On the third day of the Chinese New Year, the son brought his girlfriend back to discuss the marriage, and they had been dating for seven years! My husband and I were very happy and even gave the girl a red envelope of 10,001 yuan. Didn't expect that, girl

On the third day of the Chinese New Year, the son brought his girlfriend back to discuss the marriage, and they had been dating for seven years! My husband and I were very happy and even gave the girl a red envelope of 10,001 yuan. Unexpectedly, the girl's request was to grow up in a single-parent family, and her father was still disabled, and she had to live with her father after marriage. In fact, when it comes to taking her father to live, I can understand it, indicating that she has filial piety, but what she said and did from entering the house, I had to let my husband and I seriously consider their marriage!

My name is Ma Li, 56 years old, pension 4800 yuan, husband pension 5600 yuan. We just retired last year. People are like this, when they are suddenly idle, they always feel that there is no energy, they like to worry about other miscellaneous things, and then they also think that my husband and I are slowly not as healthy as before, so they urge my son to go on a blind date and get married, he is already 28 years old! Thinking that while we are in good health, we can help him take care of the children.

So, I asked relatives and friends and the original unit to introduce a girlfriend to my son at the same time, one of the girls is very compatible with our sons in all aspects, my husband and I saw the photos sent by friends and felt very satisfied, Sven, a very quiet girl, and then I and my husband called my son over and said about the blind date, and he said that he was very busy and did not have time to go on a blind date. I was angry and asked him why, don't you like women? My son suddenly told me that he already had a girl he liked.

I said, since you like her, bring her back! Sooner or later, the ugly daughter-in-law will meet her in-laws, so it is better for me and your father to prepare for your marriage as soon as possible. The son was particularly happy when he heard it, and immediately called Xiaoyu and made an appointment to go home.

Just yesterday, the twelfth day of the first month, he finally brought Xiaoyu back, to tell the truth, the first time I saw Xiaoyu, I didn't like her, she came with a bag of apples, let's not say anything else, after all, this little girl came to the door for the first time, how to say it is also a very solemn thing, actually carried a bag of apples to come, in fact, I don't care about her things, since she knows that the first time to come to the door, know that you can't come empty-handed, more or less bring a carton of milk, what do you do with a bag of apples in cold weather? Obviously, I didn't pay attention to me and my husband, and I held my heart at that time, but thinking of my son's loving expression, my husband and I put up with it!

This little girl actually looks quite ordinary, and looking at the way she looks and talks, she knows that she is a very stubborn girl. She is inferior in every way to the girl I chose for my son, but my son likes her, and this is also related to his happiness in life.

So my husband and I were also very happy, we prepared eleven thousand red envelopes in advance, and Xiaoyu gave it to her as soon as she entered the house! This also means that we welcome her, and then I start to serve food that I and my husband have prepared for half a day, obviously, my son likes her very much, constantly giving her vegetables, even what she says my son does, my husband and I seem to have become air, the little girl is also arrogant to my son, but looking at the attitude of my son who doesn't matter, my husband and I still choose to endure, after all, as long as my son likes it, I and his father also hope that he is happy and happy.

My husband and I were a little uncomfortable seeing all this! The thought of the son who has been with him for twenty-eight years is going to live with others, my son has been spoiled by us since he was a child, really life and living are taken care of by me and his father, I didn't expect to be able to swallow my breath after being with Xiaoyu, we really are not used to seeing him do what Xiaoyu said, it may also be unaccustomed to him doing it according to Xiaoyu! After dinner, the four of us sat together and chatted, and finally talked about the wedding.

Suddenly, the girl said, Uncle and Auntie, there are some things I need to tell you in advance, I grew up in a single family. My mother died very early, my father was still a disabled person, he raised me not easy, now he is old, it is not convenient to walk, leaving him alone in the countryside, I feel uncomfortable, so after marriage I have to take my father and live with me.

I smiled and said, Little Rain, you are a filial child, as far as your father is concerned, you should take him to live with you after marriage. Your uncle and I agreed with this, and my husband hurriedly said, "Yes, it is good for young people to have filial piety!"

Xiao Yu smiled and said: Since you and your uncle have agreed, there is one more thing I need to ask for your two opinions, that is, I plan to quit my job after marriage and be a housewife at home, so that it is convenient to take care of my father, after all, I am not young, and I also want to get pregnant and have children early, so some things, such as mortgages and other living expenses after marriage, may need your and your uncle's help, after all, your son's salary alone is difficult to support the family, even if he has more than 8,000 yuan per month.

My husband and I looked at each other after listening to each other, and everyone smiled awkwardly and said, we have no opinion! Later, after Xiaoyu left, my husband and I were instantly angry! Discuss and make a decision. In the evening, we called our son back and I said, son! I'll give you an analysis. The first difficulty after you and Xiaoyu got married was the mortgage, your monthly salary was 8,000, the mortgage was 4,000, was the rest of the money enough to support the family? Listening to Xiaoyu means that we have to pay off the mortgage, which means that we are raising Xiaoyu and her father!

If after the baby is born, we still have to raise the baby, you and Xiaoyu are married, your father and I will certainly not bring trouble to your life, and Xiaoyu said the same, we give you all the money, then what can we do? Think again, what if I don't have any money in my hands? Xiaoyu is a filial girl, but her filial piety is based on your father and my pain, if you have to marry her, we will not give you a penny after marriage.

The son was silent for a long time, he said, Mom and Dad, I really like Xiaoyu, I hope you can help me! Don't take what Xiaoyu said to heart, I will not use a penny of you and your father, I will find a way to solve this money myself, see my son make up his mind, my husband and I can only be silent, because the child grows up, we can only do to wish him happiness, in fact, my husband and I are really very enlightened, but my husband and I also began to worry about my son's future life. #情感故事 #

@Pick Fun Movie Commentary Hello, Ma'am! After listening to your story, you have analyzed your son thoroughly, bless him!