Countless parents hope to send their children to the best school, receive the best education, and do their best to create the best educational environment for their children, but they often ignore that parents are the best teachers for their children.
The best education for a child is the words and deeds of the parents.
A netizen saw such a heart-warming scene in the Changsha subway: When waiting for the subway, a baby asked what the footprints under his feet were doing.
Mom and Dad and Grandma (Grandma) patiently explained to him that there was a queue, and lined up neatly for the baby to see.
People who are well tutored appear as a family.
Children in the subway car sprinkle popcorn on the subway car, and parents pick up one grain after another with their children
These moves may be insignificant, but it is these subtleties that are most powerful.
At a road intersection in Shijiazhuang, a woman led a little girl across the road, saw a vehicle coming and two people subconsciously stopped and planned to return, but the vehicle stopped in front of the zebra crossing to give way, the mother and daughter crossed the road, and the girl was still under the prompting of her mother, bowed to the giving way and waved to the driver.
Good education comes from bits and pieces of life.
On a rainy day, a father with a child found that the manhole cover on the road had collapsed, and the father stood next to the manhole cover in the water after calling the police, guiding the passing vehicles to avoid. At this time, the child is waiting for his father on the side of the road.
Tiger father without dog This is perhaps the best lesson in a child's life.
Also raining on a rainy day at the entrance of an underground passageway, a mother shields her child from the rain with her left and right, while her right hand holds an umbrella to shield herself from the rain for a hunched old man, who is a tramp who has been slowly following him.
Kindness is always hidden inadvertently, and actions are always more profound than words.
On a flight, a mother with her child alone gave everyone a small gift as soon as she got on the plane, which contained earplugs and small candy, and printed a passage on the back: "I am Wendy from Ningbo, I am just one and a half years old...
Taking my mom alone for fear that my crying will bother you, here are earplugs and small candy in hopes of alleviating your troubles..."
The baby was very well behaved the whole time
Some people don't do this because they're in first class, they're doing it in first class.
A child "walked" four comic books in the bookstore, and when the parents found out, they wrote an apology letter, and left the entire book money of 40 yuan, which was stuffed into the bookstore through the crack in the door early in the morning.
The apology letter reads: "Hello! Since I had no way to teach my son, [my son] took four (manga) picture books in your shop. Your shop door is not open, I should have personally brought my son to apologize personally, did not open the door, I gave you (put the money) inside. I'm sorry. ”
Children always make mistakes, and the key is to see how parents deal with them.
The child sitting in the back seat of the morning rush hour threw the yogurt box out of the window, and the father immediately got out of the car to educate the child's behavior. I picked up the yogurt box and put it back in the car.
There are no born bear children, only wrong parents and irresponsible parents.
While eating in a restaurant, a mother with her child was in the window position, and a homeless man stood outside the window watching them eat, and the mother took the child to the ordering place to pack a meal for him, and used her own actions to teach the child kindness and giving.
The attitude towards the weak is the true quality of a person.
In your house, when eating every day, who is the first chopstick dish to clip to?
Children eat with their parents and grandparents, and many parents often give their children the first chopsticks and say, "Baby eat fast!" This is what your mother made for you. ”
Grandparents did not show weakness, and they all put vegetables into the grandchildren's bowls: "This dish is nutritious, and the baby should eat more." "Is such a scene familiar?"
The first bite is not necessarily more nutritious, but the child learns to be selfish and thinks that he is the most important person in the family.
So when eating, the parents have not yet sat down at the table, and the child has already pounced on it and eaten more than half of the favorite dish. Every word and deed of parents is to set an example for their children, and every detail in family life is actually not a subsection.
Wise parents must know that they must give the first chopsticks to the elders.
In this way, children will learn from primary school to respect and honor their elders, and will be more useful when they go to society in the future.
Many times, every move, word and deed of parents will be subtly imprinted in the child's mind, affecting the child's key choices and decisions on the road to the future, and ultimately affecting their fate. If you want your child to become a literate person, you must first become a literate person.
No matter how good the famous school is, it is not as good as the words and deeds of parents to their children.