The pickpocket sister was shocked by a hot search.
In the hospital delivery room, the new mother had just unloaded her goods and was tired and sweating.
The husband, who was supposed to come to take care of him quickly, suddenly disappeared.
It turned out that he took advantage of this time gap to secretly transfer the child's placenta to the mother.
Why do you insist on getting the placenta?
Because the mother said that the placenta has nutrients that can be greatly supplemented, it is necessary to make wontons to supplement the brother-in-law's body.
This suffocating twist comes from the new drama starring Qin Hao and Ren Suxi.
From the first episode, the show has been anxious and nervous, scratching and scratching. And in the lens, there is no trace of whitewashing and beautification of life.
Sister Pickpocket has not seen for a long time, depicting the marriage and childbearing relationship so lifelike, detailed, psychological film and television works.
【1】
"Dear Child", the title looks very happy, but the plot takes a cruel and realistic route.
Its focus is on how young couples part ways because of parenting conflicts.
This led to a series of extended discussions on social topics such as the relationship between husband and wife, the concept of marriage, parent-child relationship, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
When it comes to domestic dramas about fertility and husband and wife relations, I think many viewers think of "dog blood" and "exaggeration".
At present, this drama is OK, and the screenwriter's logic is still within the normal intelligence range.
It is characterized by the extremely delicate storytelling technique.
How granular is it?
The creator is eager to peel off and dig up the state of the new parents, and explain everything to the audience in detail.
Every small problem, a small twist, how to affect and end the relationship between husband and wife, is clearly laid out.
In the first five episodes, there is basically one thing to say: how big the attitude of the sexes toward raising children can be.
Specifically, we must start with the male and female protagonists.
Fang Yinuo (Ren Suxi) and Xiao Lu (Qin Hao) are young couples who have been married for many years.
The woman is a Chinese teacher with a strong personality and chokes on her speech.
The man is an ordinary worker, and drinking and socializing and working overtime are the norm.
Before having children, the small friction and small collision between two people basically belong to the state of overnight good.
But after giving birth, it is different, and physical changes, parenting concepts, irregular work and rest, and work arrangements gradually amplify their contradictions.
Take Fang Yinuo for example, women will make them more sensitive, anxious, nervous and suspicious because of the hormone secretion brought about by production.
For example, she over-interprets the advice of "experts", even if it sounds ridiculous.
For example, she is not at ease with anyone other than herself to take care of the child.
Even if the mother-in-law takes the child downstairs for a walk, she has to wear a telescope to monitor.
For example, if your child is uncomfortable, she will trigger a level one alarm state.
During the day in the hospital, I scare my husband, my mother-in-law, and my nurse, and at night I will wake up in the middle of the night and guess any unfavorable situation.
These real anxieties and concerns that are as fine as the pinpoint show that Fang Yinuo has reached the level of a spy in taking care of children.
The husband's attitude is a different picture.
He first missed the time spent with his wife for giving birth because he was drinking and watching the ball. After giving birth, he didn't show much positivity either.
As can be seen from everyday language, his strategy is to be muddy, negative, and evasive
For example, if the wife says a few more words about the child, he mechanically replies: "What's wrong?" ”
The problem can't be solved, so I throw down the next sentence "Then what do you say I can do?" Then turned to sleep.
If the wife is still obsessed with the small problem of raising children, he will say: "Wife, don't you be so nervous, okay?" ”
If the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law quarrel over the concept of parenting, he will only change the subject:
"I'm tired for a day, and when I come back, this little thing at home, don't let me give you reasoning and settling the case, let me rest for a while."
Doesn't he love children? He loves.
Doesn't he feel sorry for his wife? Not really.
But he just didn't have Fang Yinuo's heart, enthusiasm, and initiative.
Therefore, the contradiction between two people, the more they accumulate.
As the number of quarrels increased, he would rather sleep in the car than go home to solve the problem.
To tell the truth, the pickpocket sister feels that this state of getting along hides the epitome of many young couples.
Most of the divorce fuse on the hot search is the difference in concepts and contradictions exposed after giving birth.
Under the setting of this relationship between husband and wife, the drama has also successively appeared in other things that have the imprint of reality.
Not long after the placental incident, the sister-in-law incident was staged.
In order to facilitate the care of the children, the couple found a sister-in-law (Liu Lin).
Unexpectedly, the sister-in-law was very unreliable.
In order to make herself feel more relaxed, she ignored the child's illness, which caused her symptoms to worsen and she had to go to the hospital for treatment.
After being discovered by Fang Yinuo, he stole the roll cover and escaped.
After the sister-in-law left, the mother-in-law came to take care of the children again and staged a paper burning drama.
Specifically, the mother-in-law has a limited education level and is superstitious about folk remedies and ghosts and gods, so there are many conflicts of ideas with Fang Yinuo.
For example, once the child was crying, the mother-in-law thought that she might have been targeted by a ghost, and ran downstairs to burn paper to pass on the message.
Fang Yinuo, who adhered to science, only felt speechless, helpless, and helpless.
Later, the mother-in-law also threw the child off because she was busy playing cards, adding fuel to the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
When the plot progressed here, many netizens said that they saw the story of their own home.
That's right.
Unreliable sister-in-law, mother-in-law with different concepts, and husband who does not care about the family, casually bring out the headline events that occupy the news page for many years.
This drama is to explain all the emotions in the parenting process through these small things.
Only in this way can the audience have a strong resonance after watching it.
Further, it does not want to deliberately render good and whitewash life.
Instead, it shows what life really looks like after fading the beautification filter.
Having a child is so trivial, confusing, and dazed, moving forward in a trivial way, and then going back and forth.
【2】
In addition to the plot, the actors' appearances and performances are also very realistic.
The two actors perform almost plainly, and you don't see any obtrusive foundation, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara and lipstick on their faces.
To put it bluntly, what kind of woman is a confinement woman, Ren Suxi is what it is like inside.
Qin Hao was the same.
Working during the day and taking care of his wife's emotions at night, his whole face was full of haggard.
The show does not use any post-production filters to modify the actor's skin, but instead uses exposed skin conditions to make the characters real and believable.
After talking about the costumes, let's talk about the performance.
The director is very fierce, almost all close-ups and large close-ups, which is a very test of acting skills.
Fortunately, Ren Suxi and Qin Hao had both passed the test. In the face of close-ups, they are really not afraid.
For example, the scene where Fang Yinuo gives birth to a child.
The camera moves from far and near, and finally directly hits the actor's face.
Ren Suxi relied on the changes in his eyes, expressions, and muscles to perform a layered production pain, which was painful to watch.
Qin Hao's performance still continues his consistent standard.
Interpret the husband's weak and soft character with a dejected head.
When the mood arrives, it should cry and cry, and it should shout, but there is no lack of just restraint, and the emotional preparation is very exquisite.
【3】
There is another reason why this drama has a strong sense of reality.
There are no absolute good guys and bad guys in the play, everyone is an ordinary person with flaws.
For example, Fang Yinuo is too strong.
Talking rampage and not taking care of her husband's emotions.
Over time, the attributes on which men are accustomed to being relied on have been weakened. He may feel that his wife is stronger than himself and does not need his shoulders.
Therefore, Xiao Lu gradually became less talkative, cold, and less enthusiastic.
Gradually, couples developed communication barriers.
But until this time, Fang Yinuo still did not examine himself and pushed the problem outward.
Instead, she felt that when she was vulnerable, her husband's non-talk was equivalent to turning a blind eye.
When it is time to communicate, do not communicate, and for a long time repeatedly tie the dead knot of the husband and wife relationship, which becomes the beginning of cold violence.
Since they are all ordinary people with defects, there must be friction in life.
For example, a mother-in-law who has not been to school much and a mother who advocates scientific concepts get together, and even buy vegetables can have differences.
The children's contradictions have not been resolved, and the parents on both sides have constant problems.
Under the concept of different parenting, the parents of both sides insist on each other's words and do not give in to each other, and their words are full of arrogance and prejudice.
As a result, meticulousness has become "picking bones in eggs", and extravagance has become "brother-in-law burning firewood".
It can be said that the conflict of concepts between mother-in-law and mother-in-law has exacerbated the marriage death of young people.
Besides.
The pickpocket sister also feels that this drama really cares about the female anxiety of the novice mother being ignored.
Think about it carefully, Fang Yinuo did not get enough spiritual comfort and practical help in the process of raising children, plus she did not know how to relieve herself, which is why she became so emotional.
The director's truthful filming of this state can play a warning role.
After reading it, young couples can be inspired so as not to fall into the strange circle of endless quarrels.
That's just the first few episodes.
The series has a total of 34 episodes.
It is said that there are more anxious plots later.
After the two divorced, they reorganized their families with each other.
But the news that the daughter was suffering from leukemia once again disrupted each other's lives.
What's worse, the doctor suggested that they have another child to save their daughter's life.
This is all divorced and remarried, how to have children again?
The next plot direction will presumably trigger more heart-wrenching human torture.
I hope that the screenwriter and director will keep it, and must not spill dog blood, do not rot the tail, and do not forcibly elevate.
And finally.
Sister Pickpocket suggested that all men and women who plan to get married or plan to have children should come to see this drama and do psychological construction in advance.
Because, in the play, the husband and wife involved in having children get along, milk powder feeding, sister-in-law trust, and mother-in-law contradictions, all hide the true epitome.
Moreover, young people have no experience when they become parents for the first time.
This drama explains the problems that new parents will encounter under the high probability, which has certain reference and reference value.
While it may seem a little anxious, the more real and anxious it is, the more useful it is.