As the old saying goes: Children who look beautiful when they are young are ugly when they grow up.
The child's appearance problem will always plague parents, after all, in today's society, there will be certain preferential treatment for children with high appearance, and parents will hope that children will look good for the sake of their children.
Therefore, while parents pay attention to the growth of their children, they will also care about their children's appearance. After all, the appearance value is the child's business card, giving people the first impression.
When I was a child, the baby who looked good was not very good when she grew up
Bobo's mother thinks that her baby is very good-looking, and she is very popular everywhere she goes, whether it is the neighbors or the parents of the children, she will praise her a few words.
Moreover, the mother always praises Bobo at home, not knowing whether it is to encourage the child to have more self-confidence, or to show off her genetics.
After the child is going to kindergarten, Bobo's mother will greet the teacher in advance, my child looks so good, we must protect it, and we can't let the children scratch our faces.
The kindergarten teacher first coped, after all, it was the parents' request, or to listen, but after Bobo's mother repeatedly stressed many times, the teacher still couldn't stand it.
Your child is now good-looking, very cute, and all of our teachers like him, but most of these children are not very good when they grow up, and you think a little too much about things.
Bobo's mother was surprised and didn't know why the teacher poured cold water on herself, but thinking that the kindergarten teacher must have touched a lot of children, there was no need to be more truthful. I haven't mentioned it again since.
Why do you say "beautiful as a child, ugly when you grow up"? It is mainly related to 4 reasons
Man-made psychological gaps
When we see a small baby with a high appearance, we will naturally have expectations for his future, the child is so good-looking now, and it must be better looking when it grows up.
After all, their genetics are real, as long as they develop as usual, there should be no unexpected situations! And we've seen too many examples of how we've been good to see big things since we were kids.
In this way, this mindset invisibly puts pressure on the child, but when the child's appearance is a little different, we will feel very surprised, or even do not believe in our eyes.
Moreover, this kind of unfounded idea will also make the parties feel very aggrieved, and inadvertently their former self has become their own reference, is not some grievance.
Caused by inappropriate breathing patterns
Under normal conditions, we all breathe through the nose, but when we fall asleep, the way we breathe becomes varied. Some children breathe through their noses, some breathe through their mouths, and some even use their noses and mouths together.
Among these breathing methods, breathing with the mouth has the greatest impact on the face. It is very easy to cause the deformation of the child's teeth and jaw, and quietly change the position of the child's facial features.
After all, children sleep for more than 10 hours a day, and once they have formed a habit, it is difficult to correct it by relying on the child himself, and it can even be said that it is impossible.
In such a situation, parents can use medical tape, or adults use anti-alcohol patches on the baby's lips, which can help children correct the bad problem of breathing with their mouths.
Recessive genetics
The appearance of genetics is a very wonderful thing, some genes are displayed after the birth of a child, some appear in the middle of the way, and some never appear.
It is precisely because of the magic of genes that the living body becomes attractive, which is why some babies look better the longer they are, and some babies are getting uglier.
It's like a child's double eyelids. We think that children with double eyelids are better looking, and single eyelids not only show small eyes, but also appear that the eyes are unfocused.
Moreover, children who were double eyelids when they were young are likely to change back to single eyelids when they grow up, so that the eyes are the windows of the soul, and it is likely that the appearance will be greatly reduced because of the problem of the eyes.
Pampering and arrogance will affect temperament and appearance
When they were young, good-looking babies were surrounded by praise, praising them for being cute and praising them for being beautiful, it was inevitable that they would feel inflated, and it was inevitable that they would be pampered and proud.
In this way, there will be many problems in behavior, and if there are many problems, even if it is good-looking, what is the use? It is also unbearable in the eyes of others.
Today's Topic:
What is your opinion on the child's appearance? Do you think it's a necessity, or is it the icing on the cake? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!