one in the east and the one in the west.
There is not much difference in the types of pastries between the two shops, but the way of doing business is very different between the two shopkeepers.
In order to thank customers for their presence and care, every time a new product is released, customers will be given free tasting, and some discounts will be given at the time of settlement.
In the evening, the remaining pastries in the shop are not good, so the shopkeeper will lower the price so that the customer will not suffer, and will sincerely thank the customer for their trust and help when leaving.
As for the pastry shop in the west, the shopkeeper is also very enthusiastic, but he always secretly puts the pastries that are about to expire into the customer's bag at the checkout to add weight.
Over time, the business of the two shops naturally differed.
In the "Four Teachings of Liaofan", it is said: "A hundred gold fortunes must be a hundred gold figures, and a thousand gold fortunes must be a thousand gold figures." ”
If a person is virtuous, good fortune will come, and if a person is not virtuous, disaster will come.
Virtue is the foundation of human life, and only by planting the cause of virtue can we enjoy the fruits it brings.
And people who are truly virtuous have long put "thank you" on their lips and formed a habit.
They would rather suffer losses themselves than let others suffer, which seems to lack immediate benefits, but in fact they have achieved long-term development.
3 A humble person who treats others with respect
Zhuge Liang said: "Don't be a slut with your wealth, and don't disobey the public with your own opinion." ”
In a high position, not arrogant; Being in a low position, the knots are clinging.
The more capable people are, the more they know how to treat others with humility and respect for others; The more incompetent the person, the more arrogant and domineering he is, and there is no one in his eyes.
When getting along with others, being humble and polite is to solemnize oneself, respecting others is respecting oneself, and being considerate of others will also be forgiven.
In the cold winter of Layue, a guy who was moving goods accidentally broke a vase.
The man, fearing that he would be punished, said carefully to the shopkeeper, "I have broken your vase, and I will pay you for it, but please do not let me lose this livelihood." ”
The merchant said casually: "It's okay, don't pay compensation, I'll clean it up, you can work in peace." ”
But when the merchant finished cleaning up the broken vase, he found the man standing there, looking at him guiltily, and the merchant said, "It's all right, go and move the other goods." ”
With that, the man bowed his head and bowed deeply to the merchant and said, "Thank you."
At dinner, the merchant saw that the man was still sullen, so he went up to him and comforted: "It's just a vase, it's good that you are not injured, thank you for doing your best for me in the snow and ice." ”
The man stood up and said, "Thank you for your tolerance and understanding, and I will definitely work harder to repay you in the future." ”
What is Humility? What is Respect?
If you think about it carefully, it is about humility and kindness, tolerance and generosity, putting others above others, and treating others as human beings.
People who are truly humble and courteous and know how to respect others, no matter what their status, will put themselves in the shoes of others.
You must know: those who respect others are always accompanied by good luck; Whoever wins hearts and minds will be helped.
Be a man and do things, be more low-key, less arrogant, more respectful, and less contemptuous, and you will be treated gently by the world.
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"The Way of Speaking" says: "The more you can speak, the happier others will be, and the happier others are, the more they will like you; In this way, the more help you get."
People who put "thank you" on their lips are sincere, know how to be grateful, have profound virtues, are humble and kind, make people comfortable in their words, and warm their attitudes.
With people who often say "thank you", you are in a happy mood and at ease, even if you are in the wind and rain, you can be silent and happy.