In most families, the mother works during the day and takes care of the baby at night.
Not all mothers will choose to return to the family after giving birth. Even if the husband asks of himself, they will retain their ideas and careers, saying that they will not be full-time wives at all.
Partly because they are confident that they can juggle work and family, and partly because they are worried that their marriage will break up if they become full-time wives.
After becoming a full-time wife, women become very passive
If you have no income, you have to accept your husband's face
In a family, whoever makes money will have an absolute right to speak, not only in daily life, even if two people quarrel and divorce, the person who earns money to support the family will have nothing to fear, after all, he can afford to support himself.
In this way, if the wife becomes a full-time wife, it proves that the wife wants to eat and drink from her husband in vain, and every time she spends money, she must get her husband's permission, and once the husband does not allow her to do anything, she must obey her words. After all, without money, there is no right to resist.
Especially every time you reach out to your husband for money, you feel that your dignity is repeatedly trampled on the ground, and once the other party is a little unhappy, your future life will be very sad.
After disconnecting from society, women are easily rejected
Men are a species that loves the new and hates the old, and their loyalty does not prove that they have justice, but because they do not have objects and things around them that can make them feel good. Once they are poked in the eye, the probability of them cheating is very high.
If at this time, his wife is very disappointed in herself, and every day after returning home, she is tortured like a prisoner, then what man can compromise and choose to stay the same and find a way to change the status quo?
The gap between full-time mothers and working mothers with children is not a star and a half, not just grades
Children brought out by working mothers have a more confident personality and are more sunny
In a family, the mother's behavior will affect the child 100%. If your mother is a full-time wife, who is constantly doing housework and serving the family every day, then the child will also despise the mother, and even have an illusion, is the person in front of him his own mother, or the nanny at home?
Coupled with the father's contempt for the stay-at-home mother, in their eyes, the wife is their servant, and the way of speaking and expectations will also reveal dissatisfaction and contempt. After these behaviors are seen by the child, imitation is the inevitable result.
The children brought out by working mothers are different, because the mother has a job, after earning a certain salary, it will occupy a certain position in the family, and the father will not ask the mother to do housework too much, and the two people sharing together has become the norm.
In this way, the living atmosphere created by the latter is much better than the former, at least relaxed and democratic, which helps to cultivate children's confident and optimistic personality and attitude towards the world, and they will also respect their mothers more.
Children brought out by stay-at-home mothers will have relatively poor academic performance
In our impression, if the mother is a full-time wife, there will be more time to manage the child's learning, take the child to participate in more training classes, but it is this life model that will cause the child to be more rebellious and dislike learning more.
On the one hand, because full-time mothers will put all their hopes on their children, they are like this in their lives, even if they are despised by their husbands, it does not matter, they will do their best to cultivate their children. It's hard to avoid them pushing too hard.
On the other hand, they are even more impatient. The daily chores have annoyed them so much that if the children are not obedient, they are really on the verge of collapse. So whether the child is learning or playing, the mother always lacks patience.
In this way, the over-disciplined children will want to break free from the clutches of their mothers, deliberately make mistakes to see their mothers go crazy will become their source of happiness, and then fall into a vicious circle, how can academic performance be good?
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