In this 21st century that advocates "free love", the public has accepted seemingly impossible love, but the grandfather and grandson love are still despised.
I believe that many people know the "wolf and the little cool" on the Internet
The love between them of 25 years has stunned most people, and many more people have blessed that lovers will eventually become dependents.
In academia, there is also such a pair of soul mates, who are not afraid of the world's vision, are not afraid of the pressure of public opinion, regardless of the 54-year-old age difference, resolutely choose to fight for love,
They are Professor Yang Zhenning and his wife Weng Fan.
Yang Zhenning's married life has attracted the attention of the public.
In 2004,
A pair of 54-year-old "yearless love" entered the palace of marriage
, caused a huge sensation in the country.
After all, in the year of the widow's death,
Professor Yang Zhenning, 82, married Weng Fan, 28
Anyone who thinks about it will put Yang Zhenning on the hat of "irresponsible" and "unrequited love", and the people who bless them are naturally very few.
So how did the two get together?
Weng Fan was admitted to the Department of Foreign Languages of Shantou University after the college entrance examination, and with his wisdom and high level of ability, he met Professor Yang and his wife at an event in the university and exchanged contact information.
Weng Fan, who is also polite and resourceful, also left a good impression on the couple.
After a one-sided relationship,
Weng Fan and Yang often write letters
And the Yang couple did their best to help Weng Fan, whether it was academic or life difficulties.
Therefore, the feelings between Weng Fan and the Yang couple have also deepened day by day, and in the decades of exchanges,
The two have maintained a relationship of both teacher and student and friend.
In the blink of an eye, Weng Fan's college life also came to say goodbye, and after graduation, she continued to pursue a master's degree.
But the moon has clouds and clouds,
After getting married, Weng Fan immediately said goodbye to his married life
This caused a huge blow to Weng Fan.
The good times did not last long, just received the good news of being admitted to graduate school, and the bad news came from the other side ---––
Yang Zhenning's wife died.
Faced with the frustration of the failure of the marriage and the death of his master and mother, who was like a father and mother, what tormented Weng Fan even more was watching the living Professor Yang Zhenning's long-term inability to let go of his wife's departure and becoming lonely and haggard.
After all, the husband and wife have experienced more than fifty years of ups and downs in supporting each other, and the sudden death has made Yang Zhenning unable to accept it for a while.
Not only are people around me worried about Professor Yang, but Weng Fan is also very worried.
Still in the form of letters, Weng Fan and Professor Yang Zhenning exchanged letters to bring great psychological comfort to Professor Yang, allowing Professor Yang to slowly walk out of the loneliness and pain of losing his wife.
The increasingly familiar contact turned the two men into telephone calls to break the barrier between letters.
After meeting, the two are like meeting each other and hating each other, Weng Fan's lively enthusiasm and Professor Yang's talent and charm have a fatal attraction to both sides.
For a time, the relationship between the two sides heated up rapidly, and the telephone contact became more familiar,
They talked freely about everything in the universe from ancient and modern China and abroad
, completely forgetting the age gap.
This kind of contact makes each other feel good about each other but they don't know it.
However, the physiological changes can not deceive people, and the feeling of blushing heartbeat makes Weng Fan unable to see this relationship clearly, and she constantly tells herself in her heart:
This is my teacher, a teacher who is more than 50 years older than me
。
Moreover, he is just an ordinary student who talks with the teacher very happily, and the two of them directly always have an invisible "wall".
Zhang Ailing said: "If the level of knowledge of men and women is equally high, women will still have modesty before men, because that is the essence of women, because women have to worship to be happy." ”
In fact, Yang Zhenning's outstanding talent and mature charm have long deeply attracted Weng Fan.
After the trip between the two in Guangxi, they completely touched Weng Fan's hesitant heart, but at the moment when Yang Zhenning plucked up the courage to propose to Weng Fan, Weng Fan was still confused, did not refuse or agree,
Just say: let me think about it.
After experiencing a failed marriage, she cares about the world's eyes and is afraid of the uncertainty of the future, which makes Weng Fan decide to follow her parents' advice.
The parents were also shocked to learn about this, but after learning about Yang Zhenning, the parents decided to respect their daughter's decision.
In order to protect Weng Fan from being disturbed by the outside world,
Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan finally chose to marry in a low-key manner.
But there is no impermeable wall in the world, and the meritorious and great people remarry, and the other party is a student who is 54 years younger than himself, which has caused a sensation in the world, and the evil people speak evilly in the majority.
Later, the blogger dug up the love story about Yang Zhenning recorded by Weng Fan on the blog.
Reading it makes the world full of touch and blessing for this relationship.
However, in the face of the outside world's doubts, controversies and disapproval of their love, the two people still firmly choose each other and adhere to their original intentions.
This persistence is for decades.
However, the real problem is also in front of the two - professor Yang Zhenning's body needs to be taken care of more than the pain of bereavement...
Weng Fan, who was in his prime, changed his bad habits of staying up at night, and after marriage, he has been working with Professor Yang for eighteen years to go to bed early and get up early.
In the face of the reporter's interview, Weng Fan said:
From marriage, for more than ten years, for the sake of Mr. Yang's body, we have insisted on going to bed early.
For the sake of her 54-year-old husband's body, both husband and wife insist on going to bed early, and now Yang Lao is 100 years old is the best proof.
Marriage brings Weng Fan not only worldly pressure, but also the tolerance, warmth, love and academic help given by Yang Zhenning, and what yang Zhenning brings is cheerfulness, sunshine and vitality.
For eighteen years, they have still supported each other, and they are both like-minded partners and people who accompany each other for the rest of their lives.
Now Yang Lao is 100 years old.
Between Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan, they are true love, a love that transcends age and worldly visions.
Their love also tells the world that if two people really love each other and are firm enough,
Nor will interference from the outside world be separated.
When we have the right to choose a spouse more broadly, we have more initiative to find a soul that suits our hearts and interests.
epilogue
On the road of love, there is no fear of wind and rain, and true love will never have an age limit.
Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning's unswerving feelings,
After the worldly vision, across the age gap, through the years of time
, proved to the world that the choice of that year achieved their own happiness.
May their future be of one heart and one mind, and the hand of the Son will never change.