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Some people look for the other half for a relationship and long for a close lover.
And some people look for the other half just to "get rid of poverty and get rich".
Men and women alike, more and more people have such ideas.
The heroine in the next case fell into the love trap set by others.
Wen Wen's father was full of anger at this time, and said to his daughter unceremoniously: "I told you that you broke this mind early!" That man is not a good thing, you believe Daddy's vision! ”
Ke Wenwen sat on the sofa, his face full of stubbornness. Where can she listen to this now, full of thoughts about marrying her boyfriend, Zhu Jun.
Speaking of this boyfriend, things have to go back to a year ago, the day she met Zhu Jun.
She had just graduated a year earlier in the summer and wanted to wait for the summer to pass before looking for a job. Wenwen loves beauty, the family economy is decent, if you tan your skin in order to find a job, it is not worth it.
During the day, I blow air conditioning at home to watch movies, and in the evening I go to the surrounding snack streets to eat something.
She watched the TV series at home that day at five o'clock, but her parents did not come back, so she took the mobile phone out.
After eating a large bowl of meat noodles at a rice noodle shop, she was ready to scan the code to pay, only to find that her mobile phone was out of power at all.
She was a little anxious, and hurriedly asked the store if there was a charging treasure, and she charged and then paid. Although the store gave her the power bank, the conversation was overheard by a person sitting next to her.
This is Zhu Jun.
He silently paid off Wenwen's bill and sat silently waiting.
Ten minutes later, Wen Wen was just about to scan the code when he was told by the store that someone had already paid for it, and also pointed in the direction of Zhu Jun.
Wen Wen was surprised as she walked towards here, she first thanked Zhu Jun for her help, and then had to return the money to Zhu Jun.
Of course, Zhu Jun refused to ask for it, but seeing that Wenwen was very insistent, he said, "Then will you invite me to eat it again in the future?" ”
This sentence made Wenwen a little shy, although she had never been in love, but she also knew what it meant.
The two finally left the powder shop together and walked in the sunset...
After that time, the two left contact information for each other, often chatting until late at night.
Listening to my daughter's room often talking until midnight, the father's heart was a little uneasy.
They are all people who come over, and they know that their daughters are in love at a glance.
Wen Wen did start a relationship with Zhu Jun. Zhu Jun is two years older than Wenwen and currently works for a foreign company.
Although he was born in the countryside, he has emotional intelligence and eyesight, and is deeply liked by his superiors.
Born in the cold, he has long known the reality and cruelty of society. They also know how to observe the color and maximize their own interests.
He had fallen in love several times in college, but he had been rejected because he didn't have money and had been dumped three times.
He has long had no illusions about love, and only wants to go up. And that incident in which he helped Wenwen pay the bill was also premeditated.
It turned out that as soon as Tianwen entered the store, he noticed the brand-name slippers on her feet and the latest brand-name mobile phone in her hand.
Looking at Wenwen's temperament, it is not like a person who uses fake goods to pretend to be a big head, which is decisive to attack.
Later, in the chat, he quickly grasped Wenwen's preferences and personality, so that Wenwen began to be fascinated by him.
Wen Wen saw a clean and calm enterprising boy, but he didn't know that this was all arranged and planned by Zhu Jun.
Wenwen's father guessed that his daughter was in love, and he asked his daughter next to him.
The simple text was surprised at first, and then generously admitted.
When he knew that the other party was a phoenix man, his father's brow frowned slightly.
He said unhurriedly; "Wenwen, your father agrees when you fall in love, and it is not impossible for the other party to come from a rural background." As long as the character is good and self-motivated, and dad supports it, you have to let dad take a look. ”
WenWen didn't think much of it and agreed to his father's request.
The meeting place between Zhu Jun and Wen Wen's father was selected in a teahouse, and when they met, Zhu Jun generously shouted good uncle.
The content of the conversation was relatively simple, mainly asking Zhu Jun's future planning and ideas for marriage.
Zhu Jun's answer was also watertight, but his subconscious action made Wen Wen's father's face change suddenly.
After returning home, the father and daughter appeared in the opening scene. The father said that Zhu Jun had several times turned his eyes downward before answering the question, which was a manifestation of heavy thinking and let his daughter leave early.
But the daughter couldn't listen to it at all, and she had to say that she wouldn't let her marry Zhu Jun and go off the building.
Zhu Jun, who knew the news, also rushed to Wen Wen's house and said in front of Wen Wen's parents: "Uncle and aunt, I am a poor boy." But my mother said that marrying a daughter-in-law is not ambiguous, the marriage house will be bought next month, and the bride price will be 100,000 yuan for our family, and I promise that it will be good for Wenwen. ”
Looking at the way their daughter was going to die and live, Wenwen's parents could only compromise.
Seeing that the victory had been won, Wen Wen jumped up happily, and only his father hid in the room to wipe his tears.
The two people were even more like glue, but after a few months, Wen Wen couldn't laugh. Because she was pregnant.
This news changed everything in an instant, first of all, zhu Junjia said that the bride price and the purchase of a wedding house were not counted, and also asked the Wenwen family to get half of the down payment.
Wen Wen learned what Zhu Junjia meant and didn't eat for a day. Although she was sad, she was more afraid of how to explain to her parents at this time.
On the one hand, she directly refused the request of Zhu Junjia's family, and on the other hand, she was ready to find an opportunity to tell her parents.
Zhu Jun was a little worried after seeing Wenwen snub him, but his mother called and told him: "Don't worry, if a woman is pregnant with a child, even if she is a duck in the pot, how to material it depends on us." It's new year soon, and it's not time to come to you believe it or not. ”
As a result, Zhu Jun and his mother waited for three months without any movement, and he could no longer hold back, and immediately called Wenwen.
The first call was not answered, the second call was directly pinched, and Zhu Jun had a very bad premonition.
The third call was finally answered, and Zhu Jun immediately said: "The year has passed, don't drag your stomach up, promise my mother to do the wedding on the condition." ”
Ke Wen said calmly, "You are still dreaming, the child has already dealt with it." I'm engaged, don't blame my family for not sparing you. ”
This time the change of Zhu Jun's soul is not possessed, and the straight hammer head of regret ...
Zhu Jun in the case tried his best, but in the end he still failed to achieve his wish. This tells us that men and women in marriage should understand the following two revelations.
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One: In feelings and marriages, remember not to be careful.
If you don't play with your heart and eyes, you will eventually taste the evil consequences.
Playing with the heart in the relationship is worse than making it bad in other areas.
It is extremely shameful to use the feelings of others to deceive, or to achieve one's own ends.
A person who can be dishonest about his feelings is not only inferior in personality, but also very incompetent.
Because this kind of person not only does not have the survival skills based on society, but also has low self-esteem and loves to daydream.
You can only make a profit by cheating on feelings, such a low-cost and high-return means.
Although such people have not broken the law, they are equally hateful and hateful.
Evil is ultimately a matter of accepting the price.
Even if they succeed for a while, they will surely taste the consequences.
For several years in life, everything has long been decided in the dark.
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Second: The debts and advantages owed before marriage will often be repaid to the other party after marriage.
I believe that there are many people who want to take advantage of marriage, regardless of gender.
It is true that many people have succeeded, because they have wasted their minds.
But you have to understand that your success may only be a fluke.
The real reason is not how witty you are, but the other party is too simple, so it can fall into your abacus,
However, do you really think that the other party will not grow in a lifetime?
With the increase of social experience, your pre-marriage thoughts gradually become clear in each other's minds.
The debts you owe and the advantages you have taken, the other party also knows everything.
When the other person understands the reaction, it is time for you to repay.
For example, the text in the case may be divorced directly after the reaction after marriage.
Finally, regardless of men and women, once the other party finds that you use your feelings as a chip, you will no longer be easily deceived.
Those with a strong personality will choose to separate, and even if they encounter timidity, they will also find various awkwardness after marriage.
Because no one can tolerate their sincerity, being used as a chip or a bargain by others.
Such a vendetta must be repaid when it can be repaid.
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I don't know how much more true feelings can be retained in the current marriage.
Even with love, there is a lot of utilitarianism.
If there is less and less love in this world.
That's the real end of the world.
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