Choosing to enter into marriage with a person, everyone thinks the same thing, hoping that they can get a happiness.
No matter whether they loved each other very much before, no matter how much emotional foundation they had before, they will be eager to get married, and they will really be able to work with one heart and one mind to manage each other's years well, so that the future is better than before.
At the moment of marriage, everyone thinks this way, but in the real marriage, the real state of marriage is various.
Not all people have achieved the happiness they want, and some people not only have not become happier, but have a worse life than ever before, and have completely lost the ability to be happy.
The person you choose, the other party not only did not become their own salvation, but only dragged themselves into a worse situation.
Fortunate and unfortunate, good or bad, that lies in one's perception, which will always be obvious.
Because that's really going to be in every way, especially in terms of money, and a little look at it will be clear at a glance.
Money together is not divided into each other, and the feelings are very good.
There will be some men and women, from the moment they identify each other, they will tell each other their actual financial situation, and they will be willing to let each other's money just be concentrated together.
Since then, no one will see the outside, only the other person will be regarded as their own, and each other's money will be treated as common.
They really just became a whole completely, without any calculation, some just supporting each other.
After marriage, they will all make good money, to make each other's material foundation better and better, and they will also be able to sit down calmly and talk about money, to plan each other's common funds.
Whoever needs to buy something will not blame each other, as long as they can bear it, more necessary, they will give each other a support.
Two people can really get along very harmoniously, and the same is true when it comes to money, and there are few differences.
When a man and a woman, there is no difference in terms of money, make money together, plan well together, this feeling, must not be bad, each other will really feel very happy, very grateful that they met each other.
Being able to talk about money well, being able to spend your own money willingly to the other party, it seems that this is very simple, in fact, this is not easy, this needs to recognize the other party from the bottom of your heart, and you need to have no selfish intentions, just single-mindedly go with each other.
Each management pursues balance and the relationship is general.
Not all couples can get married and mix money with each other.
Many men and women, even if they are married, the money in the future is obviously owned by the husband and wife, but they will still only manage their own money and are not willing to let each other mix themselves too much.
They are not very willing to do so, so they just manage themselves, and in terms of family, they will buy vegetables, they will buy some furniture, and they will be responsible for some expenses at home.
In this process, for how much they have paid, how much the other party has paid, they will not be completely wrong, just feel that it does not matter, but will clearly calculate to see who pays more.
As long as each other's efforts are similar, then each other will not say anything, and will continue to do well.
However, if it is too unbalanced, one party pays more, the other party is less, and the difference between each other's payment is too much, they will not be able to hold their breath, and then they will deliberately let the other party pay more, and even go directly to each other.
No one wants to suffer too much, and only hopes that each other is not taken too much advantage by the other party, and is relatively equal.
Couples like this, at most, are just partners, and there will not be too many feelings, and only if they can always maintain a reciprocal relationship in terms of money, can the relationship continue smoothly.
Special precautions, certainly not.
There are also some families, whether men or women, and each other is really afraid that the other party knows how much money they have.
All kinds of concealment of each other, all kinds of unwilling to let each other touch, there is no way to talk about money-related things, as long as a little talk, each other will turn their faces and make a very stiff.
Daily expenses are also, even if you only spend a few dollars more, you will always talk endlessly, and even ask each other for it.
It's like the other party owes it to himself, and he should return it to himself so that he can feel more steadfast.
Each other will save their own money, obviously still together, but also planning that if one day the relationship breaks down, each other chooses to divorce, the other party will not get anything from their own, they can fully own their own.
Not only can you retreat from the whole body, it is best to be able to share the other side's points, so that you can become the one who completely wins.
Two people who are so estranged in terms of money, in terms of feelings, there will be nothing left at all, and they will get married to each other, probably not because of love, but just helplessly, even if they are married, they can't trust each other at all.
Neither of them can count on each other, nor do they think of counting on each other, and they continue to be together with each other, but only for an identity, in order to appear that they are not alone, they have a family.
There is a saying that if feelings are not implemented in things such as eating, sleeping, and counting money, they do not count.
However, it is true that not all feelings can be so grounded.
Many feelings, simply can not mention the money, there is no way to count the other party's money.
It's just that in all kinds of calculated feelings, most of them are looking at each other and hating each other, this marriage, but only reluctantly, how long can it be barely maintained, it is really not easy to say, it will only be problematic at any time.
The better situation is to know the other person's situation, but not to be too involved.
This kind of relationship can always be balanced, feel acceptable to each other, even if it is not so happy, it can be continued.
As for each other being able to manage each other's money together, it goes without saying that each other's present is relatively stable, and the future is also very promising.
Text/Tan Meng
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