Educational anxiety is an important topic facing adults.
When I picked up the baby at the kindergarten yesterday, the parents set off a new round of anxiety.
For children in kindergarten, there is still a year and a half to enter primary school.
Many parents talk about going to primary school when they wait for their children to leave the kindergarten, and many young people have begun to plan to transfer their children to kindergartens.
They said that this is a public kindergarten, where the teacher does not teach the child anything, so which line, you see that people's private kindergartens teach children to go to primary school in advance, and are ready to transfer the kindergarten procedures for the children after this semester.
There are also people, what double subtraction, are for those who do not understand the parents to reduce, really understand that people have to pay close attention to the child to do tutoring class, otherwise the primary school can not keep up.
You talked about me very hotly, and some parents who had no idea were also stirred up.
What to do, what to do, which kindergarten to turn to, how to go to the bridging class?
The spread of anxiety does not require much complicated process, and it spreads almost every day after a conversation.
But there is also a phenomenon that is quite interesting, that is, those who are emotionally anxious are mostly parents of only children, and those who have given birth to a second child are relatively calm.
The reason is very simple, the parents of only children have particularly high expectations for their children, and for this one child, education must be at all costs, and no matter what, they cannot let their children lose at the starting line.
For most parents who have had a second child, one has the experience of educating and cultivating children, they know that not being able to attend training classes and bridging classes is almost of little significance to kindergarten children, and the other is that their energy and financial resources cannot take into account the investment of two children at the same time.
I believe that if you have three children, it is estimated that it will be even rougher to raise.
Roughness is not a bad thing.
For young children, their childhood is more about perceiving the world and cultivating a sound and good psychology and physique, which is an invisible education that cannot be measured by scores.
Learning the pinyin alphabet one day early, english conversation, and learning mathematical addition and subtraction one day later will not produce much substantive significance, and when their minds mature, they will level this distance in extreme time.
But the lack of childlike fun in the process of growing up cannot be remedied.
This is also an important reason why it is necessary to reduce both.
Children need to grow naturally, including contact with nature and natural adaptation to the laws of growth, rather than pulling seedlings to help them grow and fall on the starting line.
Having only one child will not only bring about the problem of population structure, but also lead to educational deformities, and too much pressure on children will lay huge hidden dangers for future school aversion and psychological obstacles.
Some people will retort that Gu Ailing is not an only child, and does not he have early exposure to various specialties?
But looking at her growth process, except for going to Haidian Huangzhuang every year to make up for a few days of classes after growing up, she never took her studies and grades as a goal-oriented.
What we oppose is for children to learn so-called knowledge too early and enter the score evaluation system too early.
Exams and scores are terrible hoods that kill people.
As a parent, you must wake up and don't rush to put this cover on your child's head.