From the beginning of having an only child, educational anxiety has become more and more serious! Double subtraction is a sharp brake, it is certainly not adaptable in the short term, and it is used to it after a long time. People in the car have experienced that the sharp braking is very annoying, and after the sharp braking, it will be adapted.
Why are one-child families more anxious? The reason is that you can't afford to lose! With only one child, the only hope is the focus of the whole family. Small things can be infinitely magnified, teachers face unprecedented challenges, and the slightest mistake will be blamed.
In the future, teachers will become more and more difficult to do! The economy is not good, and the profession of public teacher is still a bit attractive, such as now. Once the economy gets better, the profession of public teacher may not be attractive. Most of the new teachers I see are of average level! Even at this level, it's not necessarily long!
The solution to educational anxiety is to have 2 children per family. Some people must say that raising a child is exhausting, raise two or forget it! In fact, I think that today's society does not starve people, and it is still not a big problem to raise children. It's the comparison that makes everyone tired!
When there are more children in the family, the attention will not focus on one child, and hope will not be pinned on a child, so that the child is relaxed, the parents are not tired, and the teacher will not be difficult to educate, because the problems of all kinds of only children are gone.
Let's look back at the years before family planning, every family had more than two children, was there educational anxiety? No! Some people will say that eating in that era was a problem, where is the time to be anxious? That's right! Now that there is only one child in the family, can we not be anxious if we hope to pin our hopes on one child? If there are two children, the anxiety will be halved, and the learning anxiety of each child will be halved. Because parents have two hopes, children will not be overly concerned and asked, but will be better.
The cost of raising one child is high, isn't the cost of raising two children even higher? Not necessarily! The place where the money is spent here is to make up the class, and raising a child holds a lot of hope for the family, and the make-up class fee will be more. Raising two children simply does not make up classes, or less make-up classes, because they can't make up for it. No make-up lessons may have a good effect, the child's body and mind will be healthier, the family will be very harmonious, because there is no make-up class, the requirements for grades are not high, the child is not tired, and the family is harmonious.
In short, it is still good to have two children or multiple children, in case which child is out of work, it can drive the whole family to get rich, even if there is no interest, isn't it quite lively during the New Year's Festival?
By the way, with more children, the greater the possibility of changing the fate of the family! In today's society, the cost of raising children is still not high after removing the tuition fee. No make-up lessons, ordinary families have no problem raising two children, you say?