Lately there has been some fear of going down the stairs because of two plays.
In "The Season of Encounter", Jian Minmin went to ning hui to apologize, and during the pull, Jian Minmin fell down the stairs and fell into a serious injury, Ning Shu was stimulated to go to Jian Minmin to avenge, but accidentally injured Jian Hongcheng.
Coincidentally, in "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin ran away from home, Gu Lei went to block, pulling, Gu Lei fell down the stairs, just happened to run into the glass of the downstairs neighbor, lost too much blood and died.
The content of the two plays is not similar, but on the issue of stairs, it is the same, and I can't help but feel uneasy about the stairs.
Thinking about it carefully, Gu Lei's death was completely an accident.
Before that, Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin had a conflict, because Gu Lei told Rao to be soft, the two sons had already been reconciled, but at this time, Gu Qingyu came, and the grandfather and uncle held a small meeting again, gu Qingyu persuaded his brother not only to add his name to the house book, but also to count the family's money.
In connection with the causes and consequences, Gu Qingyu's words are indeed very reasonable, not to mention that the purpose of Feng Xiaoqin's marriage to Gu Lei was not simple, nor did it say that Feng Xixi had been living in the Gu family, and Feng Xiaoqin alone had to find help from others in everything, and he could not complain that the Gu family could not trust her.
What is fatal is that when they said these words, they were just heard by Feng Xiaoqin, and in a fit of anger, Feng Xiaoqin dragged the box and was about to leave.
From Feng Xiaoqin's point of view, this matter can not all blame her, although she has her own little nine-nine, but after so many years she has two old people, taking care of a child, all day long to busy themselves into a "gyroscope", hearing such a squeeze, if not angry, it has become a strange thing.
Feng Xiaoqin wanted to leave, Gu Lei went to stop, this is all a reasonable thing.
All this reason added up to an accident.
Screenshot of the TV series "Heart House"
Thinking about it carefully, although Gu Lei's death has only happened now, it has actually laid the groundwork many years ago.
To tell you the truth, I don't like Gu Lei.
Without him, in this era, Gu Lei's approach is really lying peacefully.
Satisfied with the status quo, not seeking progress, his wife let him go to the financial and accounting certificate, but he ran to watch movies and play games; there was no opinion, no responsibility, obviously bought a school district house for the sake of children, but when his sister asked, he did not have any attitude.
To some extent, the opposition between Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu has also played a certain role in fueling the waves.
However, although he is very unreliable, he is far from the point where sin cannot be forgiven and death must be killed.
As the text on the Internet said, if Gu Lei was really good, he would not have met Feng Xiaoqin, and it would be even more impossible to marry Feng Xiaoqin. Of course, if Feng Xiaoqin was really good, she wouldn't have married Gu Lei.
One is a country girl from a poor and remote area who wants to enter the city through marriage; the other is a city lying flat young man with no ambition. The combination between them is a visible exchange of interests with the naked eye, and it is also a reciprocal combination of dragons and phoenixes with phoenixes and turtles and wang eight.
After getting married, Feng Xiaoqin had a city hukou, and as for Gu Lei, she could also find someone to help her take care of her grandmother and father and have children for him.
It's just a pity that even after the two got married, even if the two already had children, Gu Lei still didn't grow up. Not only did he not have a plan for the future of the family, but when he encountered something, he pulled his father and sister in and asked them to help him with his own advice.
This is like a child who has not yet grown up.
(Of course, this can't all be blamed on Gu Lei, because he's really not smart.) ）
Thinking about it carefully, in this matter, the biggest responsibility is still Feng Xiaoqin.
At the beginning, Feng Xiaoqin chose Gu Lei in order to have a city hukou, and what kind of person Gu Lei was, in fact, she knew better than anyone.
Although he is not willing to speculate about others with malice, in the process of getting along with the two, Gu Lei is indeed easy to grasp (but this is also the biggest problem of Gu Lei's personality, he has not figured out who will accompany him for a lifetime when he is old).
Obviously, he is married to a man who does not seek progress, but he hopes that the other party can become a dragon and phoenix among people, such a request is really too difficult to be a person.
Because Gu Lei's indifference, Feng Xiaoqin first went to find Zhan Xiang to drink, wanted Zhan Xiang to persuade Gu Lei, and after getting drunk, he went to Xianyun Pavilion to make feet, and as soon as he went in, he fell asleep.
After Gu Lei took her home, the two quarreled again, Feng Xiaoqin complained that Gu Lei did not seek advancement, Gu Lei complained that Feng Xiaoqin had put a green hat on himself, and the words rushed together, and Gu Lei proposed a divorce.
In fact, I can fully accept that Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house, although there is her little nine-nine in this matter, but in general, as a mother, it is not a big mistake to think about the future of her children.
What I can't accept most is that she wants to forcibly change her husband's life, but forgets that in a marriage, she always wants to reform others, and she is likely to drive the other party crazy.
As Zhan Xiang said, if she continues like this, either she will go crazy herself or Gu Lei will go crazy, and from the perspective of the two people getting along, it is most likely that Gu Lei will go crazy.
To put it bluntly, such an accident is also a relief for Gu Lei, at least he doesn't need to be scolded all day like before.
Of course, in this matter, Gu Qingyu also has a certain responsibility.
From Gu Qingyu's point of view, everything she did was for the good of her brother, after all, along the way, Feng Xiaoqin was really very calculating.
Her biggest problem is that she doesn't grasp the degree of getting along well.
After careful consideration, every three-person meeting in their family was actually organized by Gu Qingyu.
As a senior executive of the company, the contradictions and misunderstandings between people should be very clear, but she organizes such a meeting in front of Feng Xiaoqin every time, which is somewhat inappropriate to look at.
At the time of the accident, it was clear that the two sons of the family had been reconciled, and she still had to organize a family meeting. The problem is that the time node she chose is too infuriating. If she had talked about it at a different time and in a different place, the tragedy would not have happened.
(If I hadn't chased her all the way, I would have even suspected that her words were actually addressed to Feng Xiaoqin.) After all, even if Gu Lei is a fool, he will add his name to the property deed. ）
Compared with Gu Qingyu, Gu Shihong is much more reliable——
It's not to let you get through her, but to make you work your own, you're out of breath, and you two little ones can live happier.
If Gu Qingyu could persuade his brother in this way, even if Feng Xiaoqin heard it, he would not be angry. On the other hand, Gu Qingyu's words were somewhat suspicious of arching fire no matter how they listened.
After all, no matter how Feng Xiaoqin tosses now, he is also really with Gu Lei, if there is no Feng Xiaoqin, their family will definitely have to hire a nanny to take care of the elderly and children, seven or eight years, but also to spend a lot of money.
In reality, whether parents or brothers and sisters, the most likely mistake to make is to make a random idea about the marriage of a loved one, and if the idea is good, it will only make itself not a person inside or outside.
Just before, the downstairs neighbors put glass in the aisle in order to decorate.
When Gu Lei rolled down, he just hit the glass, injured the blood vessels, and lost too much blood and died.
As the bullet screen said, in this matter, the neighbors did have mistakes, but such an ending was something they never expected in any way.
In fact, not only neighbors, other people in the play, who could have imagined such an ending?
But calm down, we will find that Gu Lei's death, on the surface, is an accident, but according to the development of the plot, it is an inevitability.
For himself, it is because he has no responsibility and no opinion, every time he encounters something, it is a sentence of "I don't know what to do", not to mention Feng Xiaoqin, in exchange for most women to come together with him, it is estimated that it will be fried in minutes.
For Feng Xiaoqin, the biggest problem is that her expectations for her husband are too high, always thinking of getting close to the things that she is not able to have now, even if the problem of the house is solved, they will definitely have other conflicts after that.
For Gu Qingyu, the biggest problem is that she always intervenes in her brother's life, although her original intention is for her brother's good, but according to Gu Lei's wisdom, she can't understand her meaning at all, which will only make the contradiction more intense.
In other words, even if such a thing did not happen, it would be difficult for Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin to go to the end.
Although Gu Lei may not have an accident, divorce is basically a matter of certainty.
A brainless husband, a strong wife, and a sister who is always involved, if there is no problem in such a marriage, it will become a strange thing.
To paraphrase a sentence on the Internet, although they are not absolutely bad people, they are not absolutely good people.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）