Two good people, but not necessarily have a fireworks life.
Ms. Guo is determined to divorce, because she can no longer stand her husband's repeated "good buying".
In November last year, the only daughter of her husband's second uncle's family died of cancer. After handling the funeral, the husband decided on the spot to let the second uncle and his son come to the city where he lived and give them a pension.
The second uncle and his two sons were particularly touched, and they sold the house that month, and before the Spring Festival, they settled down in the city where their nephew was located.
Ms. Guo is very cold, first, her husband does not ask about herself and her only son; such a big matter, nor does she discuss with herself in advance, she makes a decision on the spot.
Such a man makes his family insecure, and he does not know when his belongings will be selflessly dedicated by him.
The proverb left by the ancestors is called "poor and generous, rich and generous." What kind of psychology is this?
Thrift and thrift are a virtue. People who "cut the door richly" are often because of thrift, diligence has become a habit, and they have slowly accumulated wealth;
Ms. Guo's husband, when she was a child, her family was not rich and she ate the blank eyes of others. As an adult, he became more and more "generous" through hard work and small achievements.
If this "generosity" is motivated by inferiority, it is called "poor generosity", which is to over-express his wealth to reverse the "contempt" of others for him. As a result, the measure is lost.
Since ancient times, heroes do not ask about provenance, a person, never be swayed by the shadow under the sun.
Only by having a normal heart, being an ordinary person, and transcending inferiority can we have a healthy relationship and grasp the happiness of marriage.
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