Memoirs 5⃣️: Out of the confinement of my own completely became a full-time mother, although there are three months of maternity leave, but as soon as the maternity leave ended I resigned, the child's father said: "Let's take the child by ourselves, don't bother the old."

Memoirs 5⃣️: Out of the confinement of myself completely became a full-time mother, although there are three months of maternity leave, but as soon as the maternity leave ended I resigned, the child's father said: "Let's take the child by ourselves, don't bother the elderly"

The mother-in-law said: "You are four thousand a month, your father-in-law earns more than 10,000 a month while drinking tea at home, and the child is still taken care of by the mother without being wronged."

I listened to the words of the child's father and mother-in-law and resigned! A four-pound child and three people eating and drinking laundry housework, giving children laundry and bathing are all alone.

That will be the child snack on the sleep, will not turn over will not climb more convenient, while the child sleeps I quickly clean up the house, wash clothes, run out to buy vegetables! New mothers don't understand anything, don't know how to eat more milk dishes, eat very lightly, even if later my breast milk is getting less and less, the child can't eat enough, I don't know, the child cries I think it's uncomfortable, take to the hospital nothing!

The child's father went to the new company basically every weekend to go out with a few colleagues to eat, drink and have fun, go out three times a week when it is serious, do not go home after work and go directly to eat and play with colleagues, and go home in the middle of the night, so I am at home with myself and my children!

There were two knocks on the door, I asked who ah there was no sound, I was quite scared, I was at home are anti-lock doors, into the bedroom to lock the door again! I once told my father about this situation, he asked me to lock the door, I asked what if I met a bad guy coming in? The child's father said: "If you really want to run into him, there is no way, even if he rushes back, it is useless, there must be an accident" After listening to it, his heart was half cut off, he did not realize my fear and helplessness at all, and he did not restrain the number of times he went out to accompany things to play!

Suddenly remembered one thing, that is, the child was born with a name, I gave the child a name, told the mother-in-law directly unhappy and said: "I don't know, ask my son."

The child's father went to my house at night and said, "The child's name must be her mother."

I said, "Why, don't I have the right to name my own children?" ”

The child's father pleaded: "Let my mother get up, my mother can be happy" I said: "I have a good name for the child" The child's father directly disagreed, or insisted on letting his mother name, for the sake of family harmony, I don't want the child's father to be embarrassed, I let it go! The next day the mother-in-law said triumphantly: "The big name I got up, the little name will use your name to call "cow cow" because the child's grandmother, grandfather and father are all cattle, I am pregnant in October, the in-laws have no one to take care of me for a day, but I can't be the lord of my child's name, only allow the little name to be the one I named!" Even the ethnic groups, the children followed the Manchus of the mother-in-law! Or go to the northeast of the hukou, move to the hometown! Twists and turns!

And as long as the mother-in-law is there, the child's father did not sit next to me at the beginning, let alone call wife forever in the face, once I got angry and asked him how his mother sat next to him as soon as he sat next to him, he immediately moved away, or sat with his mother, he replied to me: Afraid of sad This answer I can't forget for a lifetime! I had a fight with him: "I said that since I am so afraid of your mother's sadness, why do you marry a wife?"

In 19 years, when we went back to our hometown to stay in the hotel, we booked a family suite, which is the room rate of two large double beds, the child's father said: "Mom you and the child sleep one" Later, my child came to sleep in our bed, my mother-in-law directly said to the child's father: "You come to the mother's bed to sleep" The child's father shook his head!

Over the years, as long as the three of us are together, the child's father will always stand with the mother-in-law, go to the supermarket, take the child to eat Pizza Hut, go shopping is always with the mother, stand far away, I and the child like he has nothing to do with him!

The joy of other people's homes has never been in the in-laws' house! Caring for warmth is even more out of reach, there are still many things that have happened over the years, slowly recall it! These few years of life have completely changed my original intentions!