My daughter-in-law's words completely changed my mind. She said: Whoever lets his mother see the child is a fool. I said: Even so, I should not be a fool, you look at the child yourself! small

My daughter-in-law's words completely changed my mind. She said: Whoever lets his mother see the child is a fool. I said: Even so, I should not be a fool, you look at the child yourself!

The little grandson is 3 years old this year, and he flashes a pair of big eyes, which is very likable. From the moment I was born, I watched, and until now, I feel very happy to watch my grandson grow up little by little every day.

The daughter-in-law works as a teacher in a middle school, and because she is a class teacher, she is particularly busy. Left at 6am every morning and came back at 9pm. During the day the child is only with her at night when she is sleeping.

I understand my daughter-in-law's hard work, even on Saturdays and Sundays, and I never let my children stick to her. I think my grandmother should look at her grandchildren, so I never feel hard, even if I am usually tired of waist pain, I have never complained.

I am a retired employee of the enterprise, with a pension of more than 2,000 yuan per month. Although it is not much, it is enough for my monthly expenses, so my son usually gives me money, and I never want it. Although they are all in public institutions, but they still need to pay off their mortgages, young people spend money and spend a lot of money, I think no matter whose money it is, it is a family anyway.

But today's daughter-in-law's words completely annoyed me. On Sunday, a former colleague asked me out to hang out with. To be honest, I haven't really been out since I had my grandchildren. This time, when everyone asked me out, I thought it was the weekend, and I let my daughter-in-law watch the children by herself. But it happens that overtime is required in the school.

I suggested sending my grandson to his grandmother's house for two days, and the daughter-in-law said that her mother was not in good health and had waist pain. I said: The child has grown up so big, he has never lived in his grandmother's house, this time let his grandmother watch it for two days!

When my daughter-in-law heard me say this, she immediately changed her face. She said: I don't understand, is it important to play, or is it important to have grandchildren? How does my mother look at the child with back pain? I said: I watch the child every day, and I can't sleep at night when my back hurts, who of you has ever taken care of it? Your mother can't see the child with waist pain, I have to see the child with back pain?

The daughter-in-law also said to me: Grandma is righteous to look at her grandson, who lets her mother look at the child, who is a fool. As soon as I heard this, I was angry. I thought to myself: My mother is my mother, and my mother-in-law is not my mother. My daughter-in-law was upset with her mother, but she felt that I deserved it. I said, "Well, if you think so, hire a babysitter!"

I watch children because I feel sorry for my daughter-in-law and work hard. If you hire a nanny, it costs a lot of money. If I help them with their children, they will save their worries and money. I don't ask them to thank me, I just think that they can also understand my hardships.

Mother-in-law looks at children as a part of love, and not looking at children is her duty. If the daughter-in-law takes the mother-in-law's efforts for granted, I feel that it is not right. You tell me?