The habit of children going to the toilet independently is formed in the kindergarten stage.
Many children do not have the habit of going to the toilet on their own before going to kindergarten, or they do not know that they have to go to the toilet by themselves, or they cannot control their urination at all.
In the face of this situation, the kindergarten teachers will patiently guide and regularly take the babies to the bathroom to go to the toilet. Slowly you can get used to it.
Fight to the death without defecating in kindergarten!
Mian Mian is a child in the middle class, from the first month of kindergarten, he learned to go to the toilet independently, and immediately reported to the teacher to go to the toilet when he had the intention of urinating, and when he returned home, he would also ask his mother before going to the toilet.
Although this ability is a skill that every child must have, it is commonplace and not very powerful, but if it does not, it is a serious problem.
But one afternoon, Mian Mian's teacher suddenly called her mother, saying that Mian Mian had been clamoring to go home, asking him why he didn't say it, such a situation had never happened before!
Mian Mian's mother was also suspicious, and after taking Mian Mian home, Mian Mian ran to the toilet for the first time and got on a large number. After excreting, he walked out of the toilet and joked with his mother with a hippie smile.
Mian Mian Mom immediately understood the reason why Mian Mian did this. He let himself pick him up because he wanted to go home and defecate. But we can't teach him a lesson because of this, we can only hope that the child's own concept will change!
More than half of the kids don't have a bowel movement in kindergarten? It is not the child's pretense, these reasons parents should know
The act of pulling stool is intimate in the eyes of children
In the process of guiding children to the toilet in kindergartens, teachers have never guided children to urinate, and everyone urinates together. And when some children do not have the intention of urinating, they will wait patiently on the side.
In this way, in the baby's mind, it will feel that the act of pulling stool should not occur in kindergarten, and even feel that the teacher will not allow them to pull stool.
Moreover, they feel that their act of pulling the stool is very private, and they have to brew on the toilet for a while to drain smoothly, if the process is interfered with by others, how can it be good?
They worry that the teacher won't wipe their butts
Some kindergarten teachers will ask children to take off their pants and lift their pants when they take their children to the toilet, even if they can't complete it quickly, the teacher will not reach out to help.
In our adult eyes, we know that it is to force children to grow up quickly and master the skills of going to the toilet, but in the eyes of children, they will feel that the teacher is very cold and frightening.
Therefore, they will naturally worry about what if they pull the stool teacher in the kindergarten and don't care about themselves. After all, the minimum age at which a child can wipe his own ass is 7 years old.
Therefore, instead of putting your fate in the hands of the kindergarten teacher, it is better to reduce the number of bowel movements as much as possible. If you can't get on it, you can't go up, and if you can hold it, you can hold it.
Many young children have high requirements for "toilets"
Suitable for young children's daily necessities should be less than the size of adults, whether it is tableware, seats, school bags, or even toilets should be smaller, otherwise it will increase the probability of accidents.
Therefore, parents will place a "toilet" suitable for their children at home. Over time, the child will become dependent on this "toilet" exclusive to him.
When they come to kindergarten, without the "toilet" they are used to, they will feel that they are not adapted to anywhere. Don't say it's poop, even urinating as much as possible.
When parents know the reason, how should they respect their children?
Help your child develop the habit of having regular bowel movements
When the body is in a normal metabolic state, the time of excretion will be about the same every day. For example, some people defecate as soon as they get up, some people defecate at noon, and some defecate before going to bed.
No matter what time it is excreted, it is a normal state. As long as you ensure that you can excrete every day, it is not a big problem. Therefore, parents can consciously help their children develop a bowel pattern and choose the time to defecate at home.
I want to make sense with my child, and then respect my child's choice
Parents can consciously instill in their children the idea that they can have defecation in kindergarten, tell them that they have stool in kindergarten, and the teacher will help them wipe their butts.
After a long time, they will not be so repulsive to the idea of defecating in kindergarten. But if the child still insists on returning home, parents should also respect the child's choice, do not need more interference, and when the child is older, it will slowly change.
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Does your child have a bowel movement in kindergarten? If you had to hold him home, how would you guide him? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!