What is it like to have fun playing with your mother-in-law?

Abstract: If you let go of prejudice and take the initiative to take the most critical step, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along happily together.

01

When she first got married, Xiaomi looked down on her mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law came from the countryside, worked in the fields for many years, was born with a large waist and round waist, and her hands were as thick as old bark. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law met for the first time, the mother-in-law dragged Xiaomi's hand and touched it, and Xiaomi's delicate skin, which was cared for by various essences all day long, was actually scratched out of a blood hole. Xiaomi sneered in his heart: Oh hey, this is also a woman?

Of course, the appearance does not conform to the aesthetics of millet is still secondary, after all, this is something that the father-in-law wants to worry about. The point is that there is an irreconcilable conflict in the consumption concepts of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Xiaomi's biggest pleasure every day is to use mobile phones to brush Taobao, and the monthly bill can beat 97% of buyers in the same city. As soon as the mother-in-law saw the courier coming to the door, she had a dark face: "Buying east and west all day long, this is like a person who lives a life!" Don't save money, watch you drink the northwest wind later! ”

Xiaomi was not convinced, and secretly slandered: "You are a rural old lady, you don't even have a pension, but you don't dare to spend it!" I earn more than your son, so why don't you let me spend it? ”

02

The mother-in-law is frugal by nature, and a penny is eager to break it in half.

Xiaomi almost scared to death when she first saw her mother-in-law's pajamas: she actually had a big patch on her floral pajama pants! Forehead drop god, this kind of old antique, Xiaomi can only be seen in film and television dramas! Catching up with the double eleven, Xiaomi quickly bought two sets of pajamas for her mother-in-law, a set of silk and a set of pure cotton, all of which are brand-name goods.

The mother-in-law did not appreciate it: "Why spend this unjust money?" Wear some clothes! Poor! "Tickle your teeth with millet." I thought to myself: I don't think you are ashamed, you think I am willing to buy it for you!

Xiaomi bought his son a lot of clothes. The mother-in-law always hides new clothes, is reluctant to "waste" the child, and finds old clothes for the child to wear. When the child grows taller, the new clothes can no longer be worn, and can only be given away.

That's all, once, Xiaomi and her husband went out to play for a few days, and when they returned to Beijing, they actually met their mother-in-law at the subway station. She held Xiaomi's son in her hand, and the child's pant legs were connected to a circle of wool edges. Xiaomi was shocked and angry, and his face was pulled down at once.

The next day, the neighbor saw Xiaomi and praised her vigorously: "I really didn't see it, you will live like this!" "It turned out that in the few days that she was not at home, her mother-in-law took the baby wearing this body and hung around in the community every day. The neighbor's eyes are clearly saying that when the mother dresses up brightly every day, she is reluctant to buy new clothes for her children!

At that moment, Xiaomi was so embarrassed that he almost found a seam to drill into!

Xiaomi began to turn away from her mother-in-law.

Although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live under the same roof, they only say 3 words to the mother-in-law a day: "Mom, I am back!" "How's the child doing today?" "Mom, I'm going to work!" If Xiaomi rests at home, he will inevitably hold the notebook and type, indicating that he is very busy and does not have time to chat with his mother-in-law.

Seeing Xiaomi like this, the mother-in-law was not willing to put a hot face on the cold ass, and the two people froze. Usually polite, but there is no need, not a word is said.

03

The turnaround was due to the downstairs neighbour renovations, which were chiseled until 11 o'clock at night and were not closed on Saturdays and Sundays. The child was so frightened that he cried so much that Xiaomi's heart was broken. Xiaomi first found a neighbor to communicate, people's doors are not open; several times to find property complaints, but as soon as the property left, people went their own way, and the property was also rutted.

People don't want faces, it's really invincible in the world! Xiaomi suddenly became depressed, struggling with whether to call the police. However, finding a police uncle is a big thing for Xiaomi, who is kind and kind. Her most daring behavior is nothing more than giving a bad review to bad sellers.

At the critical moment, the mother-in-law stood up and said: "This little thing, why do you still need to find the police?" You rest, I'll come! ”

The mother-in-law changed a pair of leather shoes oh downstairs, bang bang bang knocked on the neighbor's door, and did not know what the mother-in-law said to the neighbor, she probed downstairs, was hearing the neighbor who had been cold to herself apologizing to the mother-in-law one by one, and directly let the decoration workers leave work.

Xiaomi is eager to kneel for her mother-in-law! Which is this rustic rural old lady? This is clearly the Queen!

Back at home, Xiaomi quickly poured water for her mother-in-law's tea: "Mom, you are too cattle!" Mom, you're amazing! While drinking tea, the mother-in-law said triumphantly: "When you encounter this kind of nonsense, you must directly touch it hard!" ”

Xiaomi began to look at her mother-in-law with a new eye: what is wrong with rustic, people's force value is high! What's wrong with slamming the door usually, people give power at key moments!

04

In the past, children were the only topic between Xiaomi and her mother-in-law, and now, Xiaomi has nothing to do with her mother-in-law to chat about celebrity gossip and small things in her circle.

When bored, accompany your mother-in-law to watch rural dramas such as "Country Love Story" and "Ma Dashuai". Really look into it, Xiaomi feels that these dramas are particularly grounded, but also particularly decompressing.

Xiaomi opened a membership for her mother-in-law on various video software, like what TV series to watch, the mother-in-law is also very happy, no longer said that Xiaomi spent money indiscriminately. Everyone praised: "My daughter-in-law is fine, and she still accompanies me to watch TV dramas!" ”

Before going out in the morning, Xiaomi gets dressed and will ask her mother-in-law to give some advice: "Mom, do you see that I can do this?" Is it official enough to have a regular meeting today? The mother-in-law will also give advice very seriously: "I see that you are more stable in changing into a long black dress!" Isn't it said on TV that black and white are the most versatile, and you can't go wrong! "Seeing xiaomi accept her own opinions and immediately changed her body, the mother-in-law had a special sense of accomplishment in her heart."

Sometimes, the mother-in-law will also give Xiaomi an umbrella: "Hold, the weather forecast says there is rain today!" This made the careless millet somewhat moved.

Xiaomi will also ask her mother-in-law to help a little, such as the button of the clothes is off, please ask the mother-in-law to help sew it.

Every time, he praised his mother-in-law: "Mom, your stitches are straight and dense, and you have a fight with a professional sewing master!" The mother-in-law was also not modest: "That is! Where in our rural areas do we have spare money to ask people to sew clothes? Do it yourself! I've been sewing clothes since I was a kid, and you give me a whole sewing machine, and I can make you the same clothes that the stars on TV wear! ”

The mother-in-law is really not blown, and her sewing skills are really great. In fact, the pants legs and sleeves of the mother-in-law's clothes for the child are very concerned about color matching, which feels quite fashionable, and there is a mix-and-match hip-hop style. Xiaomi used to look down on her mother-in-law, so she didn't look down on the clothes made by her mother-in-law.

05

Once, the mother-in-law confided with Xiaomi: "Mom has no pension, spending money always has to reach out to your father for money, I feel really uncomfortable!" ”

Xiaomi had a clever move: "Mom, you can open an online shop to make clothes!" ”

The mother-in-law said: "The streets are full of clothes for sale, can it be done?" ”

Xiaomi said: "Adult clothes are definitely not OK, let's do private order OB baby clothes!" Now it's on fire! ”

Xiaomi showed her mother-in-law a lot of photos of baby clothes, and her mother-in-law was happy when she saw it: "It's too simple, I can do it!" ”

Xiaomi bought a professional sewing machine for her mother-in-law, and helped her mother-in-law open an online store, and all the money earned from selling baby clothes was honored to her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law has a lot of money, and she is not very nagging about spending money on millet.

Originally, after the child went to kindergarten, the mother-in-law was bored at home during the day. Now every day to open an online store, make baby clothes, life has become incomparably full, full of spirit.

Xiaomi is not idle, simply worship his mother-in-law as a teacher, and learn sewing with her mother-in-law. To improve herself, she also signed up for a weekend class in fashion design and developed a new hobby. Xiaomi feels that designing clothes is more fulfilling than shopping, and its taste for clothing has also improved by a notch.

Now, Xiaomi and her mother-in-law DIY together every day, exchanging sewing experience, not to mention how happy.

Even if it is a rural mother-in-law vs a city daughter-in-law, even if it is a thrifty and a loser, as long as the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are not the best, it is completely possible to want to play happily together. It depends on whether you are willing to let go of your prejudices and take the most critical step.

【Source: Labor Watch】